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hey well i have alot of experience either way u spin it i am of da charts wit boyz i have had any probz u had and more!i maybe a bit harsh wen u ask 4 da truth but u need it even dough i dnt no jak !"£$ bout you i wanna help u so b prepared 4 anything luv u even if i dnt no u xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

p.s dat stuff i wrote after jak is a swaer word i am also a very funny personn

I have been suspicious of her cheating, even if its not full sex maybe just fooling around.

Q.   Hey everyone I've been with this girl for 11 months now, I'm very much in love with her and for the most part things are great. However lately I have been suspicious of her cheating, even if its not full sex maybe just fooling around. She says...

A.   12 June 2007: well if you really are worried about it then you can always ask her .....but dotn keep pressuring her as she might think that you dont trust her ....therefore pushing her away ..after when you ask her if you still feel the same way follow her and ... (read in full...)

I think I have fallen in love with my best friend, but she happens to be a female also.

Q.   I think I have fallen in love with my best friend, but she happens to be a female also. We do some of the weirdest things together, and are pretty much connected at the hip. Sometimes it almost seems as if we flirt with each other, always taking ...

A.   5 June 2007: Well, if you do tell her your feelings then you could lose her as a best mate, but gain her as more. But if you tell her and she doesn't feel the same, you will also lose her. It is risky. Tell her how you feel. Life is full of risks. xxxx... (read in full...)

I read one of his messages and discovered that 2 weeks previous to my visit he had gone to stay with his best friend, he had kissed his best friend's girlfriend and stayed at her house!

Q.   I have recently started seeing someone who I have had an on-off relationship with for a few years. When staying at his flat, he took a shower and left his facebook account on his pc. I read one of his messages and discovered that 2 weeks previous ...

A.   5 June 2007: No, don't let that guy get away with that because it will only get worse. Stand your ground, be strong and don't let him take advantage. xxx... (read in full...)

She told me I was average in bed and that I didn't know what I was really doing! Any tips, or do I just have to practice??

Q.   I just started having sex with a girlfriend, I was a virgin before I met her. She has had a lot more experience than me with older guys. She recently told me that "I don't know what I'm doing" during sex. This is a huge blow to me since I thought I ...

A.   5 June 2007: Let me tell you, son, it is always sh*t at first. Practice makes perfect, man.... (read in full...)

We decided to be best friends, but now I think she's seeing someone and I'm getting jealous! Is she worth all this??

Q.   ok this is a question about people in general, i have a real problem letting people into my life, i dunno why i just find it difficult, but lately there has been this girl who iv really gotten on well with and talk to her about stuff thats more ...

A.   5 June 2007: Well, it is obvious you have feelings for her. Don't let it pass up. Go for it, man. xxxx... (read in full...)

15 and pregnant... how do I tell my mom?

Q.   hi. i am 15 i have found out 3 weeks ago that i am pregnant i have onlii had sex twice and we have used protection both times but i have managed to get pregnant i have told my child studies teacher at school because she is realli easii to talk to ...

A.   22 May 2007: i think yooh need to take it easy and calm down i am nt tryin to discourage yooh buhh yoh are 15 yooh dnbt have any income..... an dit is most likley that the babiii wiill be taken away from yoooh...yoooh are under age which means that the two... (read in full...)

Should I tell his wife he cheated on her?

Q.   I was seeing a married man for 15 months. He is 46, 13 yrs my senior. Married 24 yrs, with 4 kids and 2 grandkids. I should say he was also my boss and sunday school teacher.After months of pushing him away he held on strong. Everyone knew except ...

A.   15 May 2007: i think yooh should tell her as it is not fair he is left getting everything he wants while ur outside all cld and lonley ....... tell it is the right thing tooo do //// trust me bbe....xxxx... (read in full...)

how do i ask him if its just sex or if its a relationship?

Q.   i was sleeping with a guy and fell pregnant we were happy and then all of a sudden he ended it and left town for work. when my baby was born he was all excited and has spent every day with her and we have been having sex again and everything seems ...

