New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login244976 questions, 1084356 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap
*ammie agony aunt

*ammie

(Female   XML/RSS

Like what she writes?
... Add *ammie to your favourite agony aunts

Want to get in touch?
... Send *ammie a private message

*ammie's Ratings
Excellent38%
Average19%
Poor42%

Her daughter was abused and now Mom needs advice on how to help her little girl.

Q.   hey guys n gals. im an aunt on here but i wish to remain anon. my question is on behalf of a member of my family. lets call her lauren. lauren has an 8year old daughter who has just recently told her that she has been sexually abuse...

A.   6 July 2006: hya i think it is hard when it comes to things like this i think that the only thing she can do is be there for her no matter what be the shoulder to cry on and be there when she does want to talk because she will one day and when she does she will ... (read in full...)

What age to wean a baby off her pacifier/dummy?

Q.   At what age should a baby be weaned off her pacifier? Is there any harm in leaving her on it too long? Any advice from mom's who've been through this?...

A.   6 July 2006: hya i think about 1 yrs old just make sure you get them all one day and then make them all go you could give her something else to confort her/his like a teddy (herhis favorate one) and see how you go it might be hard but persavere and it will be ... (read in full...)

Any advice for dealing with my kids hayfever?

Q.   How is everyone dealing with their children who have allergies? Both my kids (8 and 12) suffer terribly with hayfever this time of year. The medications they need to use are a hassle and sometimes mornings or evenings get skipped. They are just ...

A.   6 July 2006: ya i have sufford from hay fever all my life it is horrible and it is hard my mum used to always make sure that i had my medication morning afternoon and night even if my hay fever wasnt bad i still had it because it worked better when used ... (read in full...)

My 4 year old has a hyperactivity disorder and it's exhausting me? Any advice

Q.   hi, my nearly four year old daughter who I think may have some sort of hyperactivity disorder, is driving me to distraction. she has recently started to have violent tantrums and has hurt my son who is 7, and myself in the process. i can't think of ...

A.   6 July 2006: hya hunni i think there is a possible chance that she could have adhd which in that case she will need to go to see a doctor bacause then she will need to have some medication which will help calm her down and they will refere you to support groups ... (read in full...)

My son is impatient and gets mad about this - any ideas?

Q.   My son will scream violently if i dont't do something for him right away, even if i have said yes! The problem them esculates where he loses control and will lash out at me, then we end up with world war 3, he is generally a good boy, but this one i ...

A.   6 July 2006: hya hunni this is a hard one because i no how hard it is to see you baby upset no matter how old they are and sometimes you wish you could just let them have everything that they want but that isnt the case i will tell you what i didi for my little ... (read in full...)

Could our arguing be affecting our little girl?

Q.   We have a 3 year old little girl. Me and my husband often have conflicts at home and sometimes we raise our voices and be irritable towards each other.How is it affecting her?...

A.   6 July 2006: hya hunni well if the little girl is around you arguing quite alot or even if she can hear it there is a chance that it can worry here and maybe frighten her abit but also she may grow up thinking that that is how we are suposed to live shouting at ... (read in full...)

He views porn and masturbates in bed next to me while I sleep...then denys it. I can't take this anymore! Help

Q.   Hi, my bf and i have been together for almost 3 years. I have been finding that he keeps lying about looking at porn and i know for a fact he has as i have found the evidence and have even herd him getting off to it while he though i was in bed asle...

A.   6 July 2006: hya hunni i think that you should give it one last try to talk to him just let him no that you hate the fact that he is lying about it when you no that he is watching it and geting of to it becaue you hav heard him many of times and the thing that ... (read in full...)

First I said yes I would, now I don't want to

Q.   Hia, Me and my boyfriend have been going out for just over 2 weeks. He's much more experianced than me (He's 15, and I'm 13). The other day he asked me if I would give him a hand job (wank him off), and I said yes. He's coming over my house on Tuesd...

A.   6 July 2006: well hunni i think that 13 is a very young age and if you dont feel ready to do that then dont do it and he should respect that if it feels right go for it but any thoughts on not wanting to then that means you are not ready it doesnt mean you dont ... (read in full...)

