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Want to lose my virginity but I'm scared I'll bleed. What should I do?

Q.   I'm fourteen, and i'm in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost two years, and we want to have sex soon. I'm afraid, because if he goes really fast, I'll bleed, and I don't want to bleed all over him, because if y ou're a virgin and you pop ...

A.   30 July 2009: Tell him to take it slow. That you want to wait when you get married. He'll love you more later on in life.... (read in full...)

How can I help my mum with her depression?

Q.   my mum just told me that shes really depressed and she has just gone onto anti deppressants. i dont know what to do. help?...

A.   29 July 2009: jus try to take her out more often. Ask her to go church too that will help.sign her up to a gym so she can exercise. Good luck... (read in full...)

Is he messing me about?

Q.   I have known this lad for 10years. We was together for 2years a few years ago. But broke it off because our family's didn't get on and kept on arguing. A few years later and we get talking again. He says he loves me and then whenever he says he ...

A.   29 July 2009: Just don't ask him to come see you. let him decide so he won't have anymore excuses.just stay in silence for a while to see exactly where he stands. Good luck... (read in full...)

I had a brief affair with a married man, he's avoiding me now... how do I get him back?

Q.   i am a 29 year old career woman, have known this guy for a few months, through work, ( i work in HQ level and he works in district level, and our department recently has been doing collaboration with him, which he is the developer and i am the ...

A.   27 July 2009: honney just let it go. It's not because you love him and you can't go on. It's the rejection that hurts. The way he dumped you. So don't have no sympathy for this dug. I am talking to any woman in this situation too. Jus be yourself again. Me ... (read in full...)

I'm still in love with him but now he's married! The pain is unbearable...

Q.   I have been in love with my ex boyfriend for 7 years, we broke up 7 years ago. I cant explain how he made me feel, this is true love, I have thought about him almost every day since we broke up, I have been in another relationship that lasted 5 ...

A.   27 July 2009: to me it's like you have some type of remorse. was that you who initiate the break up? did you do something to him you should not do? we need ome more input to your story. I would love to comment.... (read in full...)

I'm single, he's married..should I let him leave and see if he comes back?

Q.   well im new to this an i have been viewing other peoples questions and it seems that my "issue/need of advice" on this topic isnt as uncommon as i thought it would be.. wellllllllllll to start off im a young female between age of 21-24 i met my g...

A.   27 July 2009: First of all, I am going to answer to the last post.I'm glad cause I don't repeat any trash people are saying. a 'home wrecker' some people say it means stealing a man from a woman. How can someone has such power to destroy a happy relationship. I ... (read in full...)

He's gone home to his wife and isn't talking to me. Why?

Q.   I have a boyfriend right now that I live with him already for 8 months, at the beginning he already told me that he had a cold-heart, he don't give a dump to the feeling of others, but I love this guy so I did my best to have a good relationship ...

A.   17 July 2009: My problem on asking women for advice is that, first of all SOME of them are not being honest with themselves. lol. for instance they're start judging people like they are perfect. Remember I said SOME not all women. 2nd of all, A lot of Females a... (read in full...)

Mistresses we need to stop!

Q.   When are we going learn? I must of read about 50 stories about mistresses hoping their married lovers leave their wives, or why they are not calling. I was just someone's mistress myself for almost two years. One thing we all have in common is we ...

A.   17 July 2009: Hunni a woman should try hard to keep his man,spoiled his man, and love his man a long as their both should live. If a woman get tired of doing that, she gonna end up loosing her man. Now who to blame? is she innocent? nooo. Then again a lot of t... (read in full...)

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