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Telling him about a drunken mistake could cost our future together

Q.   I am 27 years old and been with my partner for nearly 7 years. Last year we were going through a really bad patch and arguing a lot. One night we went out with a few friends and we had all had some drugs and acholol. We have now distanced ourselves ...

A.   8 November 2010: Was going to comment but LazyGuy said it all ... Go with Option C and do it soon if you want to possibly keep your relationship and not hate yourself for the rest of your life. The longer you wait the more he'll feel like he's been living a lie.... (read in full...)

My married boyfriend is messing with my head!

Q.   I really need help, advice, anything. Shamefully, I have been dating an emotionally and physically abusive married man for 2 years now. He has no children, and claims to have been miserable in his marriage since day 1. He told me he married her out ...

A.   8 November 2010: It seems your only really looking for someone to tell you to do what you already know you should do, Cut your losses and have nothing to do with this man or the whole situation. Get a restraining order if need be, hes on a path of destruction and ... (read in full...)

My family says move on but he's my whole life!

Q.   Me and my first and current boyfriend of almost two years were dating when I found out the shocking news that two and a half months ago he had cheated on me with my now Ex-best friend. I found out by her phoning me early in the morning and her ...

A.   8 November 2010: The simple answer even though you may not care to hear it is ... In your situation you probably shouldn't be with anyone right now. Being betrayed by both your boyfriend and best friend all at once can be traumatizing. You should be around people ... (read in full...)

Her sexual past bothers me!

Q.   I have been married for quite some years and I didn't ask about her past. But it came up. I told her that it was before me and it should not matter. Sooner or later it would come up, she has had numerous sexual partners in 3 years and none of ...

A.   8 November 2010: Most don't enjoy thinking of their partner with someone else, but if it really is her past and isn't interjecting it self into your marriage then I'd say do what you can to let it go even if it means seeking professional help if need be. Seeing its ... (read in full...)

She doesn't even care...

Q.   Uhm Hi. I'm only 16 years old, going on 17 and my girlfriend is the same age as me, though 8 months younger. I've been with my girlfriend for a bit over 17 months. Things were really good when we started going out: she was really nice to me, she ...

A.   8 November 2010: Im 27 and married to a woman that has given me 2 wonderful boys, I love her with all my heart. That being said i felt the exact same way you do about my ex-gf that i had when i was about 20. At first she constantly told me I was great and everything ... (read in full...)

She's had sex with her friend before, now he wants to meet her to "catch up" and this bothers me. Am I being unreasonable?

Q.   My girlfriend and I have been together for 2 and a half years. All is grand. She used to have a best friend, a guy, who she maintains she was very close too. One night, they had sex, she insists it was a mistake, 'a complete one off' and tha...

A.   8 November 2010: I would have to say it depends on if you feel your GF is trust worthy. If you feel you can trust her and everything in your relationship has been good, then you shouldn't be worried. Let her go the first time alone but by the second time I'd ask to ... (read in full...)

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