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I don't know whether to ask my friend to ask him what the hell is going on, or leave it and see what happens with him... what do you think?

Q.   It's been 5 months and I'm still hung up on the same guy, we saw each other for a bit and kissed and stuff and it never went too far, then he told me he was off women and we stopped seeing each other and he saw other girls. Then at the christmas ...

A.   20 January 2009: Move on and meet new people, sounds to me he likes the control element, he knows you like him and loves the attention. Please meet someone else, there are planty of fish in the sea as they say, trust me, I am 29 and have been hung up on many guys ... (read in full...)

Ex really hurt in accident-should I go see him? Or not go?

Q.   My situations is this: theirs this guy which I'm intrested in and vise versa, but my ex boyfriend of 3 years has recently had a very bad car accident.. My ex boyfriends sister came to my house telling me that her brother wants to talk to me, he ...

A.   18 January 2009: I think you should go, it doesnt mean you have to sleep with him or make any promises. Just see what he has to say and it will give you something to think about. If he does want you back then it would be up to you what to do. I would say it ... (read in full...)

My girl is missing her ex boyfriend

Q.   i have been dating the girl in the apartment upstairs since early summer. the attraction was unbelievable for months....when the holidays came around...just before thanksgiving she became distant...come to find out...she is missing her former ...

A.   18 January 2009: Hey I have recently gone through this, it is terribly hard when it comes to ex's. All these feelings come up again that you have tried to suppress and you cant seem to cope. My ex boyfriend finished with me due to him having too much pride and ... (read in full...)

Girlfriend ended things but still has strong feelings... Confused!!

Q.   Ok here's the deal... I've been seeing what is now I guess my Ex for 7 months, but we were living together for 6 months before that and travelling together spending every waking moment and a lot of experiences together, so in reality it feels a lot ...

A.   15 January 2009: maybe she cheated on you so being apart from you and ended things has given her the punishment she needs. Perhaps she does want to be with you, but cant because of this. Otherwise, I think her reason is stupid. You either want to be with someone ... (read in full...)

I don't know what our status is?

Q.   i met a man on the internet and originally it was just for slightly kinky sex which neither of us had tried before, this didn't really get started as we soon were contacting each other daily and seeing each other weekly.over the past 2 months, and I ...

A.   14 January 2009: Are you a virgo? You sound like me! It sounds like you are analysing things a lot, maybe you fear he will reject you and so you are picking up on any little thing that might mean he doesn't want you. the fact he didnt initiate anything the last 2 ... (read in full...)

Is it better the second time around?

Q.   Has anyone ever got together with an ex and it been better the second time around as you had learnt from certain mistakes? I may be getting back with my ex boyfriend and I feel that I have definitely learnt a big lesson, which came with a lot of ...

A.   18 December 2008: I love my ex boyfriend so much, the reason we are not together now is because he has gone travelling for 4 months. It is killing me inside. I am however positive about the future as much as possible, it has gone from me seeing no light at the end ... (read in full...)

Should I wait for her or get on with my life?

Q.   Last week I made a post about my girlfriends ex wanting her back after six months apart, she still had feelings for him and she didn't know who she wanted. On Monday this week I told her that we should just be friends because its unfair for anyon...

A.   18 December 2008: I think that you would have more of a chance if you just simply send her a text or email (make it brief) that you love her and would do anything for her, but are going to take a step back and give her time and space, also tell her that if she needs ... (read in full...)

Should I wait for her or get on with my life?

Q.   Last week I made a post about my girlfriends ex wanting her back after six months apart, she still had feelings for him and she didn't know who she wanted. On Monday this week I told her that we should just be friends because its unfair for anyon...

A.   12 December 2008: Hey, your post rings very close to my heart, I am exactly in this situation, but I am your ex girlfriend. My ex boyfriend broke my heart 6 months ago, and I moved on. I met a wonderful guy and we hit it off immediately. to be honest, I totally ... (read in full...)

Love Sick Don't Know What To Do!

Q.   Hi! I don't know what to do,I am so torn apart. I broke up with someone i love very much about 8 months ago and it has been hell since then. We are currently in contact, am not sure if he is still interested in me because I am crazy about him. Do i ...

A.   10 December 2008: why did you 2 break up? This would help with any advice... (read in full...)

Been with him for 8 years now but he has no financial stability.

Q.   I have been dating the same guy for 8 years and we are not moving forward mostly because I will not. He is kind, caring and handsome, but he has no financial stability and we totally are different when it comes to parenting and resolving conflict. ...

A.   6 December 2008: Hmmm - I can relate to this, except I have been with someone similar for only 6 months, he is ready to step up the commitment and I dont feel in my gut that I would be happy to do so. My boyfriend is funny, handsome, smart, but has no house, no car ... (read in full...)

He's come on so strong and said he loves me. Is this normal? is he desperate? Or just too good to be true?

Q.   Ok I've been talking to this guy for about 4 months but only seeing him for the past month. Things have been amazing and I really see this going somewhere. The thing is he has come on very strong from the start. Things like he hasn't felt like this ...

A.   30 November 2008: I honestly think that this guy could be on the rebound and using you to replace the place of an ex that broke his heart - I cold be wrong, but it has happened to me before.... (read in full...)

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