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writes:I have been married over 8 years my husband works a lot of hours and he is always busyI got sick a while back and I was very week I asked him if he can stay with me that dayHis answer was I am not a doctor or do you want me to stay and hold your hand, I got work to do and then he leftSince that day I am asking my self Does my husband love me or it's over for him Reply to this Question
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reader, SoftlyCaress  +, writes (16 February 2009):
 Sounds like he has other things on his mind like supporting you and the family .Sometimes its hard to just stay home because one is sick (these days anyways ) times are tough and as man supporting a family he probably has allot on his mind .I am single mom and no matter how sick my baby is I have to work unless i have sick days saved up .So I get one my sisters or my mom to keep her .I know he probably hurt your feelings by not staying with you or even taking time to explain to you why he couldnt but think of it this way maybe it bothered him to have to tell you he couldnt take care of you cause he had to work ....
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (16 February 2009):
 Just how sick?
You are aware that there is an economic crisis? Staying home with a wife who got the sniffles is hardly a sound career move.
If you were on the other hand just inches away from the grave then yes, that is pretty insensitive.
With so little detail it is hard to say wether we are talking about a wive who is to demanding or a husband who doesn't pay enough attention.
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reader, nikki485 +, writes (16 February 2009):
You should let your feelings out. Even if it means having a fight or even divorcing. He should care about you. When oyu got married and he said "I do." He must have been a lot nicer than he is now because he sounds like a complete jerk.
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reader, Kepi  +, writes (16 February 2009):
 Doesn't sound like a loving, caring husband does it?
However, before thinking the worst, what is his work? Is it stressful, does he have deadlines, could he face serious repercussions if he took a day off?
How is your relationship generally? Does he feel rejected for whatever reason and therefore feels no effort to make time for you, I think this is an early warning sign that should make u assess the whole thing.
Have you told him how you felt about his not staying? Mahybe he isn't aware of how you are feeling because of his actions.
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reader, Ted-ster +, writes (16 February 2009):
Sounds like he has someone else; always busy, disrespectful.
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