I'm going to miss the place I used to have in my daughter's heart when she gets married...

Q.   How do I get over the fact that I wont be #1 in my daughter's life after she gets married? My 30 yr old daughter is getting married, and well, it's making me nervous. I'm her dad and she's my "little girl" and I feel like I'm losing her. She ...

A.   6 July 2006: i think that you will always have that special place in her heart your her dad and no one can ever replace you no matter wot that bond will never go just because she is getting married it dont mean you cant go on holiday with her it just means there ... (read in full...)

Too self-conscious to get a pro to give me a wax, and not ready to shave it again!

Q.   Hey I'm 16 and I'm really really worried and scared. I'm a wax virgin in all areas and my boyfriend and I have decided that our next step is "oral" but I'm so scared because "down there" is really bad. I don't want to put him off but I'm really ...

A.   5 July 2006: hya hunni well i think that if you think you will feel better with it all of then try to pluck up the courage and get it waxed it really isnt as bad as some people say i get mine done all the time and i think its better even if you dont get it all ... (read in full...)

Got dumped by my BF because I was a "terrible kisser". Now I'm worried about my kissing skills!

Q.   hey um.. This is kinda awkward for me. I've never done this before, liked asked a question like this. I'm really inexperienced and this guy I'm with knows every trick in the book (if you get my meaning). I'm worried that I'll put him off becuase ...

A.   5 July 2006: hya hunni well i think you dont need to worry i think it all comes natural and it depends on who you are with to how you kiss i say dont worry about it and go with the flow and it will all be ok this other guy he might of been the bad kisser and you ... (read in full...)

Is this implant making me sick or could i br pregant??

Q.   I've had the implant in my arm 4 about 8weeks and i've started bein sick in th mornings and im feelin tierd all the time. I'm scared about gettin a pregnancy test dont want ppl to think im a tart or out. Could this be just the implant gettin u...

A.   2 July 2006: hya i think there is a very good chance that it is the implant that is makeing you feel like this bacause everyones body deals with things in different ways and this could be your bodies way of dealing with it but if you are worried i would say go ... (read in full...)

How do I reassure my friend his od wast her fault??

Q.   One of my best friends is blaming herself for our guy friend's drug overdose. He asked her out not long before he o/d'd, and she turned him down. I've tried to assure her that it wasn't her fault, but she insists that she "pushed him over the edge". ...

A.   2 July 2006: hya well i think in a situation like this it is very hard to convince someone that it is not there fault i no this i have a friend who was the same i think all you could do really is just keep reasuring her it wasnt her fault and just be there for ... (read in full...)

Fingering doesn't feel that great to me. Will I never have an orgasm?

Q.   When my boyfriend fingers me I don't feel anything 'nice' at all, even when he rubs where my clitoris is. I've never had sex and I'm worried I won't be able to have an orgasm....

A.   1 July 2006: not everyone enjoys being fingered it is just one of them things i just think maybe you should tell him then you can think of things that will be better there is other things he could use on you there are plenty of sex toys out there for you to try ... (read in full...)

I want to be friends with my ex... She wants to be lovers!

Q.   I've got an ex-girlfriend who I have been on and off with for a few years. She's got an ex who was abusive before I came along, so its been a challenging relationship getting her to trust me. Over long or short, we are now apart and she wants to get ...

A.   1 July 2006: hya josh well the only thing i can suggest is that you stay away for a while not in a horrible way but if she is still having these feeling for you then it is best to stay clear ntill she gets over it then you might be able to be friends then it is ... (read in full...)

My shyness drove my guy away!

Q.   I think I messed up my relationship with my boyf.At first he was treating me more as a friend and I hated it but one day he put his arm around me and i pushed him off!I didnt say anything I just kindve pulled away.I think now he might be getting ...

A.   1 July 2006: hya i think what you should do is pluk up the courage and sit down with him and talk to him just tell him exactly how you feel about him and what it is that you want out of the relationship let him no that you are abit shy and that is why you pulled ... (read in full...)

*ammie's friends

These are mutual friends, so *ammie has added them and they have added *ammie!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0780960999982199!