I'm enjoying keeping him a secret
Q. Why do i like the idea of seeing a guy secretly? Normally if I'm just texting a guy or seeing someone, i always tell my friends. Literally anything to do with a guy i will tell them!! But recently, I've decided that i like keeping it to myself and ...
A. 28 May 2011: I was like you, until my current boyfriend. Sometimes something is so delicious you have to keep it to your self to fully enjoy it. Maybe it's just growing up! I hope you continue to enjoy what ever happens with this guy :)... (read in full...)
My bf thought I was asleep and started masturbating to porn. How should I deal with this?
Q. Hi new to this! But just wondering. Iv been with my boyfreind for 6months now and we live in our own flat. Everythings great etc and Yesterday we had sex during The day, and I fell asleep in bed cuddled up to my boyfriend about 1am this morning...
A. 23 May 2011: Well it's not stupid if it made you feel uncomfortable.
Maybe you should try and keep calm - I would just say, it made me really uncomfortable and that shouldn't happen. So please just don't do it infront of me, it's a bit weird.
And if he agr... (read in full...)
Do you think he is for real, or just like every other guy in a club?
Q. Say I'm stereotyping or being stupid. But i met this guy in a club really briefly and gave him my number (I was drunk so i didn't care at the time). Thing is we have been texting each other a lot since then! And although i can't base him on text...
A. 7 May 2011: It's always possible that he's just another jerk trying to get a hook up from meeting a girl in a club... but then its just as possible that he's a nice guy who met a girl he wants to see again! There's really no way for any of us (here on the site) ... (read in full...)
She doesn't meet my criteria for a life partner. Should I stay or should I go?
Q. Hi, I've been going out with my girlfriend for nearly a year now and I've been doing a lot of thinking. I am unsure about how much I love her because when we're away from each other I sometimes miss her, but more often than not end up think...
A. 12 April 2011: Can you live without her? I think that's the only question you have to ask. If you can live without her, and be happy, then let her go. She's not the one and neither are you. But if the idea of being without her is unimaginable... Then who cares ... (read in full...)
Wife doesn't let me cum on her face. Isn't that something almost all girls do?
Q. My wife won't let me cum on her face, ever! As far as I know, almost all girls let their guys cum on their faces, and enjoy it too! but not mine. This really sucks, I feel really unwanted, how do I make her do it?...
A. 7 April 2011: No girl likes this. If it something you are asking as a favour, then thats different but you really can't judge her for not wanting cum (a thick, sticky substance with a very distingushed smell incase you haven't thought of it like that) to be all ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and his sons always pick on my mentally handicapped son
Q. I have a boy friend whom has 2 boys.. I have 3 young children my self... My boyfriend hates my oldest son and him and his boys always yells at my son and picks on him cause hes mentally hanidcap... What do i do ? Do i leave my boyfriend?...
A. 7 April 2011: Yes. I'm sorry this is happening, it is a hard choice to choose between someone you might look on as your protector and someone you must protect. But you MUST see this clearly. Your son is handicapped and 'picking on' is just a very loose term for ... (read in full...)
Can you help me decide which girl is right for me?
Q. I have two girlfriends, "J" and "G" but i want to choose one for marriage. J is a liar but her rest of behaviours are fine with me She is of a class, she is beautiful and hard working. If I marry J, i will battle it up with her to let her settle i...
A. 4 April 2011: It sounds as if you love J very much... why settle for G just because she will be 'easy' to fit into your life? If you love J, you will have to find a way to fit into life TOGETHER, not just your way, or hers. I promise if you can compromise with ... (read in full...)
My step father is getting a bit too close! Does he just think I am a child? Is this part of his culture? Or should I tell my mom?
Q. Hello. I am a fourteen-year-old girl. My widowed mother just recently married again. My stepfather seemed very nice. She's attracted some sleezy men in the past. But he seemed great. I'm an only child and while they were dating, they'd often take me ...
A. 30 March 2011: This is really disturbing. Tell your mother, and maybe a trusted adult friend as well like a teacher or aunt for support.
This isn't right, not at all. Please please have the courage to say No. If you need to, throw a proper teenage tantrum ... (read in full...)
Confessing to cheating..ONLY experiences from cheaters or cheated-ons.
Q. Hello, As the title says, I would like to know FACTS from people who’ve been through this. I’m not working on a survey or something, but yes, I've cheated on my gf (a fling without intercourse and no feelings) and I'm living hell right now (guilt...
