Why won't he pleasure me?
Q. dear agony aunt i really hope you can help. i have been going out with my boyfriend for almost 2 years and i have noticed at the beginging of the relationship he is so greedy in the bedroom its all about him. i will pleasure him but when its his ...
A. 28 December 2007: Yes, this can be a difficult subject to talk to your partner about, because it can be seen as maybe a criticism that they're not doing their job. It's *great* that you guys have open communication, that's a start! Just let him know that you'd really ... (read in full...)
What are the chances I am pregant this time around??
Q. hello, I'm am one of the many TTC. i think i have narrowed my fertile dates down to 13th-16th with 16th being ovulation day...all of these are according to internet sites. To increase my chances i had sex every one of those days. What do you thin...
A. 28 December 2007: Sorry, I meant 2 days :) Sperm can stay alive for around 2 days inside...... (read in full...)
What are the chances I am pregant this time around??
Q. hello, I'm am one of the many TTC. i think i have narrowed my fertile dates down to 13th-16th with 16th being ovulation day...all of these are according to internet sites. To increase my chances i had sex every one of those days. What do you thin...
A. 28 December 2007: If you also have regular periods, you can chart and that will tell you when your fertile days are. There are some websites that can help with that. The Basal thermometer also helps as well, and there are many signs that you are ovulating, such as ... (read in full...)
I'm on the pill but afraid I might have gotten pregnant anyway, what do you think?
Q. I am asking my question again to see if I may please get some more responses. I am on the pill and have been for a few years now. I have been having sex without condoms with my boyfriend. I am having spotting which has gone from light pink to ...
A. 28 December 2007: Yes, the symptoms you are having can be caused by a multitude of things. But, I have gotten pregnant on the pill twice and on the depo shot once, so it's probably not as uncommon as people think! I was religious with the pill too, I took it every ... (read in full...)
I just can't find a way out! Help!
Q. I was friends this older man and all i wanted a frienship, but somehow it lead to being more than just that. He wanted more but i did not because of the age difference. Later in the last year I ended the relationship and continue the friendship. In ...
A. 28 December 2007: Keep in mind that there are some battles you will *never* win, and making sure it's known that you didn't initiate the 'affair' will probably be one of those things you will never win! The older guy I was with initiated anything, and no matter how ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 but I feel very old. Yet I get considered a kid by everybody so why do I feel like an old foggie then??
Q. i am 14 and i feel like i am very old yet i get considered a baby by my parents and a kid to others mainly because i am the youngest in my house why do i feel like a old foggie am i old?...
A. 28 December 2007: LOL...I wouldn't say 'old fogie' I would say "Wise beyond your years" lol. Everyone always told me that, and I never quite fit in with people my own age. It all works out!... (read in full...)
How do I forgive myself?
Q. I LIED. How do I live with myself? I live with my boyfriend and a male roommate. My roommate recently rekindled a relationship with an ex-fiance, while hiding it from his current girlfriend. The current girlfriend showed up unnannounced and I ...
A. 28 December 2007: Apologize to her, and refuse to lie for your roommate ever again. If she hasn't found out about his new romance, tell him that either he comes clean, or you will!... (read in full...)
How can I prevent a heavy flow?
Q. Hello, I recently posted a question about being worried about my heavy period. It's gone down now and everything is fine. I was just wondering, for later refrenses, if there's anything you can do to stop a heavy flow. I don't mean pills. I mean like ...
A. 28 December 2007: First off, if it's unusually heavy, you should probably talk to a doctor, sometimes that can be a sign of something bigger going on. I don't know how to make your period lighter, I've had heavy periods my whole life and just dealt with them. Make ... (read in full...)
I normally shave all the time, but my new boyfriend touched me there and may have felt my pubic hair. Should I feel embarassed?
Q. I normally shave all the time, but my new boyfriend touched my down there and I think he felt my pubes. I'm so humiliated and I think he is going to tell kids at school. What should I do?...
A. 28 December 2007: LOL, everyone has pubic hair...why does it matter if he felt them?!?!?!
I know more guys that are freaked out by shaved areas than guys who are freaked out by pubic hair!... (read in full...)
Why won't he pleasure me?
Q. dear agony aunt i really hope you can help. i have been going out with my boyfriend for almost 2 years and i have noticed at the beginging of the relationship he is so greedy in the bedroom its all about him. i will pleasure him but when its his ...
A. 28 December 2007: First off, some guys need to know EXACTLY what you want done. Now, when you say pleasure, is it sex that you're talking about, or is it like, 'personal' pleasure, like oral sex and whatnot? If it's regular sex, you may need to direct him. If he ... (read in full...)
Is the letter my wife sent to her male friend real or fantasy? She said she was only playing.
Q. I am a married male of 14 yrs - I recently caught an email that my wife sent to a male friend and collegue of hers - who is married as well. Below is the exact note: "If I could close my eyes and then open them only to find myself there in the roo...
A. 28 December 2007: Let her know how much this so called 'innocent' letter did to you. Let her know that it really hurt you, made you question her, and suggest that maybe you guys get marriage counselling. I don't know, this is all really strange to me, that doesn't ... (read in full...)
