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My fear of flying makes it hard to travel and see my boyfriend so what do I do?

Q.   I really need some advice here. My boyfriend lives in a different country and we always visit each other alternatively. I spent three months with him last year and got back home December.Now the time is drawing closer for him to come and then rig...

A.   16 February 2009: If you really really really like him and want to spend time with him then maybe you should take a train, boat, bus or car to him. ... (read in full...)

Is he friendly or flirty? What should I think?

Q.   I'm looking for some "outside" opinions on this. I have a person I know who is in most of my classes. I'm in post secondary school. We met when we came to school and have remained aqaintences ever since. He sometimes seems to be flirting or ...

A.   16 February 2009:  If you have any guy friends that hang out with him, ask them to ask him if he likes you...but make it clear he knows what 'like' is :)... (read in full...)

Does my husband love me or is it over for him?

Q.   I have been married over 8 years my husband works a lot of hours and he is always busy I got sick a while back and I was very week I asked him if he can stay with me that day His answer was I am not a doctor or do you want me to stay and hold yo...

A.   16 February 2009: You should let your feelings out. Even if it means having a fight or even divorcing. He should care about you. When oyu got married and he said "I do." He must have been a lot nicer than he is now because he sounds like a complete jerk. ... (read in full...)

I always run back to him although the relationship makes me feel depressed, help!

Q.   I am a women over 40 and been dating a guy for 6 yrs. now. If u size it up may be considered 3 yrs.total because of the long distance. I am I feel totally depressed all the time with this relationship. I think he is a BAD HABIT like being addicted ...

A.   16 February 2009: You need to move on. If you can't, try actually moving. Change your phone number, something to stop the communication. ... (read in full...)

I always run back to him although the relationship makes me feel depressed, help!

Q.   I am a women over 40 and been dating a guy for 6 yrs. now. If u size it up may be considered 3 yrs.total because of the long distance. I am I feel totally depressed all the time with this relationship. I think he is a BAD HABIT like being addicted ...

A.   16 February 2009: You need to move on. If you can't, try actually moving. Change your phone number, something to stop the communication. ... (read in full...)

I don't have any faith in myself anymore!

Q.   I have very low self esteem. Im 20 years old and i have no boobs what so ever. I cant come for the life of me. I feel completely defective as a woman. My boyfriend used to read porn before he came with me, but he stopped after starting a ...

A.   16 February 2009: You should see a doctor about your low self esteem. You will meet that specail someone when the time is right. Most people don't marry at 20 either. You go to college. Since you go to college your going to be smart. Since your going to be sma... (read in full...)

I don't know how to ignore her or get her out of our lives... help?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for about six months now, we get on amazingly and are very happy together. however, his ex girlfriend is clearly still not over him, they broke up over a year ago but i can see she still loves him. when she first ...

A.   29 January 2009: NExt time she says he's gay or something just look her square in the eye and say "grow up, I'm dating him so get over it" then push past her. (thats if shes mean) If shes nice, say something like: " Um... (her name), I like this "gay" guy so please ... (read in full...)

My brother is messed up and our family is falling apart

Q.   I need some advice. I want to know if anybody has been in a situation like this before. I have a brother who is 16 at the moment. It's probably not a very good thing to say, but I am ashamed to have him as my brother, because of all the stupid c...

A.   29 January 2009: He just has to striaghten up his life. Try doing family activitys that he would like, (paintball, basketball, waterpark) Once he's in a good mood try making a fun-free-spirited conversation. Dont get serious and dramatic. \ -Hope it help... (read in full...)

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