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I am divorced but currently dating, as you can read my question I can try to relate to someone who is going through the same thing I am, and I would try to give them a concrete and rational answer without being biased. I live in New Jersey!!! ANd my motto is live each day ..day by day...and "you make a fool out of me once, shame on you, you make a fool out of me twice..shame on me!!!"

We broke up bitterly, I said some awful things, he does not want to talk, should I apologize with a letter and keep moving on?

Q.   After dating for 3 years, 2 months ago my boyfriend broke up with me. It was a terrible breakup, I still cannot believe how everything went down. I think about it and it infuriates me, that I gave him my love. One day I am upset and then the next ...

A.   26 May 2009: Thank you all who answered my question. Although my exboyfriend initiated the breakup, He insulted my character. For 3 years I was there for him, because I loved him. One day he loved me and the next he turns on me. I know he is grieving the loss ... (read in full...)

Volatile, stubborn, disrespectful, blown out of proportions

Q.   Hi.......how can a person who you loved so dearly one day and something ticked him off, he made up these things in his head he became overly jealous, he is going through a terrible loss and not in his right mind. BUt that gave him no excuse to ...

A.   20 May 2009: I haven't heard from my ex in almost 2 months, how can he dislike me so much.... (read in full...)

Volatile, stubborn, disrespectful, blown out of proportions

Q.   Hi.......how can a person who you loved so dearly one day and something ticked him off, he made up these things in his head he became overly jealous, he is going through a terrible loss and not in his right mind. BUt that gave him no excuse to ...

A.   20 May 2009: He is a reserved person. He is in law enforecment, so he does not open up much. He is 45, married when he was 19 and was married for 17 years until his exwife cheated on him left and right. He wanted this marriage to work, he bought her a house they ... (read in full...)

Should I walk away???

Q.   Thank you all for trying to help me with my dilemma. I am no child, he broke up with me about a month ago. He said some degrading things to me that are were not true. We were together for 3yrs and I accepted things that I would of normally walked ...

A.   5 May 2009: Ps: I called him a lying, distrustful,cold cheater, and other not to nice words and I know he was fuming...but I can't always be nice and sweet...I said what I felt from my heart, although I feel that I was justified I know that he hates me for ... (read in full...)

Help.....Why???

Q.   Hi...after 3 years of dating, I feel lost. I don't exactly know what I want from my ex who broke up with me a month ago. This was so sudden that I am so hurt. We have had problems, but I have been the one trying to cater to his ego. He is a ...

A.   5 May 2009: Thank you all who gave me advice. May you all be blessed always for your kindness and willingness to take time out and help us who are in need. ... (read in full...)

Help.....Why???

Q.   Hi...after 3 years of dating, I feel lost. I don't exactly know what I want from my ex who broke up with me a month ago. This was so sudden that I am so hurt. We have had problems, but I have been the one trying to cater to his ego. He is a ...

A.   4 May 2009: Am I wrong????? for being hurt or should I just let time go and him go?... (read in full...)

Help.....Why???

Q.   Hi...after 3 years of dating, I feel lost. I don't exactly know what I want from my ex who broke up with me a month ago. This was so sudden that I am so hurt. We have had problems, but I have been the one trying to cater to his ego. He is a ...

A.   4 May 2009: Well, its been another hard weekend for me without trying to call him. I went to see a therapist I need to get out of this sadness. I know there is something wrong with me when I can only think of the happy times we had, and seem not to remember ... (read in full...)

Help.....Why???

Q.   Hi...after 3 years of dating, I feel lost. I don't exactly know what I want from my ex who broke up with me a month ago. This was so sudden that I am so hurt. We have had problems, but I have been the one trying to cater to his ego. He is a ...

A.   30 April 2009: oh when I say support, I mean emotional support, I have no money just to support my daughter and myself...no man. So he can never say that I was using him for his money. I paid and supported myself...I am looking for a companion not a supporter. ... (read in full...)

Emotionally Hurt......should I send the letter?

Q.   My man and I had an nasty breakup for reasons unbeknow to me. He just stated that I was very disrespectful towards his feelings. We are both adults, and I wanted to talk but I was blamed for something I never did, he went through a terrible event ...

