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Why has he stopped noticing me?

Q.   So there is this guy I have liked for ages, he used to always look at me and smile. He said hi once and I said hi back, but lately its like he has been ignoring me. I catch him looking at me but when I look at him its like he doesn't notice me. Any ...

A.   10 April 2011: It became boring, dull and repetitive. After a certain amount of time the guy will think a little and wonder why he smiles at you, he will question the use of giving you this small attention. He still likes you, no doubt about that. What changed ... (read in full...)

I plan to be independent, but don't know how to tell him.

Q.   I'm studying Eng.,and he is my classmate, we both love each other, but he gets angry whenever i talk to boys, he also told me not to wear jeans, and also tells me that after our marriage i have to leave my job because I have to take care of his ...

A.   10 April 2011: @ StarryEyes101: She's indian, and its common in that country to treat girls like that. If he act like a typical indian husband and controls you, act like a typical indian wife and refuse him sex and bug him about all his faults all the time.... (read in full...)

I'm shy but don't want to be!

Q.   hi everyone i'm a very shy person but i don't want to be. I always want to talk to others but i just can't. i always chicken out. and when i am with someone i always worry about what to talk about and always thing of something to say. i also ...

A.   10 April 2011: Its easy to say, "Just talk". But it will seem impossible to you. You think that nothing will be worst than say something stupid, and end up being laughed at and be tagged "Dumb clown" for the rest of your school years. You have very little social p... (read in full...)

Why can't I return my partner's physical affection?

Q.   i cant cuddle or kiss my partner when he cuddles me. i keep my arms down when he leans in for a kiss and i turn my head. he has noticed this and i had no idea i was doing this even now when i know i do it, i cant stop it. why is this?...

A.   8 April 2011: You are getting bored. You feel no desire on getting something you already have. Thats your very own problem, not your partner's. The only way to realise how special something is, is to lose it.(In some cases, like yours). Unfortunately.... (read in full...)

How am I giving out signals that I'm gay? only my sister knows. But this straight guy has shown interest in me

Q.   recently a guy from my class text and ask me "are you plu?" what is that suppose to mean? is he interested in me? to be honest, i can't even believe that he will ask such question, mainly because he is those type of straight acting dude. i'm bi and ...

A.   8 April 2011: I'm straight, but i've been approached by gays. Its seem they sometimes get desperate and try their luck on straight guys also. I've notice gays are very far away from this macho and manly ego stuff. They seem more sensitive. However you re... (read in full...)

I am secretly dating my cousin. Now her sister is threatening to tell our family about it unless we have sex with her, too!

Q.   Ok, My cousin and I have been dating for close to a year without either of our families knowing or finding out. But just recently, her younger sister came forward to us about knowing about our relationship. She's threatening to tell our respective ...

A.   8 April 2011: Is this a joke???... (read in full...)

How can I get laid without lowering my standards?

Q.   I've only dated people that I had really good chemistry with before, but it's been over a year since I've met anyone I'm interested in. It's hard for me to meet new people since moving to a new city and working around 80 hours a week. I thou...

A.   7 April 2011: I wanted to say something but "livelaughlove23" said it before. So i agree with her advice.... (read in full...)

I want to get married, but she had 1 minute intercourse with a man while we were on a three month separation...Should I let this bother me?

Q.   I been with my girlfriend for a very long time and we both are thinking about marriage. We have everything we want in one another. I just have question if everything you and your girlfriend did sexually was both of your guys first besides a a ...

A.   7 April 2011: You felt it would be good to break-up. So now here's the conclusion. She had sex or almost. I would be bothered but i can't deny the fact that she had the right to do it, because you took a break from the relationship. So you have a share of the b... (read in full...)

Men what is the right number of times to call?

Q.   Men how often would you like for a woman, or your partner, to call you in a day or a week where you would not get aggravated when you two don't live in the same house. Thanks...

A.   6 April 2011: It depends on my timetable. Actually with my work, friends, relaxation, ect... i don't give her more than 4 minutes call, 2 times per day.... (read in full...)

Questions about intercourse and condoms

Q.   Hey guys, when you have sex and are using a condom, do you get more pleasure out of putting it on yourself, or would you prefer she was the one who put it on? Also, when having intercourse, do you ever feel the head of your penis touching her ...

