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Will my red pubic hair turn him off?

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Question - (6 June 2007) 79 Answers - (Newest, 6 September 2008)
A female Canada age 18-21, anonymous writes:

I have never had sex before and my boyfriend has been making moves as if he was going to go down on me. I would love for him to do this but I need some advice on pubic hair. I have red hair and I was wondering if guys are turned off by that since most pubic hair is brown or black. I was also wondering if guys like it bushy, trimmed, or completely off? I know this is objective so I guess I want to know everyone's personal opinion. I was thinking of trimming it but I don't know how to go about it. Could I get some advice on that as well. Thank you very much for all your input (in advance).

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A male reader, JayArthur United States +, writes (6 September 2008):

Let me join in the chorus praising red hair, wherever located. It's by far the best!

At most, do a little trimming. If you take too much off, then you lost the impact of that beautiful red bush!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2008):

red pubes are the the most exotic thing for a guy!!!your right everyone else has black or brown.you dont you have beautiful red,you'll just have to find out how turned on he'll be for yourself!!!what a lucky guy,im jeolous!

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A male reader, romon77 United States +, writes (24 August 2008):

For me, I like it bushy, but natural red pubic hair is the greatest turn on for my friends and myself. With all of the shaving and trimming women are beginning to look like pre-puberty stages. Keep it somewhat bushy, and don't worry there aren't to many natural redheads especially down there, you are truly in one of the most elites groups ever.

In fact tell me where to view natural redheads. What maybe 2% of the women population.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2008):

Nah. A lot of guys I know like redheads because of the red patch. It's unique.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2008):

GOD NO!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2008):

Honey, he should be thrilled. I love red haired women and red pubic hair is the utlimate beauty

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2008):

My wife is a red head and it's such a turn on - tight trimmed with a wide landing strip is magic !!!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2008):

Red is very sexy

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A male reader, dude12546 United States +, writes (18 July 2008):

i used to have a redhead girlfriend

i personally am very turned on by red pubic hair

i would leave it pretty bushy

red hair seriously turns me on ;)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2008):

Every guy loves red pubic hair. Some like it trimmed and others not. I personally like it natural - no trimming. I onlu had a relationship with one natural red woman. The love making was out of this world and the freckles are a bonus. Reds are very special and your BF is very lucky.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2008):

hey,

im a redhead too, so ill share some advice...

i keep my hair down there just as nice as i keep the hair on my head.my hair down there is actually straght and very soft. i shampoo it and conditon it every other day. i also shave my bikini line and trim it a little. when i shave my bikini line, i use conditioner instead of shaving cream. its up to you, just treat it like the hair on your head.

hope this helps! :)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2008):

well personally i am very turned on by red pubic hair and im not some old man either i think leave it but not too bushy trim it up a bit good luck

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2008):

If he is turned off by your red pubic hair, he is either dead or gay. In either event, if he is turned off, get rid of him. I can think of no greater turnon than a red bush.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2008):

hi, i am a red head male and also have red pubic hair, to me personnaly i like red pubic hair, i do like shaved but i like trimmed also, dont care much for unkept pubic hair, i dont think your man will not like it

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2008):

Red pubic hair is a huge turn on for a lot of guys. It's special. Don't change it.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2008):

red pubic hair is a mans dream. he wil cum all nite

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2008):

I to am a red head and I use to think the same thing. Don't be ashamed of what you got. You should be proud to show it to your man. He is very lucky it is rare. I've gotten a lot of compliments from my ex's and my boyfriend of six years now, I hear him brag to his buddies. He says red on top fire in the hole. As far as shaving or trimming. It's what ever you feel comfortable with.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2008):

most guys like the pubes compliantly shaved off.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2008):

Red pubic hair is the ultimate prize. Don't even consider altering it in any way. All the women I have been with have been natural reds, and I intend to keep it that way.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2008):

red pubic hair is REALLY hot, dont shave it all, just trim a little,

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2008):

Good heavens, DON'T shave or trim it! I have been with three reds in my life and presently dating one. That red bush, along with the fair skin and freckles, is one of the greatest turnons there is. Black and brown bushes are all too common. Red pubic hair is unique and so sexy. Leave it alone. Don't even trim it. He is one lucky guy to be able to get to see and feel that.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2008):

loves the red bush--don't take it all off--that would be a crime

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2008):

Are you kidding me? RED HAIR? A turn-off?

Red-heads are a bonus, a super rare collectible item. It should be illegal for a red-haired girl to shave it. Look through fantasy artwork and count the red-heads.

In fantasy it goes like this, black == evil, blond == killed by the bad guy who isn't purely evil, brunette == killed by the bad guy who is truly evil and the girl next door, red == heroine.

Anyway, yes some guys are obsessed with a girl being shaved, don't know why, but some are.

Best is probably to trim it, keep the bush under control. For oral sex to many hairs can get in the way, but this matters more around the vagina then at the top of your bush.

Basically treat it the same as the hair on top of your head, you wouldn't completely shave that would you? But you would maintain it and not just let it grow wild.

Trimming is simply done with a pair of scissors and possibly bikini wax.

Going bald, no. I personally think of it as those naked cats. The fur is part of a cat, without it just looks. Well google for it. Not all vagina's are meant to be seen naked.

It is also a lot of hassle for the girl especially is she doesn't pay it constant attention.