A.   15 May 2007: well sooner or later yoou are ging to have to ask him ... ask him casualiii buhh dnt get ur hopes up .....xxx ... (read in full...)

I love my 40 year old teacher but he doesn't know it! How do I forget him?

Q.   I'm eighteen years old. I also love "my" teacher...He's fourty one years old..This sick feeling least already for two jears...This is obsession...I can't live without him(so how prodigy I'm still hee???????) I can't stop loving him...I never thought ...

A.   15 May 2007: im not being rude and im seriously not trying to burst your dream bubble ......but it iant never going to happen seriuosly doo you know how much trouble yooh to could get in to ....it is illegal.....it is a dream keep it that wayy trust me yooh dnt ... (read in full...)

How can I tell my friend she doesn't sing well? And will my bf dump me for not wanting to have sex with him?

Q.   hi im 15. me and my boyfriend have been together now for 3 months. he has just left schooland he is 16. he has mentioned sex a few times but i have kept sayin i am too young and i want to wait. he just says ok but if i do not have sex with him will ...

A.   15 May 2007: well about ur friend yooh r going to have to tell her sooner or latrev soo yooh may as well do it sooner ...before she makes a complete fool of herself.. about ur boyfriend i dunoo it is illegal innit buhh every wun does at ur age soo its a top mi... (read in full...)

Is she stringing me along? How can I take back control of this unequal relationship?

Q.   Hi, I've just recently been dumped by my girlfriend of 6 months, who I am madly in love with. Our relationship has sort of been one-sided with her always being the one who was in control of us staying together. From the beginning she was very busy ...

A.   11 March 2006: if i was u i would move on she dosent care about u shes using you she is only playing aroung with your feelings and its not proper confrontation is da best solution at the moment good luck minaah p.s u do deserve a lot better xxxxxxxxxxxxx ... (read in full...)

My friend tells stories to try and win sympathy

Q.   Well, I've got this 'friend' who really annoys me. She's always talking about how her brother beats her up, but she never has bruises and she smiles like it doesn't matter when she tells us, then she looks all sad and expects us to be sympathetic. ...

A.   11 March 2006: well tell the way she keeps going on about her financial problems and such are annoying you be opened and honest with her i have a best friend and if i dont like the way she presenting herself i will tell her and she doesent get mad try it ok m... (read in full...)

Now I've realised I like my shy friend, should I risk our friendship?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I used to be best friends with this guy, who is quite unpopular. When he told me he fancied me we drifted apart. This year I had to sit next to him in Maths. At first I was mega annoyed but after a while we got along great again. I...

A.   11 March 2006: tell him you never know what might happen but you have to take this in consideration that if anything should cause you to break up then your friendship can never be the same but as i said if ur more then willing to take the risk GO FOR IT best... (read in full...)

My partner wants to cum on my face but it makes me feel violated!

Q.   I've been in a relationship for over four years, we love each other madly and have a child together. However, my partner wants to come on my face during sex and is unhappy (which I find unbearable to live with) when I refuse to let him. I feel vio...

A.   5 March 2006: i mean sex is a great experience believe me try and tell him tell it how it makes u feel if u feel violated tell him he might not b happy bout it but if he really loves u he would stop tell mahow it goes minaahx... (read in full...)

I want him to trust again and how can I keep him entertained?

Q.   ok, i'm 16 and theres this guy i've liked for about 6 months. we flirt and talk a little and he's come over to my house twice. He's been burnt before in a relationship and hasn't had a girlfriend in a long time. he knows I like him. my friend ...

A.   18 February 2006: he needs time thats all but dont pressure him or hell think that your smothering him just give him a bit of space and that should do it best of luck minaah x... (read in full...)

She smokes pot now but I want to be her friend again

Q.   Hi im in year 11. I dont have any friends and am lonely at break times, lunch times, even after school. The reason this all happened was because my best friend who i really liked and shared interests with left me and moved to a big group of peo...

A.   18 February 2006: hey look you really should put yourself out there try and get her on her own and ask her hang out with them this is a matter of want you want to do its ur body just be careful because stuff like this results to bigger crime like theft and such be ... (read in full...)

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