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I am a 37 yo male. I was married for 6 1/2 years before I finally fessed up and admitted that I wasn't in love with my wife (she is an exceptional woman by the way and there is nothing bad to be said about her!).

I have been divorced for 3 1/2 years now and try to live a much simpler life. I am single by choice and not looking for a relationship, or a fling for that matter! :)

I do not have any children but have paid for the abortion of my first child. My second child died 3 years ago. Yes, I am heartbroken but I am not broken altogether.

I have been very selfish in my life but through God I am trying to live with more humility and humbleness. I am assured by God that the best days of my life are ahead of me and for that I am grateful.

I try to live my life everyday according to the following motto:

One should never put themselves in a position to take from someone else.

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How should I take this friendship?

Q.   My guy friend at school that I've known since september is weird. At school he stares at me, makes me laugh, texts me occasionally, and sometimes he mentions a teacher I hate that he loves just to make me talk to him. Today I was talking to his ...

A.   13 May 2009: The two of you like each other, that is obvious. The both of you are also playing games and being coy about things. It is at times like this that I ask myself, "WWPD" Or rather, What Would Peter Griffin Do? Peter would probably point at ... (read in full...)

Stay or leave?

Q.   I have been talking to this guy for 4 years. We stoped talking only because he was respecting the fact that I was in a relationship at the time, and I was a little too young (He didn't want my parents to be mad.) We just recently got back together ...

A.   13 May 2009: It is deplorable that this man would say the mother of his child "was the biggest mistake ever." Respect yourself, your values, and your feelings and trust your gut. I can only imagine what he might say about you to the next woman as a... (read in full...)

Should I just leave my fiancé??

Q.   Should i leave my fiancee? My fiancee and I have arguments almost every day but what relationship don't. He is so jealous of me when I was talking to an old friend guy about a lady who had surgery, he wouldn't take the time to listen to me whe...

A.   13 May 2009: Yes, leave. There are a lot of couples that don't argue everyday. Jealousy is a poison that does more damage with time. You are very young and should take the time during your youth to get your education, serve your community, and explore ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my second cousin... she's getting married but I promised myself I would tell her

Q.   I know I will be judged for this, and I know that it will be difficult for some to try and think of this in an unbiased manner. But I wish to say in my defense three things: 1.) There is no law against a relationship of this type. 2.) The...

A.   13 May 2009: I don't agree with you on this one. The only good that would come from you telling her would be the fulfillment of your promise to yourself. What about her feelings? What about her fiance? What about their baby? I think the most selfless... (read in full...)

I found out she lied to me, should I confront her?

Q.   Regretfully, I snooped on my girlfriend's emails to either confirm or deny some suspicions. I found out she had lied to me about seeing a particular guy I had specifically questioned her about a while ago. She even made me believe her lies. But ...

A.   13 May 2009: I think the real issue is that you had a suspicion that had to be confirmed. There must have been some reason why you were suspicious which lead you to make the fateful decision to investigate further. I bet you are wondering what else she has ... (read in full...)

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