But you are a REDHEAD, the patch down there is the proof you are a real redhead. It would be like tearing the tag of a rare collectors item.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2008):

As long as your pubic hair is not too long and wont get in the way, it is more attractive than brown or black and your byfriend should enjoy.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2008):

Hold it, don't do anything except trimming. The site of a red bush would get any guy rock hard and fast!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2008):

By the way the " Firecrotch" crack was from a retard so don't let that intimidate you into hiding your sexy asset!! Good luck again

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2008):

I absolutely love redheads! I don't know one guy that would be turned off by your red pubic hair. As for shaving, it is incredibly sexy but for a woman to go bare but in your case you have an advantage. Just trim your garden with scissors and touch up with a razor (electric or regular). I guarantee your BF will be turned on and spend alot of time pleasing you! I know I would! Good luck

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2008):

Are You serious? Yeah, You are, that's OK.

A Red, full bush is the most gorgeous, rare and arousing thing a man could ever hope to see. I speak from experience.

Don't ever be ashamed of what You have and don't ever shave.

Rick

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 February 2008):

Most likely it won't be a turn-off. Generally you'll want to shave above your panty line, and from your clitoris down. Be creative. As for going bald, thats up to you.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2008):

DON'T DO ANYTHING to that SUCKulent red bush! It is THE hottest and sexiest type that there is! Besides, that is what he probably is dying to get at... I know that red pubes motivate me more than anything else!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2008):

look im a gut an i luv red pubes or none at all it all depends .

ask him, most guys will tell u strait up

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2008):

I am most turned on by redpubic hair actually

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2008):

Hello--

Red pubic hair is wonderful as long as it's clean. In fact, a good shower with hot soap and water is recommended at least once a day even in winter.

Trimming pubic hair should be done with sharp scissors to trim down wild hairs, especially those that might show outside panty legs. But shaving is a personal thing. The longer you do it, the rougher it becomes.

After trimming with sharp scissors to desired length, wet the area with warm water. A tongue will also work. To shave, wash the area well w/ soap and water, then use either shampoo or shaving cream. Using a new razor blade, shave the area. Use an unscented lotion to treat irritation. It shouldn't be shaved more than once a week.

It will be warm and juicy and your bfriend will just love you for smelling so good.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2008):

i am greatly turned on by red pubic hair as are most guys so if you trim leave plenty on top for me

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2008):

red pubic hair is a turn on. all men like different things. myself i like variety sometimes hairy, sometimes clean. but don't worry about him not being happy it is not about the color it is all about the passion.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2008):

OMG no - I LOVE lots of pubic hair, and red is the sexiest. Leave it as-is, and he'll love it.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2008):

There are two reasons why you should leave your pubic hair just as it is.

First, as you can see, there are many opinions out there. The majority of men prefer a woman just as she is. Especially redheads (if the collar matches the cuffs, so to speak).

The second reason will probably gross you out, but take my word for it. The pubic hair retains both the natural odor of the vagina, and the faint odor of urine. The natural odor that emanates from a woman's vagina is one of the strongest turn-ons you can imagine. No, come to think of it, you can't imagine. Believe me, it's true.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2008):

I LOVE full pubes. I seriously find it SO much more feminine and "Earthy" than the shaved/trimmed look....and red ones are BEAUTIFUL! I mean it....I LOVE it when a woman lets her pubic hair grow naturally. I really do. It's very feminine.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2008):

absolutely not. Red pubes are a huge turn on. If you bf wont do it I would

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2007):

A full red bush would be a huge turn on. Don't shave or trim. You have an erotic gift.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2007):

well i like red heads alot and my gf is red she shaves hers but i mean it would be fine if she just trimmed.. i would trim if i where u.. cause if u shave its itchy. your bf will tell u if he wants it shaved after he gos down on u: )

good luck

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2007):

For me I think the more bushy it is the sexier. I like it ver very bushy.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2007):

i think that red hair is a turn on ... not too many out there and since its rare i think keeping some maybe a little more than most. i also agree trimming in shapes is a turn on as well it gives a sense of your mood

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2007):

dear!

boys loves to have a sex with the colored pubic hairs..

if you will trimmed them and give them a shape of heart believe me your boy friend will never let you leave...

you are lucky enough that you have a red hairs....

for more tips you can contact me at

[email address blocked]

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2007):

Personally, I think red pubic hair is a HUGE turn on!! Yum!! Trust me, he will love it! I prefer bushy hair, especially if red.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2007):

I think red pubes are incredibly sexy. Definately trim it back with short hair on top and none at the bottom...it's really bad to get hair in your mouth.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2007):

there is nothing more beautiful than a women in good shape with red {strawberry red} pubic hair . i speak from experience, several times.............

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2007):

Guys love red pubes, but you should probably trim them a bit. My advice is to get a beard trimmer (sounds funny, but not a joke), set it on a short setting, and go to town.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2007):

Red pubes are a turn on, my personal choice would be completly shaved specially if he is going down for oral (it isn't nice when pubes go into your throat). Good luck

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2007):

I personally prefer red pubic hair on women and trimmed is nice as well. I do not like "smoothies" where the pubic hair is shaved completely...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2007):

Don't let it worry you girl. Let him go for it. There is no more a turn on than red pubes. What does confuse me is that you'r thinking about being growled out but haven't sat on a cock yet. Eat and greet the meat

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2007):

I for one LOVE red pubic hair! dont worry about it!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2007):

my god, girl .... if your guy doesnt like your fire, his loss.. mmmmmmm....red....

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2007):

Hi, first of all everyone has different tastes and he can see that you have red hair so im guessing that he'd realise