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*lice64
writes:I am 16 and my boyfriend and i just decided to have sex...and he has fingered me before and it feels good at first then like after 20ish min it stops feeling good and i dont like the feeling at all...i have a high pain tollerance and it still bothers me. and when we had sex it was the same thing. it stopped feeling good after a short time and started to hurt. and my boyfriend and i have like tried everything...differnet positions and everythingi dont think what im feeling is really normal but i dont know what to do about it..ive never heard of anyone elce like this..help! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2009): if your not completly relaxed or wet enough it can start to feel painful so as others said use plenty of lube,make sure its water based so it doesnt split your condoms, which im hoping you are using, if it still hurts maybe just maybe hes spending too much time on you let him lie down and you do the pleasuring this will give u a chance to relax again and then he can try with u after
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reader, mister.m  +, writes (8 July 2009):
 Use lots of foreplay + additional lubrication if needed. Sounds like you're not getting wet enough.
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reader, possum  +, writes (8 July 2009):
Sex at first can feel odd, but shouldn't feel painful after the first couple of times. Are you sufficiently lubricated? If you are too dry then it will be sore and painful after a while. If you are dry, then you need more foreplay or some lubricant. If you are using condoms you need to make sure the lube won't corrode the condom.
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