A.   6 April 2011: I prefer not put a condom. Unfortunately STDs forces you to. I prefer to put it myself. No i've never touched her cevix. They always seem satisfied in the end, if not the immitate satisfaction really well.... (read in full...)

GF just told me she was promiscuous in college. Can't get it out of my head.

Q.   I have been in a serious relationship with this girl for over a year now. We live together and split everything and love each other so. Out for drinks the other night we got on the subject of past sexual history. We didn't divulge our numbers but ...

A.   6 April 2011: Yes it will. Unfortunately, the past is something which hunt us to the very end. You can ignore it now but one day you'll feel the full force of it, and i prefer not imagine the result. ... (read in full...)

I lied. How can I pretend to be good in bed with no experience?

Q.   So i've told all my group of friends that i'm not a virgin and they all think i'm good in bed, i've never said i am but for some reason i let off that i am. The thing is theres this one guy in my group of friends who i really like and he likes me, ...

A.   6 April 2011: Good in bed??? hahaha Just get naked and lay on the bed, thats all, he'll do the rest. Ok, so a guy doesn't make sex as a girl. I girl might prefer it gentle and slow penetration and then gets faster. A guy prefers hard blowjobs or handjob... (read in full...)

Didn't hear from her for months. Do you think she still cares?

Q.   i met this gal ages ago about October last year online we have been talking a lot until few months ago i emailed her no reply for some weeks. i got a reply today does she still love me and why has she replied so late to my email??? please help ...

A.   6 April 2011: She has something else going in her life,,,obvious. You are not the center of her life, accept it.... (read in full...)

What is your opinion on my current relationship?

Q.   Well just recently maybe half a year ago a friend of mine had introduced me to her little brother and we had been talking ever since To be honest i just thought that he was another really hot guy that id never get the chance to be with but ive want...

A.   4 April 2011: Its chemicals in your brains, Adrenaline, Dopamine, Serotonin. Attraction is natural. Think on the long-term. Maybe waiting will be too long for you and you'll cheat. Just think if you are strong enough. ... (read in full...)

Is my boyfriend not possesive or is he just acting?

Q.   i am in a committed ldr relationship since 1 year and 6 months. recently i had a farewell as i study in grade 12. we had a party in a party hall .but before going to party ,we all went to school to attend the school farewell .there we had to...

A.   4 April 2011: You seem mean. If he reacted, you'd say he's crazy. If you know he'll not like it, you shouldn't have done it. He maybe acting. You seem immature.... (read in full...)

Why do all women shave down there?

Q.   Why do all women, or almost all women shave down below? I read somewhere here on DC that even girls as young as 14 are doing this!...

A.   4 April 2011: My gf said she shaves, just for me.... (read in full...)

Why is it so hard to get out of a bad relationship and move on?

Q.   Have any of you been in a relationship where your SO brought out the worst in you? Turned you into someone who you never thought you could be? Made you feel like you were once something so special, but now you're worthless in their eyes? This is how ...

A.   4 April 2011: It's the same way pimps control their prostitutes. Make them experience extreem emotional highs and extreem lows. That way you don't experience a routine and have a very hectic life. Your life will be full of fear, but sometimes you'll feel ... (read in full...)

After a fight my bf I slept with another guy. Is this cheating?

Q.   so im 18 yrs old and im really confused because a couple of weeks ago me and my boyfriend had a huge fight and he walked out on me and told me it was over and i thought it was. so that night i was a real mess and got really drunk and i called up a ...

A.   4 April 2011: You should tell him, just to clarify your guilt and maybe be forgiven. If you don't tell him and just have hide behind excuses you will weaken yourself in your future. Deep down you know you've been a cheap slut, you know that if your boyfriend h... (read in full...)

My boyfriend said to his friend he is not attracted to me and I have a fat ass!

Q.   Found conversations between my bf and a friend of his. He was telling her how he really likes me and that i am one of the nicest people out. But he hates my ass. He thinks it is fat and is not attracted to it. He is horny as fuck but doesnt even ...

A.   4 April 2011: I think it's cute to say 'its not all about sex'. Physical beauty fades with time, everyone gets older and older, uglier and uglier. What remains is a bond, a strong bond which is a source of enormous strength during hard times, which are surely ... (read in full...)

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