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The engagement, the abuse and the good times... how do I get over him?

Q.   Let's just say I met this guy when I was 16 (I am almost 19 now) and he was 18 (now he is 21), we had a really great relationship he was my first serious boyfriend and I lost my virginity to him. After a year he started lying to me and cheating on ...

A.   8 April 2009: I can relate to your situation. It can be hard to lose your first love especially someone who was your first. I got over mine when I moved away but it would still hurt to see pictures of him and another girl over the net. Since this may not be ... (read in full...)

We're only 14 & everyone says its just infatuation?

Q.   Hello to everyone who stumbles upon this question and for those who take the time to read and answer this, thank you. I am currently 14 years old, living in the UK. I've been going out with this boy who is the same age as me and we've been tog...

A.   22 March 2009: Love at this age is possible. There are many different types of love and who's to say that an age level makes a difference? There are young relationships that function better than older ones. All I can say is follow your heart but remember that ... (read in full...)

Lads, if you had a baby with someone else, would you want to be apart of the baby's life?

Q.   Lads, if a girl you had a short term relationship with, had your baby, but you were with someone else, would you be a man and step up to the plate and actually want to know your child? ...

A.   21 November 2008: It depends on your current situation. Of course you want to be with your child but the question is do you want to be with your child's mother? Many people think that they have to stay with the person they have kids with. This can lead to a really ... (read in full...)

Was I played a fool or is there still hope to fix this?

Q.   Hello all, I have some problems that are really wearing on me concerning my ex boyfriend. I'd like some input on what his feelings might be because I'm completely lost. We've been broken up for three months since he cheated on me and broke it off...

A.   21 November 2008:  I would suggest that first of all you engage in activities to get your mind off of him. Sometimes being in love hurts more than being out of it. When you see him in the future do NOT just let him back in your life! It seems to me that when you are ... (read in full...)

How can I prove to him I won't kick him out again?

Q.   Hello! I was dating my fiance for a year and we lived together until I looked on his myspace and saw that him and his co worker were messaging each other back and forth with questionable content and it clearly pointed to him being involved with he...

A.   13 November 2008: I've been in this situation before and its very easy to jump to conclusions. In order to prevent any misunderstandings I believe everything needs to be laid out on the table. Myspace is getting a lot of people in trouble these days. Maybe limits ... (read in full...)

Should I stay with him even though he has a child?

Q.   I recently just found out that my fiance has a 2 year old daughter. Me and him used to date back in 2004 and I have known him since I was 14. After hurricane Katrina we broke up because we relocated to two different states. Last October he moved to ...

A.   13 November 2008: I've been thinking about if I would be able to deal with it and I am still torn. On one hand I really can't get mad because she got pregnant when me and him wasn't together but I still hate "baby mama drama". I don't know the girl personally but I ... (read in full...)

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