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Hi, I'm 28 years old, and I'm a happy person. I went through some difficult periods but now I've just raised like phoenix. My message to you is : You can, you can live despite all difficulties, despite despair. You can be happy again, as never before.:)

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Please tell me how to get over this breakup...

Q.   Hello everybody my name is alex and i am 22 years old, and im on here because i seriously need help with my situation i have talked to many people many friends but i feel like i need the outside of this world for help,and i need to get this of my ch...

A.   10 August 2009: I understand you, the same thing happened to me, you have to go ahead, you have to forget! You must be strong! I live, you can live too. R.... (read in full...)

I'm scared that the woman I cheated with is no longer interested....what do I do?

Q.   OK I'm at my wits end. Over the last year, I've developed a relationship with a co-worker and I know for a fact that I've fallen in love. One problem. I'm married. My wife find out about the affair that started about a year ago. For awhile, we ...

A.   8 August 2009: Hi, my only answer is that: be a man, she won't come back if you wait for her. A year ... year is nothing but it's really stupid to wait for somebody who is just having fun, having sex and living with another guy! lol Do you really want to b... (read in full...)

Is it possible for me to be with him and have my independance too?

Q.   Help! I don't know who I have become. I've become someone I despise; an overbearing, desperate, needy girl. I never thought it would happen to me. I thought I was more independent than that. My bf broke up with me. I texted him and asked him to work ...

A.   8 August 2009: Hi, Can you tell me why he told you: "I was invading his space and he felt so uncomfortable and that he was being forced to be with me because I didn't give him a choice" For me it seems that his rules are not your rules. I'm talking about th... (read in full...)

He's going to jail... will we ever have a chance of being together?

Q.   My long-time good friend always liked me. Our age difference was too much for me at the time, but I did like him back. About 3.5 years ago I got into a bad relationship and lost contact with my friend. We recently started talking again an...

A.   8 August 2009: Hi, well frankly speaking i have an impression that you look at him just like an old friend from old times, but we all changed. We change all the time. the question is, why do you love him? what is so unique with him that you know he is the one? Y... (read in full...)

How can I move on when I love him so much?

Q.   I know my boyfriend loves me more than he's ever loved anybody. And i know that these feelings scare him. He always gets too scared and breaks up with me. He's done it twice. Recently i found out that the first time we broke up he slept with someone ...

A.   8 August 2009: Hi, SouthernNewbie is totally right, this guy is just a guy, but you need a man, a real man. Good guys don't do such things. It's a matter of a character, strong will and being honest. People don't change very often, he probably won't be an excep... (read in full...)

How can he like and keep two girls at the same time, should I continue this relationship?

Q.   hi, i am very confused about my relationship with my boyfriend. We've known each other for 2years now, and i got into the relatinship knowing he wouldn't marry me due to his family who din't agree his marriage outside of their caste. but we lo...

A.   8 August 2009: Hi, The only answer is break up!!!! Why this is so simple? If he cared about you he wouldn't mention about her. Another thing, how can you be with a man that tells you straight in your face that you can't be his wife! If you don't have selfrespect... (read in full...)

My wife is not as interested sexually in me as she was with her ex'es!

Q.   what to do when my wife is not as interested in me sexually as she was with her exes? i've been married for just over two years. throughout our marriage my wife has never been that into sex with me. while we were dating, it was a problem. and it ...

A.   8 August 2009: Hi, I would like to help you, I hope so, i will. You need to solve that, otherwise it's gonnna be bad for your marriage. Ok, lets start. Can you tell me how close to each other you are? Do you tell her about your love, and does she say that ... (read in full...)

How can I choose where to live... my country or his?

Q.   Hi, i really need some advice. I have been in a long distance relationship for 6 years now..we are very much in love but are unable to decide where to set up home..in my country uk or his Malta. He is the only child and has elderly parents ...

A.   8 August 2009: Hi, I think that none of you want to make a move, but if you really want to together you have to do it. I must admit, it's difficult, but what do you really need? Your family, your job or him? You could phone your family from malta, and come ... (read in full...)

Please help...we've broken up and I want her back, what should I do?

Q.   I have a diffcult question that i can't resolve can anyone help! My girl and i have had a lovely time with each other, we always talked about everything and anything. When i met her a year and 1 month ago we started to date each other and n...

A.   8 August 2009: Hi Chris, Have you asked yourself what is the real reason of that situation? How much time do you spend together? What kind of person are you in relationships? Do you agree with all her ideas and suggestions? Are you just a strict guy? Women love ... (read in full...)

My Girlfriend of almost 2 years has split with me. She says if it's meant to be, we'll be together some day. Is there still hope?

Q.   My girlfriend of almost 2 years just broke up with me. She said that she loved me more like a brother than a boyfriend. She keeps saying that anything can happen and if we're meant to be together we'll be together. But she doesn't want to try to fix ...

A.   8 August 2009: Hi, the first thing which comes to my mind is very obvious one. I know, it hurts but SHE DOESN'T LOVE YOU ANYMORE. yep man, im so sure of that. My exgirlfriend didn't love me, so we enden this. I was shocked but the truth is just so powerfull. As... (read in full...)

I love my husband and would never intentionally hurt him, but I think I'm falling for someone else... what do I do?

Q.   I often wonder how I ended up here, I mean right in this moment, pining for someone I can not have, when I have someone so wonderful by my side. I’m married and in over a week, we’ll be sharing our first anniversary, together. I believe in the vows...

A.   8 August 2009: ok, I see, remember I'm not judging you. I just want to tell you that you will not be happy if you just look for happines in another new man. A new man will be an old man in the future. Ask yourself: what did you see in your husband when you were ... (read in full...)

I love my husband and would never intentionally hurt him, but I think I'm falling for someone else... what do I do?

Q.   I often wonder how I ended up here, I mean right in this moment, pining for someone I can not have, when I have someone so wonderful by my side. I’m married and in over a week, we’ll be sharing our first anniversary, together. I believe in the vows...

A.   8 August 2009: Hi, what can i say ... You are an idealist, am I right? You believe in an imaginary soul mates? what is that? what is that you really want? I know that many people want things they do not have or can't have. You must ask yourself: what mig... (read in full...)

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