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Q.   In High School when I was 15 I went out with a girl and we both fell madly in love with each other etc. she was my first and only love. About a year later she broke up with me saying that she thought she wasn't pretty enough or good enough for me ...

A.   17 October 2009: I would start talking to her again and see where things lead. Don't rush into anything because there might be damage that can't be fixed. Take things slow and work your way in. You never know what could happen. Her insecurities are something she has ... (read in full...)

My mother is ruining my relationship...what can I do?

Q.   ever since i remember, my mother was in charge of everything. i'm also the youngest one, so i know she's trying to protect me and doesnt want me to get hurt. but that's the problem. i'm 20 and i have a boyfriend for three years now. she knows him ...

A.   17 October 2009: You just need to stand up to your mom and tell her that she can't live your life for you. You are your own person and need to let her know that she can't control you any longer. Her hold broke on you when you grew up. ... (read in full...)

How can I be more confident around boys?

Q.   i am 14 years old and never had a boyfriend...its not that i cant get one guys ask me out but everyime they do i say no even if i like them, how can i be more confident around guys???...

A.   17 October 2009: Every girl goes through the stage of being shy around guys. You just have to be comfortable in your own skin. As CaringGuy said, maybe you're not ready for a boyfriend. There's no need to rush into having a boyfriend. It doesn't make you different ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend doesn't want to have sex with me anymore

Q.   I'm a 17 year old boy who is totally head over heels about my girlfriend who I have been with for around 5 months now but over the last 3 weeks things have become incredibly hard work. We used to enjoy having sex at every opportunity available; she ...

A.   26 May 2009: Sometimes a girl just doesn't want to have sex. It's not as big of a deal to us as it is to you. I know if my bf tries to get me to have sex when I don't want to I get upset with him. I like to spice things up and make it a week or 2 before we have ... (read in full...)

His family likes me, but I don't get why he doesn't (like me)

Q.   i'm fifteen. and i lost my virginity to this amazing guy. we were together a few months after i actually had sex with him for the first time. we didn't do it all the time. we've probably only done it 10-15 times. but about a month ago, he dump...

A.   17 April 2009: Hun. I'm not friends with the guy I lost my virginity to. Just because you have sex with someone doesn't mean you're going to be with them forever. Sex is something you do with someone you care about. And if you wanted it to be with someone that you ... (read in full...)

How can I lessen my period pains each month?

Q.   Does anyone know a good remedy for period pains as I get it really bad. I'm no good with pills and that's all the doctor precribed but she didn't listen to the fact that I CANNOT swallow pills. It's just I'm on really heavy and for ages as well and...

A.   16 April 2009: I know exactly how you feel. I went on birth control and it help TONS. But I do occasionally get the cramps and as others suggested, I used a heating pad. There are those Therma Patches at WalMart or Rite Aid that stick to the inside of your ... (read in full...)

Confused- Mixed signals

Q.   I am almost 16 and I leave school in June. There is a guy i've known for 4 years. Recently i've developed feelings for him and can't get him out of my head. He keeps asking me for sex and I keep turning him down because of our age (he i...

A.   15 April 2009: Hun. I know how you feel. I went through the same thing around that age. I just finally decided that he isn't worth my time. If all he's wanting you for is sex,then you can do so much better. You need someone who won't pressure you into doing the ... (read in full...)

I really want to get over his cheating, but I don't know how...

Q.   My boyfriend cheated on me back in October, two girls in two nights, and I still haven't gotten over it. I told him I forgive him, because I love him, but since then it hasn't been the same. I really want to get over this, but I don't know h...

A.   23 March 2009: I know exactly how you feel. The one thing I did to get over the fact that my boyfriend cheated on me was I asked God to help me forget. And slowly I began to get over. I'm not a complete religious person, but I know when I need help. I also asked ... (read in full...)

I can't open up to people

Q.   I'm 16 years old and I've recently discovered that I don't open up to people. I hear everyone say "I love you" to other people all the time. It seems so easy to say but I feel weird and awkward when I say it. I can say it to my parents and other ...

A.   22 March 2009: There's nothing wrong with you. Some people just can't say it to their friends. Some can only say it to those they are related to. It's normal.... (read in full...)

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