A.   30 April 2009: Well, after praying I came to realization that he may be stressed with the deaths of his brother and father and then of course with his anger towards me...I guess I am not putting myself in his shoes he deals with things on his own, and I may be ... (read in full...)

Emotionally Hurt......should I send the letter?

Q.   My man and I had an nasty breakup for reasons unbeknow to me. He just stated that I was very disrespectful towards his feelings. We are both adults, and I wanted to talk but I was blamed for something I never did, he went through a terrible event ...

A.   29 April 2009: I left a message earlier, what I did say last night went into his voice mail. I am on do not call list. To think how childesh of him. I wish the weeks come and go quickly and I won't to prove to him that I could go on. Although I am hurting like no ... (read in full...)

Emotionally Hurt......should I send the letter?

Q.   My man and I had an nasty breakup for reasons unbeknow to me. He just stated that I was very disrespectful towards his feelings. We are both adults, and I wanted to talk but I was blamed for something I never did, he went through a terrible event ...

A.   29 April 2009: Update...well his sister brought over some candles we ordered a month ago. She stated that the family is grieving and his brother is not taking it very well, I should stay away from him and the family. He does not ever want to hear from me. I am ... (read in full...)

Emotionally Hurt......should I send the letter?

Q.   My man and I had an nasty breakup for reasons unbeknow to me. He just stated that I was very disrespectful towards his feelings. We are both adults, and I wanted to talk but I was blamed for something I never did, he went through a terrible event ...

A.   27 April 2009: Why was I discarded...I felt for him, he survived a horrible divorce...once meeting him he was nice, he worked hard and had a secret that I found out, we worked it out, but things never were the same. When he would get upset he would shut down and ... (read in full...)

Devestated and Confused.........

Q.   Devestated or Relieved: Dated this man 45, i am 45 for the past 4 years, we are both divorced. Things have been fine with little obstacles along the way, but we seemed to overcome them. He is quiet and stubborn and I am the nurturer but want ...

A.   24 April 2009: As of yet no call from him....I do want to make that call, because I know how stubborn he is. I just want to hear from him, why? I feel so lost....help ... (read in full...)

He slept with his ex, Im still with him, I love him, But should I stay!?

Q.   I've been dating this man for 14 months, I thought everything was going well. until 3 weeks ago he told me he went to visit his son from his former gf who only lets him see the child when she wants to, and he works double shifts he can only go when ...

A.   19 May 2007: well thank you all...we are still together...we are taking it day by day...he promises it won't happen again...trust is so hard to give on certain days...but I do pray...on Monday, she had the doctor call my boyfriend to tell him that she had lost ... (read in full...)

He slept with his ex, Im still with him, I love him, But should I stay!?

Q.   I've been dating this man for 14 months, I thought everything was going well. until 3 weeks ago he told me he went to visit his son from his former gf who only lets him see the child when she wants to, and he works double shifts he can only go when ...

A.   19 May 2007: Thank you all for giving me advice on what to do...we are still together, its hard, some days are easier than others, but we are trying to work this out, well about the impending pregancy, she called him on Monday to tell him that she had lost the ... (read in full...)

He slept with his ex, Im still with him, I love him, But should I stay!?

Q.   I've been dating this man for 14 months, I thought everything was going well. until 3 weeks ago he told me he went to visit his son from his former gf who only lets him see the child when she wants to, and he works double shifts he can only go when ...

A.   1 May 2007: I thank you all for helping me with my dilemma. One day I'm feeling good and others I feel horrible....but I will re-read your answers and I will then decide!!! Thanks!!!!!!!!!!... (read in full...)

Can I forgive my boyfriend for cheating? Should I even try?

Q.   I just found out that my boyfriend of 3 years cheated on me with a random woman he met at a bar. I am shocked, devastated and heart-broken. To give you a bit of background, my boyfriend is a wonderful, kind man. He has been asking me to marry hi...

A.   27 April 2007: WOw!! If after the betrayl you still have thoughts of forgiving him, then do it! If he is asking for forgiveness and in your gut feeling you believe him, the do it! Why have anger and disappointment fester within you. It seems like you love this ... (read in full...)

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