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My name is Toni-Michelle and I’m completely animal mad! I have two cats, two gerbils and lots of tropical fish!
I live in Nottingham, UK and plan to one-day jet off to sunnier climes! I'm heavily into rock music (all types).
I don’t have any pieces of paper to say that I’m qualified to help people though I’ve been through my fair share of troubles and would like to help or maybe even prevent others getting into the same situations I was in.
I’ve been beaten up by various men, married/divorced, my ex husband went to prison, another ex was a rather unsavoury character who was convicted of something which I don’t think I’m allowed to mention on here, I was a severe self harmer (& have many unsightly scars), I have OCD, I’m bisexual and have explored, enjoyed & experimented with the ‘female side’ and ultimately decided that, although I fancy women, I communicate better with men in terms of relationships (women are too good at arguing!!! Lol), I’ve researched the human mind, hormones & behaviours online to better understand depression and it's effects on relationships to help me to understand others needs.
I love helping people and, although my answers may not always be correct or what everybody wants to hear, I do my best and try to pass on as much helpful advice as possible whether it be something I’ve experienced or someone close to me has gone through.
I am not judgemental, however, I have strong views on and place high importance on matters relating to marriage, commitment, fidelity, respect and being happy.
Any questions, please send me a message :)
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Help, I need to know... Is my boyfriend cheating on me?
Q. I have found a text message on my boyfriend's mobile phone. From a woman who has cropped up many a time in our past 2 years together. it said 'i miss you, i want you, I need you'. Is he cheating? Should I confront him? Is there any way that thi...
A. 29 June 2009: Well, on that score, I'd definitely say that you need to confront him. This isn't fair on you at all and if he has lied about it before, he is more than capable of doing it again. I agree with the anonymous reader below, if you get a gut feelin... (read in full...)
My wife watches a lot of porn. Is this normal?
Q. I just found out my wife has a tonne of porn on her laptop. We have an ok sex life having sex about 2 times a week but many times she turns me down. I noticed she seldom goes to bed the same time I do and comes to bed really late like 2am. Her ex...
A. 29 June 2009: Hmm, I suppose it depends really.
I absolutely adore porn but, as my boyfriend (who also love porn) has stopped watching it while I'm not around, I've also stopped.
Maybe you could suggest watching it together? Ask her about her fantasies? ... (read in full...)
If I told my boyfriend about me cheating... do you think he'll forgive me?
Q. Okay well I still havent told my boyfriend I have cheated because I dont want to hurt him and I dont want to destroy the great relationship I have with him now! I seriously do not think I would ever cheat on him again cause the guilt I have felt so ...
A. 29 June 2009: Ok, You made the mistake of letting yourself get into that situation in the first place but did stop it when you realised what you were doing. I don't think you'd gain anything by letting him know about this one-off mishap. The torture you're p... (read in full...)
Help, I need to know... Is my boyfriend cheating on me?
Q. I have found a text message on my boyfriend's mobile phone. From a woman who has cropped up many a time in our past 2 years together. it said 'i miss you, i want you, I need you'. Is he cheating? Should I confront him? Is there any way that thi...
A. 29 June 2009: This is a toughie. What were your reasons for checking his phone in the first place? Has he given you any indication that he may have cheated in the past? Is this other girl an ex, a friend??
Obviously you are hurt and upset at the minute, ... (read in full...)
Turned on by a video of women..what does that mean?
Q. yeaterday my boyfriend and i were getting into it when he suggested we had sex while watching porn...i figured why not try something new so he opens up a video of a man and a woman doing it but for some reson i cant explain i wasnt turned on ...
A. 29 June 2009: It's difficult as (to agree with the above answer) you are at 'that age' where you are still discovering new things about yourself.
I wouldn't worry too much though, lots of girls are turned on just as much as men by lesbian porn, it doesn't ... (read in full...)
Turned on by a video of women..what does that mean?
Q. yeaterday my boyfriend and i were getting into it when he suggested we had sex while watching porn...i figured why not try something new so he opens up a video of a man and a woman doing it but for some reson i cant explain i wasnt turned on ...
A. 29 June 2009: It's difficult as (to agree with the above answer) you are at 'that age' where you are still discovering new things about yourself.
I wouldn't worry too much though, lots of girls are turned on just as much as men by lesbian porn, it doesn't ... (read in full...)
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