A. 26 March 2011: I cheated, on my ex. I don't really have any reasons to explain it - I was young (my first year at uni), the relationship was new and we weren't getting along and I was weak and stupid. To this day I feel it was the worst thing I have ever done, ... (read in full...)
Do they have a double personality and think they are innocent?
Q. say your partner who swears they love you was to do something again and again,knowing its a deal breaker and will end the relationship when caught,then wont own up,or start making you out to be paranoid or calling you emotionaly abusive when its ...
A. 21 March 2011: I agree with all the other posters here. Do you really want to stay in this relationship, even if the 'symptoms' stop? This has become poisonous - by taking her back over and over even after a breakup she now can't and won't take you seriously. I ... (read in full...)
What do women get out of sex?
Q. While the end result that's hoped for by both partners while engaging in sex is an orgasm, I can't help but notice how many women on here write about things like "I can't have an orgasm, my bf/husband can't give me orgasms, I rarely get them, I've ...
A. 20 March 2011: Don't you enjoy the feeling of sex before you orgasm? Or is it just boring until the point of 'boom'? I doubt it, I don't ever remember a man I've slept with looking bored until he came... in a similar light its pleasurable to have sex. Yes some ... (read in full...)
Is it possible that he's cheating?
Q. Hi, and thank you. My bf and I have been together about 3 years now. Started off amazing as most relationships do. He was so charming, complimented me and loving to me. It didn't take me long to fall head over heels for him. Once we got to know e...
A. 16 March 2011: I know this kind of man - he's trouble. I don't know if he's cheating or not, but he ISN'T going to change his behaviour, and the bad moods will get worse and worse until you can't even remember why it was good in the first place. Do you really want ... (read in full...)
Would you rather be single, or with someone you don't know is lying to you about having cheated on you?
Q. Is it better to be alone or in a relationship with someone who has betrayed you in the past by cheating, and who continues to lie about having been faithful and committed throughout the relationship? Is it true that what you don't know, can't really ...
A. 15 March 2011: Definately single. Even though TECHNICALLY what you don't know can't hurt you, the truth ALWAYS comes out. And then it will hurt like hell...... (read in full...)
Do people marry for love or to just settle down?
Q. hey all, well my question is a bit weird. Im 27 years of age and single.In my lifetime, I have had relationships with 3 guys who I felt strong enough about to want to spend the rest of my life with. However, these relationships didnt work out. Ive ...
A. 10 March 2011: Personally, I think it would be a massive shame to 'settle' - you deserve so much more! Someone once said to me that 'the worst way to be lonely is when you sleep next to someone you don't love' - and I have to say I have found it to be true. ... (read in full...)
What do the girls do to stay true to there new boy?
Q. I have read all the Q and ans for the situation in which the girl is not virgin and her boy is getting mad for that thing. I have similar problem, but in all those posts i have realized that those girls are behaving good and innocent now. I just ...
A. 8 March 2011: This is an awful question. Just because a girl is not a virgin when you met her does not mean she is in anyway incapable of being faithful. Did she cheat on her last boyfriend? If you are asking if a cheater can change, that depends on the person. ... (read in full...)
Does true love exist?
Q. how do you know when true love is true love? or does it even exist? please comment...
A. 4 April 2010: I dont know about 'true love'. But love definately exists. I personally think we need to stop looking at 'true love' and start looking at love and trying to determine if it's real. To me; Real love is when you've made the effort to know someone, and ... (read in full...)
Should I propose to her even tho I don't have the ring yet?
Q. Heya! This is a quick but potentially huge question to ask of you guys. I am planning to propose to my girlfriend:-) I have permission from her dad and I am commissioning the ring, which I know she'll love. However, today we are going out to a s...
A. 21 March 2010: Sounds like you've gone to a lot of trouble to make this the perfect proposal... perhaps you should wait until you have the ring as well, don't jump the gun! I can tell how excited you are and I know how you must be so looking forward to asking her, ... (read in full...)
Hi mood swings drain me but I am crazy about him
Q. My boyfriend is 18 and I'm 21. I've never been bothered by the age gap, we get along very well and were friends first. When we first started sleeping together I'd just come out of a 2 and a half year relationship, and knew he was a total player, ...
A. 16 January 2010: thank you for your honesty and advice everyone, you've given me a lot to think about! xx... (read in full...)
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