I'm straight. My gay male friend gets holier than thou when I talk dating a guy. What can I do ?
Q. I'm pretty much stuck in a situation where I feel like a total Fag Hag. Most of my friends are gay. I absolutely adore all of my friends, and see them as amazing people who just happen to be gay. It's my gay friends who like to socialize an...
A. 26 February 2013: Thanks guys! We talked it out. Granted there was copious amounts of wine involved, but we're good.... (read in full...)
After 3rd date I feel like running for the hills!
Q. I started seeing a guy since Halloween. It's been three weeks and three dates. By the third date, I'm not feeling it, and he has a picture of us saved on his cell phone screen saver... I'm 22 turning 23 and have never dated before. Am I over ...
A. 15 November 2010: It's mainly his lack of confidence. He over uses self-deprecating humor, and on our dates, he rarely asks anything about me. He just talks about himself. The thing is I know he's intelligent and has goals, but he keeps putting himself in a negative ... (read in full...)
Whats the best way to say, "let's just be friends"?
Q. I just started seeing a guy. There was an original spark at the beginning, but after the third date, it felt that I was talking to a little brother that I never had, not a potential boyfriend. I'm new to the dating scene, so how do I let him down ...
A. 15 November 2010: Thanks for the help! Much appreciated!... (read in full...)
In what way can I improve myself to become more attractive to her?
Q. About 6 months ago I got out of an awful relationship (although it was my first ever one) with a muslim girl; I'm a Hindu myself. Of course, the idea to get involved with her in the first place was not brilliant, however, I've always been ...
A. 15 November 2010: If this girl is just too good to just pass up, then don't let her! Go after her! There's certainly signs of her liking you. You know that you're a great boyfriend, and if she says no, it'll be her loss not yours.
As for confidence, write down a l... (read in full...)
I need some advice on how to handle this guilt I'm feeling.
Q. I need some advice on how to handle this guilt I'm feeling. I'm overwhelmed with guilt for breaking up my boyfriend's family and hurting his children and ex wife. Our affair was brief, only a little over a weeks time before he stated he couldn't do ...
A. 15 November 2010: My best advice would be to learn to forgive yourself. You've said your sorries and tried to make up for it. That's the most you can do. How other people feel about you is up to them. All you can do is control your own emotions and actions. Life... (read in full...)
I am 35 and don't want to feel I have wasted my life, what on earth should I do?
Q. dear cupid. I have been in a relationship with my partner for 7 years, we have 2 children aged 5 and 2 years. The problem is that he is 42 and still lives at home with his mum, i currently live alone with my children, he looks after them a few hours ...
A. 15 November 2010: Regardless if your seeing some one new or not, your partner's 42 and hasn't left the nipple. I don't think he ever will. He's had 7 years. The only obligation you have is to raise your children in a healthy environment. Staying with him is NOT going ... (read in full...)
Whats the best way to say, "let's just be friends"?
Q. I just started seeing a guy. There was an original spark at the beginning, but after the third date, it felt that I was talking to a little brother that I never had, not a potential boyfriend. I'm new to the dating scene, so how do I let him down ...
A. 14 November 2010: Is it better to do it over the phone or in person?... (read in full...)
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