He's a bit slow on the uptake - any ideas for dropping hints?
Q. I've fallen for the most irritating person! Ok, lets say he seems perfect - tall, good looking, generous, sweet, kind, friendly and we can talk for hours BUT he never can keep an appointment. For example he invited me round to his, but I couldnt ...
A. 4 January 2009: bless him? i feel like shaking him!!! i would clean up anyway get it all done and looking perfect just incase atleast it will keep you busy - for a while.
If he really did like you i think you would have met up by now - i cant really understand what... (read in full...)
Is this a good reason to marry? Will the marriage last?
Q. i have a daughter who is nearly ten and she is an only child at present not only for me but also for her father. three years ago my exes dad died after a long illness and then just over a year ago his mum died suddenly. i found out just aft...
A. 4 January 2009: i think he was foolish to say that to his daughter like you say it can put wrong ideas and ideals in her mind but you can change that over the years. Perhaps he didnt like to tell her that he actually loves this woman incase it upset you daughter ... (read in full...)
How close can friends of the opposite sex be?
Q. Guys please, My best friend is a man in his mid-forties (I am in my mid-fifties and a trained nurse), we are not romantically involved (even though I would like to be), but my friend talks to me about everything, I mean everything. He h...
A. 3 January 2009: i think you can be that close with a man or a woman, the good thing about being close friend with a man is that they can give us an insight into how mens minds work and what they want. Most women would kill for a friend like him, i think you have to ... (read in full...)
I really don't know what to do there's 3 years of a difference between us and now I feel folk will talk about us for the year gap
Q. I really like this guy who has a child but I used to go with him a couple of years ago and when we split he got into a relationship a couple of weeks later which he was unhappy in but within a few weeks his girlfriend announced she was pregnant what ...
A. 3 January 2009: you seem very young to be stuck in the middle of something like this, you also dont sound that keen on him - not as much as you used to be, i personally would tell him you just wanted to be friends and leave it at that(if you do end up with him dont ... (read in full...)
Did he take advantage?
Q. Background Info: A lad I'm good mates with, questioned me a lot about about the lad I was going with and seemed to flirt with me at school. He's cute and a good friend to me. Whenever I would be out with my bf and he was there he used to look at ...
A. 3 January 2009: its a weird one, maybe he does like you and he mates were winding him up or maybe he was trying to get you alone to have sex with you??????? see what happens, take it slow but please dont be jumping into bed with him.... (read in full...)
Attitude change
Q. Hey, I'm an 18 year old girl that has never spent a lot of time thinking about boys. I have had a few short relationships and I know what love feels like, but I'm the type of girl that puts school first. To give you an idea. Now, some month...
A. 3 January 2009: it seems asthough hes the first guy whose really made you think wow? but they are annoying creatures and us women as intelligent are we are will never quite figure them out - it definatley is not you its him, maybe he has met somone, maybe he cant ... (read in full...)
My husband said to me today that he expects he will have a commode and a colostomy bag in 10 years time, and probably Alzheimer's as well.
Q. I'm 24, and my new husband's 25. We've been married for 3 months now. My husband said to me today that he expects he will have a commode and a colostomy bag in 10 years time, and probably Alzheimer's as well. He said he doesn't want to be this ...
A. 3 January 2009: his fear will lead to him becomming depressed if hes not depressed already - he needs to see a doctor - the least they will do is monitor his progress and advise him on the best ways to keep healthy - make sure he does this please as otherwise ... (read in full...)
Should I call him or his friend???
Q. So my boyfriend and I broke up on the 28th after a really happy day together full of cuddling, laughing, and watching tv...but that night he said "lets just be friends" I was so confused and upset...he says he still likes me...and I really like hi...
A. 2 January 2009: cant you just call his home and leave a message with his dad about the book, that way he is sure to get it - then leave it at that. It seems he definately wants space and to be with his friends, dont chase him anymore - if he ends up moving out of ... (read in full...)
I'm mid-thirties and newly single and feel that all my friends have everything I want.
Q. Hello I'm new to this and am typing this because I feel so down and like life is passing me by and I have no purpose. My relationship has just ended as I didn't think he could make me really happy and I'm mid-thirties and newly single and feel ...
A. 2 January 2009: being married is not everything believe me! mid thirties is still so young, you have your life ahead of you, you could meet someone tomorrow? the future should be exciting not bleak - whether you rent or own a house you do have a home and it seems ... (read in full...)
My husband's sons are thieves!
Q. I am a 25 year old woman and am married, my husband is 46 years old and he has 2 boys. I love my husband and I want to have a kid from him but he doesn't want to me to have kids because he wants his boys grown up first. Okay here is my problem his ...
A. 2 January 2009: it could take years until his children are grown up - he is 46 now would he want to be a dad to young children again at 50 or 55??? i dont hink so - you are so young at 25 and i imagine have a good 15 years to worry about having children - but dont ... (read in full...)
Why is he playing games?
Q. So I have this friend I've known for a few years. We're constantly in and out of one another's lives and most of our relationship is on the phone. I have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend but we do a lot of flirting and seem to love tlking a...
A. 2 January 2009: Hi, this 'relationship' you have is very much on his terms - he rings when he feels like it and expects you to be there and then ignores you when he is busy or having fun with his girlfriend.. he seems to like you but i think he likes the attention ... (read in full...)
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