Is my long-distance husband using me?
Q. Hi and thanks I have wrote on here before but I wasnt able to find my question. I have married a man from Africa, I'm Canadian. We met on Facebook and we have been married for 16 months. Doing a long distance relationship isnt easy ...
A. 14 June 2018: Hi OP,
Just as an answer to your follow-up I would like to ask you to consider your husband's actions. You say that he "begs," "messages," "calls," "tells," and "says" lots of things that make you believe he loves you. But words are simply w... (read in full...)
Is my long-distance husband using me?
Q. Hi and thanks I have wrote on here before but I wasnt able to find my question. I have married a man from Africa, I'm Canadian. We met on Facebook and we have been married for 16 months. Doing a long distance relationship isnt easy ...
A. 12 June 2018: He is definitely using you. It is true that (in some cultures) the man might provide for his extended family, but in your situation he isn't providing for his family; you are.
At its worst, this relationship will drain you and all of the money yo... (read in full...)
Do you find this touching odd or it’s normal?
Q. Hi, I have a question and would appreciate your inputs. I’m 40 years old and just started dating 5 years after my divorce. I’m independent with a great job. I met a guy online who turned out to have some mutual friends with. He is 45, professional, ...
A. 14 December 2017: I agree with the others that he did come on too strong. If you told him clearly that it was not a date and he touched you/was a bit too "friendly," then that is not okay.
You met him online. Was it a dating site?
And although I think that the... (read in full...)
I want to work on myself and stay single. How do I keep from letting men distract me?
Q. Hi ladies, as the end of 2017 is approaching I’ve made a decision to be single for awhile. It seems like 2017 was full of meaningless sex with people I thought it would work out with and it just ended up not going anywhere. So I decided to work on ...
A. 12 December 2017: I am actually doing the same myself this year. One of the first things I did was to tell the relevant people that I was taking a "dating hiatus." That way, they knew what my situation was and wouldn't invite me into situations where I wouldn't be ... (read in full...)
Does this signify interest?
Q. A girl at work responding to my asking her something responded "for you anything". I have had this also said to me in another setting by different girl (she serving me or telling me where a product is). Of course we've had a friendly chat or chats ...
A. 3 March 2017: While I am not saying that she isn't interested in you, just this phrase alone does not mean she is interested in you. It is just something people say, whether it is being friendly, flirty, or joking around. We can't decipher interest from th... (read in full...)
The red-blooded male in me says to give her more experience, the gentleman in me says to wait a few years!
Q. Sex question- a girl I've met online is very inexperianced and wants me to teach her about the physicality of sex. What's the problem?- there's a 12 year age gap and while she's above the age of consent and therefore it would be legal, the ethic...
A. 3 March 2017: I don't want to repeat what celtic tiger said although I agree with it. I will add that it really doesn't matter what that girl wants or what she says, because you clearly are not okay with it. You are already questioning whether you should do it ... (read in full...)
Should I add her on Snapchat?
Q. I would like to add this girl on snapchat but she doesn't know me. I went to middle school and high school with her (She's a college freshman and I'm a highschool senior). We didn't talk at all, and I'm pretty sure she didn't even know I exis...
A. 5 May 2016: If her social media accounts are public and she has a lot of followers, I don't think it would be a problem to add her. But, having been in similar situations, I would caution against just "stalking" her Twitter/snapchat/etc... because you might ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend has went no contact should I pay for his car insurance?
Q. For a while now I've thought may bf of 4th has been seeing somebody else, he wworks away and I don't really see him anymore, we spoke on the phone or via txt most days,anyway 2weeks ago was the last I spoke to hihim, we spoke about him coming bk ...
A. 30 January 2015: Please do not pay this man's insurance. He doesn't have the decency to call or text you, and yet he still expects you to take care of him?
In my mind, he doesn't even deserve to be notified of the cancellation, just as he didn't think you deserved... (read in full...)
We've been dating for 2 years and I've never met his friends or family?
Q. Hey everyone, so I have two issues I need help with. The first one is my boyfriend or whatever you wanna call him we broke up in June but then worked through it and he moved back in. But we aren't boyfriend and girlfriend. We do everything boyfriend ...
A. 16 January 2015: The fact that he refuses to officially call you his girlfriend and he also won't introduce you to the people in his life is a pretty bad sign. These are not the indicators of love. He should want to share his life with you, and he should want to s... (read in full...)
She will not break up but refuses to see me again!
Q. Girlfriend will not break up, but refuses to see me again. What is the best course of action as a man? So, the girlfriend of 9 months says that she now has no "free time for anything more than friends." She won't bring up breaking up, but feels ob...
A. 16 January 2015: If she's saying that she doesn't have time for anything more than friends, that means she IS breaking up with you, she just hasn't said those exact words.
The only course of action you need to take now is to try your best to move on. She, apparent... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't want his expensive birthday gift, and I can't get my money back!
Q. I got my boyfriend an pretty expensive bday gift. I got us a cabin as a weekday getaway. I planned everything including food and transportation. I wanted to surprise him and he doesn't want to go. He says he'll be hungover and he wants to go out ...
A. 16 January 2015: I agree that no matter what, you definitely shouldn't let the trip go to waste. Go with a friend or enjoy it by yourself. If you don't want to go without your boyfriend, maybe pass the trip along as a gift.
It's a shame that your boyfrien... (read in full...)
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