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hey im mossy!!

im from Ireland!!

my best friends and others always come to me first for advice and think im great for the support and figuring out solutions for people... im a patient person and love to help people...

im single at the moment but i love it,ive experienced alot of crap...come to me if you need to ask something and i will be more then happy to help!!

mossy!!xx

Fallen for my best friend and she's a female!

Q.   Hey everybody ? I need some help plz! Sorry for the length btw, but ther was a lot to say!!! Ok I'm not entirely sure where to start, but here it goes... About 6 months ago i noticed i was really attracted to one of my closest friends. I hav...

A.   20 September 2009: hey hun wow i must say i have the biggest respect for you ever! its really hard to talk about your emotions... i am and i am not in the same sitution as you but i would more then hapy to help you if ne way possible. i too am head over heels in lo... (read in full...)

Should I hang out with my friends more so I can drink again or just ditch that scene all together?

Q.   so, i'm not sure if this is even the thing to be talking about, but here goes... when i was younger, 14-16 i was REALLY heavy into drugs but when i met the right girl i slowed down and now i dont even really drink. but that's not the issue. thi...

A.   22 July 2009: hey!! love i think you should completly give up th drugs for starters, drinking sociably is bad but binge drinking like actually wanting to get smashed is worrying especially for your health and you are so young.. i dont think you should go back ... (read in full...)

Best way to confess undying love?

Q.   i need to confess my undying love to a girl before she leaves for uni. what is the best way to do this? jamez x...

A.   21 July 2009: hey james ask her could you see her for two mins and say you want to ask her something make sure she is away from her friends.. sit her down and compliment her on what shes wearing or whatever just get talking and in the end just say the reas... (read in full...)

I can't move forward in my life with all these feelings I have for him!

Q.   Hi guys, first of all Id like to tell u that im gay, im feeling really down because me and my boyfriend broke up almost a month ago, he ended up with me in very hurtful terms telling me he didn´t love me anymore, added to this problem i have a bunch ...

A.   21 July 2009: hey!! first of all it took alot of courage to come out to your family thats hard!! however i dont like the attitude they gave you, you shouldt have had to move out of the country.. there your son they should be happy that being gay makes you happ... (read in full...)

Is there something wrong with only wanting to have one sexual partner?

Q.   My boyfriend says that I have "twisted view" whatver that means. He and I been together for almost 2 years now and he took my virginity. According to him he wants to have sex with other people now because he is too used to me. He is 19 years old. He ...

A.   21 July 2009: heyah lv hun open your eyes this guy needs to be dumped... you love him way too much then he is worth... it should disgust you that he i thinking that he wants to have sex with other women bar you.. if he loves you enough you are all he need... (read in full...)

He cheated on me and then dumped me. I love him--should I wait for him?

Q.   hi my name is ashleigh and im 15 years old. ive been going out with this kid who is also 15 years old for one and a half years. He recently cheated on me and told me straight up that he did, he hooked up with another girl. i respect that he told me ...

A.   21 July 2009: hey dont act differently towards him act the way you always would!just be cautious... let him hang out with his mates you cant control him if you show signs of that he defo wont get bk with you.. take it easy give it time to mend. dont rush back int... (read in full...)

Am I bi? I am very close to this girl. My boyfriend knows and says I can't dump him!

Q.   I met this girl in one of my classes PE to be spacific and were realy good friends. Except i think she like me and im not all inocent either. I like her to. Shes so nice and she cares about me. She hugs me all the time and kisses my cheek and ...

A.   20 July 2009: hiyah im feeling the same way at the moment with a friend of mine however the same as your case i think ye are really close friends and that ye dont care what others thk around ye and ye love each other alot... i dont like the way your bf said you... (read in full...)

He cheated on me and then dumped me. I love him--should I wait for him?

Q.   hi my name is ashleigh and im 15 years old. ive been going out with this kid who is also 15 years old for one and a half years. He recently cheated on me and told me straight up that he did, he hooked up with another girl. i respect that he told me ...

A.   20 July 2009: well fair enough you know yourself best.. just dont trust him as much and dont hurry into things too much again you might get hurt and this time it might be gone for good!! i wish you the best.... mossy... (read in full...)

My bf says it's wrong for me to remain nice to people I dislike. Is he right?

Q.   i'm normally a really nice person, and people know me for this. even if its someone i genuinely dislike for something she did to me in the past etc i am not mean to her, and i remain polite if she strikes a conversation with me. sometimes i tend to ...

A.   20 July 2009: hey forget what your bf is saying... this is the way you deal with things and if it makes you happy and relaxed stick to it.. everybody has there own way of dealing with things. dont change it now. neway if you tell people you hate them this is ... (read in full...)

He cheated on me and then dumped me. I love him--should I wait for him?

Q.   hi my name is ashleigh and im 15 years old. ive been going out with this kid who is also 15 years old for one and a half years. He recently cheated on me and told me straight up that he did, he hooked up with another girl. i respect that he told me ...

A.   20 July 2009: hey!! if you want my opinion i dont tink you should wait for him.. he cheated on you for god sake, however you say he did tell you straight away, that shouldnt without a doubt makes him back in your good books hun... he may be sorry but it sou... (read in full...)

Will this approach help me lose weight?

Q.   hey :D I realy want to lose weight but quite fast and i was wondering if i ate like 500 caleries a day and excersized a lot how much weight could i lose ? please no nasty comments i just want help ! thanks x...

