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writes:I'm fourteen, and i'm in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost two years, and we want to have sex soon. I'm afraid, because if he goes really fast, I'll bleed, and I don't want to bleed all over him, because if y ou're a virgin and you pop your cherry or whatever? Just tell me what I should do please, thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, Pola +, writes (30 July 2009):
 Tell him to take it slow. That you want to wait when you get married. He'll love you more later on in life.
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reader, night gurl +, writes (27 July 2009):
 theirs nothin u can do hun u dont bleed alot but wen u have sex ur hyamn brakes and its like skining ur knee it wont bleed alot so dont worry u might wana think bout ur age though
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reader, night gurl +, writes (27 July 2009):
theirs nothin u can do hun u dont bleed alot but wen u have sex ur hyamn brakes and its like skining ur knee it wont bleed alot so dont worry u might wana think bout ur age though
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2009): you may not bleed or feel pain.from experience i had no blood and felt no pain just pleasure.i hope it works out like that for you x
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2009): I lost my virginity when i was 13 (don't regret it) and all you need to do is tell him to go slow. Don't worry about bleeding (tell him you might first just to warn him) I didn't bleed but it mostly happens after.good luck
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reader, Traviesa_7768 +, writes (25 July 2009):
 Im not anyone to tell you not to have sex or to say yeah sure go ahead. because at the end of the day its YOUR choice. i lost my virginity a month ago and from my experience it did hurt a bit
but it wasnt as bad as i though that it was going to be. dont worry about the bleeding because if you do its normal. and anyways i dont think that you should bleed alot.
yes you are young and you might ot be emotionally ready but im not one to judge because for all i know you can bbe the most mature 14 year old out there.
Just think about it well before you do have sex. Just make sure that it is what you truely want and be sure to use protection
hope that this helped in some way
be safe =)
and good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2009): SEX=DEATH.
But anyway.. the hymen will break if it hasn't already due to some other activity but there is not much blood and not usually seen until after the entercourse.. But you're very young.. so you should withstand.
~Sy.
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reader, sarahbennett95  +, writes (22 July 2009):
Yeaaa agreed,
Im 14 and i lost it on mt 14th birthday and have since had sex twice,
Hes my boyfriend, andi love him, trust him,
And i know he feels the same,
Both times it hurt for me,
But i didnt bleed,
And i think its different for everyone,
x
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2009): You shouldn't have sex cause ur gonna screw up ur life. Ur not emotionally prepared for this descion at age 14 i was thinking about colleges not messing around.
Don't do it.
But if u choose to go ahead, ur gonna bleed all over the place and it's gonna hurt like alot just remeber to use a condom and that it doesn't protect against std's and it's only 96% effective.
Good luck
&&
Stay Safe
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reader, Alexiedos +, writes (22 July 2009):
 You are just fourteen! I was seventeen when i lost my virginity and guess what i bled everywhere! all over the bed. Yes he went very fast and i wasnt turned on because of the pain. If you still want to do this make sure you tell him to take it slow and do lots of foreplay and make sure you are really turned on before he goes there, if not you will never forget how bad it can be. It also may take a long time to learn how to orgasm. Its your choice i would wait until i was ready to cope with the change you feel afterwards.
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reader, yorkie po-oh  +, writes (22 July 2009):
 u should have sex with him an dont worry bout that thats prob. not gonna happen but tel him to not go to fast then
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