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Can a submissive male maintain a longterm relationship?

Q.   I started dating a man who wants me to dominate him. I have read that a male submissive is almost certainly incapable of truly loving a woman. It was said that they would be incapable of longterm relationship, I need to know if this is true. I am ...

A.   23 July 2011: Submissive men are probably more suited for a LTR then dominant men if anything.... (read in full...)

I discovered my husband watches porn...I am threatening divorce

Q.   Hi, I have been reading various questions and answers recently and have a question of my own to ask you all: About 5 years ago I discovered husband had been watching porn, I came across this quite innocently while looking through our music librar...

A.   22 July 2011: If you only want a guy who doesn't wathc porn or doesn't like you will be looking for a very long time because i doubt you will find many!... (read in full...)

Is it normal for him to masturbate daily? Is porn the problem?

Q.   Hello everybody.I discovered this site accidentally and I started to like it ,so i will also tell my story to you all,to find out what you think and other opinions.First of all,sorry if I’ll be making some grammar mistakes,English’s not my mother ...

A.   21 July 2011: You have to remember that some people have a higher sex drive then others. And for men to masturbate to porn doesn't mean anything really, certainly doesn't mean he doens't love, or doesn't think you're not sexy. Thats what we men do, we like ... (read in full...)

Should I go see a prostitute?

Q.   Recently while i was overseas I had sex (twice) with a prostitute, in an adult venue. She had the looks, body and personality of a porn star. It as the best sex I ever had (and the most expensive!) As I am single and having to 'pay for sex' is...

A.   21 July 2011: You said its was the best sex you ever had so there you have your answer! And to the women who look down upon men visiting prostitutes (like a couple of women in this topic) you clearly have zero empathy for what its like for men. ... (read in full...)

If we are just "friends", why did she get all dressed up to go out with me?

Q.   Dear Agony Aunts, I know this girl and I like her, but she said she just wants to be friends. I was heartbroken at first but then said to myself, I like her enough so why not just be friends. So we made an arrangement last week to see a movie...

A.   21 July 2011: I don't get why you try to be friends, stuff like that never works, just ignore her.... (read in full...)

Do girls regret some of the decisions they make when chosing guys?

Q.   We were real into each other in the beginning, almost dating. Then something happened and she never had a chance to get over her ex. Suddenly, she wasn't ready for a relationship, which I understood. She said she's never been more sexually attracted ...

A.   21 July 2011: Her reaction shows you made the right move in trying to move in, just ignore her from now on.... (read in full...)

We broke up because he had some really strange fetishes, are there others out there who enjoy these?

Q.   My exboyfriend of 1 yr and I just broke up. He was into some really strange fetishes and over time I agreed to participate in them...things like spanking him, using a strap on with him, peeing in his mouth while he performed oral sex on me, and then ...

A.   21 July 2011: What's normal anyway? There are many men who enjoy these things.... (read in full...)

Why aren't you men wooing us any more?

Q.   Hi Me and my friend (female, both around 30) were talking about courtship. We both are a little old-fashioned und we both agreed that it should be the man pursusing the woman of his heart. But why are men so passive? We came to the coclusion th...

A.   21 July 2011: After having your heart crushed a few times you just stop trying to 'woo' a woman.... (read in full...)

Does playing hard to get work on a shy guy?

Q.   So this guy and I have a tiny bit of history, ie one night (just kissing). Anyway now he's acting like a bit of a prat. He is the one that didn't want a relationship, no matter how casual. So the other night we were out together because we have a ...

A.   20 July 2011: Playing hard to get is a very poor option in trying to get someone who is shy. Maybe it will work on some but on most i can garantee you it won't. And saying that even though he's shy when a man is into you he will make a move is simply not true... (read in full...)

Shy guy didn't ask for my number! Now what?

Q.   okand today my very good guy friend shane and i were supposed to go for dinner at the last minute he said that he would be inviting this other guy too(mark)..i knew mark existed but i had never really spoken to him,and we met up for lunch and i ...

A.   20 July 2011: Why don't you make the first move and contact this guy, nothing wrong with that!... (read in full...)

Can being nervous mean a man can't keep an erection?

Q.   I recently went home with a man I've had a crush on for the past year or so. He is twice my age and we've known each other in a strictly professional capacity, so it was quite unusual and exciting to have the chance to sleep with him. When we got to ...

A.   20 July 2011: Yes off course, nerves and anxiety are a killer for a man's erection.... (read in full...)

Should I care that she did sexual things with her best friend?

Q.   Even though this is a few weeks old i need help. My girlfriend who i have had for three months went over to her best friends house and they both swam naked in the pool and her friend "touched" her and when she told me this i asked. "Why did you let ...

A.   20 July 2011: Women who cheat and show no remorse can never be trusted, i would stay away...... (read in full...)

Nice Guys

Q.   Nice guys- a lot of us have overlooked them, rejected them, or simply ignored them. Then, we become interested and they're married. So, it's like a chick flick scene where a pretty girl tells her nice guy admirer that he's too much like a brother ...

A.   20 July 2011: What exactly is a nice guy? Most people have good and bad sides, i'm usually a quiet guy, a bit shy and insecure sometimes, definitely introverted, this doesn't mean i'm a doormat or want to be, or that i'm always friendly. In general i try to treat ... (read in full...)

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