I fell in love with what I thought was a girl...but she's a he
Q. Help. I fell in love over the internet with someone, and they feel absolutely the same thing. They were saying over the past few days that they were insecure about something, and they've been summoning up enough courage to mention it. Finally, the...
A. 3 November 2010: Great way to start a relationship off, with a L-I-E. How can you trust this person after he has lied to you? Unfortunately guys do this ALL the time. They play women, lesbians or shemales and then lie to everyone about it. If you don't believe me ... (read in full...)
Husband wants to leave but can't but he claims he doesn't love me
Q. What should I do? My husband of two plus years has told me he no longer loves me yet he can't leave me. He is no longer sleeping in the same bed. He has spent some nights away from the house. He says he needs space away from me to decide if he lov...
A. 3 November 2010: He has all but physically left the house. You can go to counseling without him, but I would say this. I he won't do anything towards making things work, he isn't interested. Sounds to me like he may have found someone else. I would say tell him if ... (read in full...)
He dumped me. Why doesn't he move on?
Q. My boyfriend dumped me not too long ago. (2 months) Im still hurt but moved in with dignity and havent looked back. However he is contacting everyone we know mutually and making childish stories up such as Im harassing him. It isnt just the ...
A. 28 October 2010: I am going thru this myself and it all boils down to his immaturity. You deserve better so just move on and do what all you can to ignore him eventually he will get bored with the game.
Good luck... (read in full...)
Why wont my ex return my belongings?
Q. My boyfriend and I split up about two weeks ago, and he still has some of my stuff at his place. I have asked for these things to be retuned, and a week ago I got some of them, but not the most important ones. Last meeting ended up with a fight as ...
A. 28 October 2010: You won't see any of that stuff and it could be because he feels he doesn't have to give it to you. He has sex tapes of you? then he figures why should he pay you the money he owes you, you probably won't come after him as long as he can expose you ... (read in full...)
He took rough sex too far and now I'm afraid to trust him
Q. My boyfriend like to be rough during sex. So when he started slapping my face about 6 months ago I told him that he was taking it too far and they only thing I don't want him to do is slap me because I feel like he is abusing me. He still likes to ...
A. 26 October 2010: You told him not to slap you, he did it anyway and blamed it on the booze. He is tossing his accountability out the window, what will his next excuse be? He betrayed your trust and you really have to ask yourself if you should stay with him?
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His addiction to video games is destroying our relationship!
Q. What would you do? I am with a man who is lovely, upbeat, faithful and generous, but over that last 2 years, it seems his demeaner to me has changed in a negative way. The way he talks to me, and about me, seems to be not to put me down, but to say, ...
A. 26 October 2010: I just got out of a 7 year relationship with a man who was living a secret online life in the virtual world Second Life. Turns out the 'love" of my life is a transgendered man who desperately wants to be a woman and that is what life he fashioned ... (read in full...)
Ex-boyfriend buys you drinks all night, then makes out with another girl infront of you.
Q. Why would an ex-bf buy you drinks all night then make out with some girl at the bar almost in front of you? My ex, who broke up with me 8 months ago recently asked me to go out for a drink with him to "catch up". I said "sure" but next week someti...
A. 9 October 2010: He is an ass and was trying to make you jealous and to show you how easily you could be replaced. Do you really want someone like this in your life? I doubt it, move on and forget the jerk.... (read in full...)
What does this "free agent" text mean?
Q. My husband got a text messages from a female saying," I'm glad you have the same number. free agent?" and another message giving her address. also wrote," free agent?" again. i need to know what does she mean when she saids,"free agent?"...
A. 8 October 2010: "free agent" usually means someone that is not married or in a relationship.... (read in full...)
He likes to dress up and put make up on... I'm scared he might be transexual!
Q. I have been w/my bf for almost a year, and a few months ago he told me he was a CD. I am pretty good with it - it's fun to dress up together, I do his make up, and we have a great time with it. This weekend was our first night of dressing up and ...
A. 5 October 2010: I just got out of a 7 year relationship with a cross dresser take it from me they do become consumed by it. Mine lives his reality on the game Second Life, we are no longer together.
My observations have been they want to dress up all the time, so... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is very controlling with me but I am too attached and afraid to be alone
Q. i'm 18 and i have this boyfriend i i'm with for 9 months. he was so sweet and charming the first 2 months but then he started to be very controlling with me. he tells me what to wear, he even forbidden me of adding my pictures on facebook, he gets ...
A. 29 September 2010: He is abusive, check out this website for more information: http://www.thereislifeafterabuse.com/Page7.html#Ab%20Rel
Anyone who tries to control you and keep you from having friends is most likely abusive and insecure. He wants you all to himself ... (read in full...)
I thought he was my dearest friend and lover..and he threw away 22 years
Q. I don't even know where to start and yet feel better just by starting. This man is or rather I thought that we were the best of friends and that we would see each other through any and everything. We have been friends over 22years or at least that's ...
A. 28 September 2010: I know exactly how you feel, numb, hurt, angry and crushed. You will need to give yourself time to grieve and get over this man. He apparently cannot deal with a real relationship such as marriage. Perhaps for him having the option to walk away is a ... (read in full...)
I can't put the ring back on until we worth things out!
Q. I am reposting w/more recent info in hopes of getting an answer.No replies last time. I broke off my engagement but I am having second thoughts after seeing him again.? After a terrible month of really bad communication and him blowing up and d...
A. 27 September 2010: I say walk away from him. Why is he blaming everything on you?? and how is being engaged to him going to make his commute to the city easier than if you weren't? Two hours is nothing. I see red flags all over this.
I know it hurts like hell aft... (read in full...)
How to discuss my sexual fantasies with my partner?
Q. i have been with my husband for 8 years and married for 4 years.We have a great relationship and sex is good but only lately I have been having outrageous sexual fantasies like the desire to be heard while having sex, making out at odd places etc.I ...
A. 27 September 2010: Sit him down and ask him what HE craves sexually. Listen and then respond. Then tell him its your turn. It sounds like you maybe more sexually outgoing than he is and if that is the case you may have to make a choice between sticking with his very ... (read in full...)
Can things work out if neither person is sexually dominant?
Q. If two sexualy submissive people wish to start a relationship... how would that go...?... would things work out ok with out one or the other being dominant?...
A. 23 September 2010: Yes they can indeed as long as you both discuss your needs, wants and desires. Usually what happens is one person takes lead naturally and the other follows.
Don't be afraid to experiment as that could lead to some good sexual fun.
good lu... (read in full...)
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