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How do I avoid bad relationships?

Q.   Ever since last year I have been on like an emotional rollercoaster. I havent stoped feeling overly emotional and overwhelemed. It all started when I started dating my ex bf who was emotionaly abusive. I was with him for almost 1 year. I broke up...

A.   1 May 2008: I too have experienced the same. A bit of advice i was told......You have to love yourself before you can love someone else. You have to tell yourself every day that you are a good person and deserve to be happy. Something i have decided to do and ... (read in full...)

He is the perfect guy but he will not claim me!! He does not call me "his girlfriend." Should I keep my options open?

Q.   I have been talking to this guy since january. He is a real gentalmen. He calls me every morning before going to work to tell me to have a good day. He also says don't let those people stress you out at work. All the GOOD stuff. But for some ...

A.   1 May 2008: I agree with the others. He is just dangling a carrot in front of you. Cut the string and move on. I myself just done the same. You are worth more than that. ... (read in full...)

Am I too nice? Did I love her too much?

Q.   Did I drive away the only girl I've ever loved? I thought I was close to being a perfect boyfriend. I was charming, funny, very generous, expressed feelings of love to her... Then recently I found out that some of these reasons could be exactly...

A.   11 April 2008: Hey, sorry so many of you took my opinion the wrong way! Like I always tell my children.....Everyone is entitled to their own opinion...you don't have to agree with it!! When asking a question...you must be willing to hear an answer..even if it's ... (read in full...)

Am I too nice? Did I love her too much?

Q.   Did I drive away the only girl I've ever loved? I thought I was close to being a perfect boyfriend. I was charming, funny, very generous, expressed feelings of love to her... Then recently I found out that some of these reasons could be exactly...

A.   10 April 2008: Wow! You sound like the last guy I was married to! At first it was really great. He did it all for me. Cooked,cleaned, put wood in, laundry you name it. It came to the point that if I didnt thank him for every little thing he did he took that as an ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend "closes up" to serious questions, so how do I get him to open up?

Q.   Hi there. i have a problem communicating with my boyfriend. he closes up every time i ask emotional or serious questions. when i ask him why, he just says "cause"! we've talked about marriage, but he says he will talk to me when we are married. so ...

A.   10 April 2008: I agree with all the other writers! I too have had experiences in the past. This guy will NOT change. And if you are going to marry this guy you want to know how he feels. Not after you are in his grasps. If there are any doubts at all....(and ... (read in full...)

Yuck! I hate my body after having 2 kids in the last 2 years!

Q.   I'm 26. I have had 2 babies in the last 2 years, and we do not want anymore. My stomach is really stretched out, the skin is loose and flabby. I have a "ledge" of loose skin that just hangs at the bottom of my stomach. I had really large babies and ...

A.   10 April 2008: Just remember, It took 9 months to gain all the weight for each baby.....It will take at least 9 months to lose it!... (read in full...)

My ex is taking my children on holiday at his wife's request I am not allowed to have their home address or contact phone number.

Q.   My children are about to go on hoildays with their father and his new wife. They live on the other side of the country and at his wife's request I am not allowed to have their home address or contact phone number. There is no formal custody orders ...

A.   8 April 2008: Hey I went through the same thing! But they were not on the otherside of the country. My x wouldn't even let our children call me from his girlfriends house. Wouldn't call if he was gonna be late ect. I would refuse to let them go until proper ... (read in full...)

He recently old me he felt like we'd lost the spark and he no longer felt anything when he kissed me. What can I do??

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost a year and even though it is just a high school relationship, I feel it is more than that. He is the first person to ever make me really happy; however he recently old me he felt like we'd lost the ...

A.   8 April 2008: Maybe it's time for a break. Once you have been away from him a while he will realize what he is missing. Have you ever heard if you love something set it free. If it comes back it was meant to be if not than it wasn't. Guys feel different than ... (read in full...)

Any tips for virgins?

Q.   ill be honest!!!im a virgin..i havent had sex before..im turning 19 this year...say decide that i wana do it now...how do i start??what position do i start with??what if im not good at it....please help i need all the advice i can get...i dont want ...

A.   7 April 2008: Being a virgin is not sometihing you want to give into easily. Just because you are 19 doesnt mean that you have to rush into getting rid of your virginity! Trust me, you will know when the right time is and how to start. And as far as being good at ... (read in full...)

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