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Is it too much fir me to want my wife to wear a little make-up?

Q.   I really need advice.I have been maried for 18 years.my question is we have one dissagrement I would really like it if my wife would wear a little mascara, eye shadow and lipstick.Not everyday just like three or four times a year.l love her she is ...

A.   26 July 2012: I am 38 years old and I've worn makeup maybe two or three times in my entire life. All of those times it was applied by someone other than myself. I personally detest the stuff, I don't like the smell, I don't like the way it feels or looks. ... (read in full...)

Why do people always judge a book by its cover? I want women to see me for who I really am, not just how young I look!

Q.   It's been 5 years since I have been in a serious relationship because mainly I haven't found the right woman for me. I'm 39 I'm a straight male with beautiful blue eyes, but I look a lot younger than my age I look to be about 16 ish maybe 20 tops I ...

A.   21 June 2012: I certainly can't speak for all women, and it's not an issue of mine, but I do know that quite a few women that I know would not be comfortable in a situation with someone who looks so much younger than them. Is it vanity? Perhaps, or perhaps it's ... (read in full...)

I don't really believe him about the Facebook fiasco but I don't know why he would lie about it.

Q.   dear cupid, soo, about a month ago, i asked for advice on here after i found out that my ex-boyfriend (with whom i am basically back together with now) was hiding things from me on facebook; the name of the question was, "should i not make a big d...

A.   30 May 2012: Honestly, it's not a big deal. Facebook's privacy settings have gotten things so jumbled and messed up it's not even funny. My husband will frequently like or share things that his friends post and ask if I saw it, which I didn't because of the ... (read in full...)

Should I believe my girlfriend when she says she 'loves me forever'? I'm worried she is still in love with her ex!

Q.   My gf says she loves me 'forever' LOL, not sure if i should believe it or not. Reason i ask is beacuse she just got out of a 4 year relationship, APROX 1 YEAR AGO, and we got togather about 7 months ago, she thinks her ex was just a lust ...

A.   29 May 2012: So, you're going to punish her for what others have done to you? I understand being wary, but honestly, if she hasn't given you a reason to not believe her then why wouldn't you? Not every woman wants to be treated like crap. You can keep trying ... (read in full...)

Why is he commenting on how I don't stay over as much as he would like, when my life has always been this way?

Q.   Had a good weekend with my boyfriend of 5 months but a couple of things he said has played on my mind. We are both in our 40s, I have a teenage child, he has no children. My home life is a little more chaotic than his and his mum still does his...

A.   28 May 2012: I think you're taking his comments the wrong way. It sounds like he's just trying to let you know how much he enjoys spending time with you and wishes he could have more. I think he's just hoping for some indication that at some point he'll hold a ... (read in full...)

He left me for a younger woman but he still expects me to be kind to him.

Q.   my husband left me for a girl that is 24 years younger than him.when i found out i was crushed, i saw no problems in our marriage. we both worked long hours, spent time together when we had days off. i cooked, cleaned, did yard work, layed his ...

A.   23 May 2012: You don't mention any kids of your own, so my answer is based on there being no children between you and your husband. Do yourself a huge favor. Have enough self respect to move on. Don't be his safety net in case things don't work out with th... (read in full...)

I want anal again but she refuses! What should I do? I want to go with a call girl just for revenge!

Q.   We did it two times but she doesn't want it anymore, the first time was painful to her but the second one she enjoyed because i did it a soft way! Now i desire to have anal intercourse again with her but she doesn't want it, we've talked about th...

A.   4 May 2012: Revenge? For what? She tried it twice, probably didn't enjoy it nearly as much the second time as you thought she did and now doesn't desire doing it again. Consider yourself lucky that she consented to trying it at all, especially trying a ... (read in full...)

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