A.   19 July 2009: hey hun this wont work! dont strave yourself!take it handy.. cut down on fatty foods like sweets, choc and also bread and carb intake... treat yourself once a week so that way you have a goal too... do as much excercise as you can at least half hr ... (read in full...)

Can you take the morning after pill during your period?

Q.   i just had sex 4am this morning it is 12pm rite now, im currently on my period, i started friday 7/17/09 the date rite now is 7/19/09 but anyway i had sex during my period and the condom broke meaning he ejaculated inside me, he is advising me to ...

A.   19 July 2009: hey! hun relax if i was you i would take the pill as soon as possible its proven to be quite efective!! calm down though you will work yourself over too much but get the pill right away!! mossy xx... (read in full...)

Cheated on me with her cousin and dumped me!

Q.   Im not kidding you, I was with a girl for 8 months and I truly loved her but, she ended up cheating on me with her cousin, I fell into sadness and depression and felt as if I would never find anyone. One of the reasons she dumped me was because I am ...

A.   19 July 2009: heyah omg lv forget her!! she isnt worth the energy to remember her... your young of course you will find somebody.. somebody who will love you for you and adore you... sounds like she used you and denied who you were and didnt care about your fel... (read in full...)

Should we just have sex to get it over with?

Q.   Should we just have sex to get it over? I am married and he is in a relationship. We are long for each other for almost a year now. He is going crazy because I try to avoid him and I am suffer from trying to do the right thing....

A.   19 July 2009: hi if you want to do the right thing then dont have sex with him!! are you going to risk your marriage for him?? if you do have sex with him you must not love your husband very much! can you imagine how hurt he would be if he found out?? if you ar... (read in full...)

Should I tell anyone she was raped? Or just stay silent?

Q.   My friend told me yesterday that she had been raped two weeks ago, i was in complete shock and didnt really know what to say, i promised her i wouldnt say anything to anyone, but she says she crys her self to sleep every night since then, in worry ...

A.   19 July 2009: heyah just to let ye know that everything will be ok!! but if ye hear nething bout courses bout defence its worth doing! i have never regreted it... plus you can kick ass after it too.... mossy!... (read in full...)

We haven't talked for a few days, should I be worried?

Q.   So there is this guy that I really like. We've been talking almost every day for about a month. He came over the other day and we just hung out at my house. He says all these cute things how he wants to kiss me and cuddle with me and hangout more. I ...

A.   19 July 2009: heyah i agree with the other person1 dont stress he prob too busy or maybe hasnt credit? if he is what you have described in your question he will get back to you. however dont be the one always to txt or ring first, let him go after you now an... (read in full...)

Is this normal behaviour for a 14 year old girl?

Q.   Is it normal for a 14 year old girl to sit on youtube for 20 minutes and watch sex scenes at least 2 times a week?? Cause I do this and I am feeling like I'm the only one!! Is this ok??...

A.   19 July 2009: heyah well your 14 and tbh your in the teen years so your hormones are going to be everywhere.. your sexual desire is strong for some when there young.. i wouldnt be so worried its natural anyway.. you will eventually stop using it so much... dont... (read in full...)

Does he act this way for a reason?

Q.   Hey ok so I've know this guy for about 5 years now and he says I'm like one of his best friends and that he never wants to lose me... When we get into textn we sometimes end up talking dirty and when we talk he only wants to know about me when I ask ...

A.   19 July 2009: hey i think he is using you and knows it and able to get around you alot! as the other person said "wont last not being my friend" again what does that mean????.... also he is asking alot of questions bout u and you cant bout him??put your foot... (read in full...)

Should I tell anyone she was raped? Or just stay silent?

Q.   My friend told me yesterday that she had been raped two weeks ago, i was in complete shock and didnt really know what to say, i promised her i wouldnt say anything to anyone, but she says she crys her self to sleep every night since then, in worry ...

A.   19 July 2009: hiyah tell her parents is the first thing you should do even if she wont talk to you for a long time! she needs to get professional help otherwise she wont get better then she can be.. i know that this memory wont go away but others around he... (read in full...)

Should I keep having phone sex with him?

Q.   Hey its mi again well I got another problem my“friend” says he will wait but we had to keep haveing phone sex...... idk if we should cause im kinda getting boerd.... so I told him meybe.....wat do u guys think should I at least keep haveing phone ...

A.   19 July 2009: hi i think you should defo say no.... happen to me and he got too obessed with it and wouldnt leave me alone... ignore it.. theres other stuff and i am sure he will use them... i think you should stop now before it will get too out of hand.. that... (read in full...)

I told her how I felt but I feel like I rushed her

Q.   Hey all I just wanted to ask for advice on what to do on my situation. So I've been seeing this girl for more than three years now and we've talked ever since we've met. We've met online on an mmorpg and we're been communicating since we've met ...

A.   18 July 2009: hey i read your question im concerned the way she said "maybe when we meet up ill let you know"..... its just odd way to express what she was feeling. the distance is an issue and i think you should take it into more account then you already... (read in full...)

Are my two best friends lesbian/bisexual?

Q.   Okay, i apologize that this may be kinda long. Okay, so i have two best friends, lets call them...Paige and Mary (:/). My friend paige has a boyfriend which shes had for 3 or 4 monthes and is very "touchy" with. i dont think shes THAT into h...

A.   18 July 2009: hiyah im new to this, i spotted your question and taught it was good. i dont think you sould worry too much. leave them be. people can be best of friends extremly quick. they could have just noticed how alike they really are and got on great. th... (read in full...)

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