How do I keep a New Year's resolution?
Q. I know this isnt a sex etc related question but if possible can i have sum advice. Im planning to do the old new years resolution thing, and i was wondering if any1 has actually managed to keep theres, because i hear of everyone saying thet will...
A. 28 December 2007: I think you really have to be motivated to keep the resolution. It was our resolution to get in financial 'shape' for the past three years, but finally, last year, we found the motivation we needed and we have stuck to it. ... (read in full...)
Why won't she even let me take her shirt off?
Q. K, so I'm just wondring why the girl I'm dating won't tongue kiss, and won't go past kissing at all. We've gone on 5 dates now, and talk all the time, but she won't tongue kiss, her version of making out is just repetitive pecks, which I'm cool w...
A. 28 December 2007: Give her time. She may be holding off because you are *truly* special to her and she doesn't want to ruin the relationship by taking it to the next level. That does happen, sometimes girls have a history that they regret, and when they find someone ... (read in full...)
I've found pornographic pics of my 16 yr old sister on the internet! What shall I do?
Q. ive found pictures of my sister on the internet. She is with different lads having sex, anal, bondage etc. she is only 16!! should i tell her or our parents or just ignore it?...
A. 28 December 2007: I would talk to her personally, let her know that you saw some things on the net of her, see what she has to say. She may need help, she may be stuck in some God-awful situation and she needs someone to help her out of it. After talking to her and ... (read in full...)
He lied to me so I broke up but I still love him, how can I forget him and move on?
Q. Hi all, i really need some advice i am so confused. 3 month ago my boyfriend sent a flattering messageto a girl(saying how no1 can be as beautiful as her). He sent it to me by mistake. We broke up. He said it was a girl in work, even told me where ...
A. 28 December 2007: Easy...just keep reminding yourself that he was putting another girl before you! And you don't know what was going on with them, do you know how long they had been talking? Regardless if there was 'physical' cheating on his part, he went outside of ... (read in full...)
I'm tired of being his doormat...
Q. I have been married to my husband for 3 and a half years and throughout our relationship I have become his doormat. I've changed everything to make him happier, but I feel like he only comes to me when he needs something such as sex or food. He ...
A. 28 December 2007: He has never been physical with me, and I honestly don't think it will ever escalate to that. His father was a lose cannon, I think that a lot of his behaviors are learned behaviors, things he picked up from his dad. I am afraid that my kids will ... (read in full...)
Should I continue having an affair or be sexually stressed?
Q. I have been married for 7 years. Both of us are 33. I love my wife a lot and she is very good wife to me. We have two kids. However, our sex life is almost dead. In most cases once in two or three months. I have high sexual derive and sexually ...
A. 28 December 2007: Infidelity is NEVER the answer. Get counselling and stop contacting this other woman asap. Your wife is a saint if she doesn't kick your booty to the curb after finding out about this affair that you've already started!... (read in full...)
Why would he be like this with me if he's so in love with his wife?
Q. this is hard to explain, but im goin to try. im 18 years old and im in highschool and i feel that my 45 year old teacher has feelings for me but i dont really understand it bc hes always telling me how much hes in love with his 24 year old wife, but ...
A. 28 December 2007: Yikes...run away, run far away...well, as far as possible considering he is your teacher. He sounds like a womanizer, I'd keep my distance. Why in the world is he emailing you. This is very inappropriate, he could lose his job over this.... (read in full...)
Can I get pregnant 2 days after my ovulation day?
Q. can i get pregnant 2 days after my ovulation day? how long do i stay ovulating after that day.?...
A. 28 December 2007: Sure can :) Every woman is different, though, but you can get pregnant pretty much *any* time lol. I have three reasons (and proof) to believe that!!... (read in full...)
How can I believe him when he says I'm beautiful?
Q. My husband gets up really early in the morning for work. This is also when all the porn is on. I understand men wake up excited and need a release. My problem is I feel like I'm being compared later when we have sex or I am naked in front of him. He ...
A. 28 December 2007: I am with ya girl!!! Three c-sections and being 40 lbs heavier than when we met have made me FAR from perfect!!! My husband is a very sexual person, he enjoys watching porn, I know about it. I don't think it's a matter that he doesn't think you're ... (read in full...)
Tips about men attracting women and the mistakes generally made during the process?
Q. I HAVE A QUESTION AS TO WHAT ARE THE SECRETS TO ATTRACT WOMEN. HOW CAN MEN ATTRACT WOMEN AND WHAT ARE THE MISTAKES COMMONLY FOR MAN? [Moderator's note. Caps off next time, please.]...
A. 27 December 2007: Don't try to be someone you're not. Confidence and self-assurance are always turn-ons. Don't be too aggressive or forward, either, that could come off the wrong way.... (read in full...)
How do I know if he just likes me for me or because we make out? I'm invisible when his friends are near.
Q. Dear Cupid, I like this boy, and sometimes we make out but when he is with is friends, Im just an invisible line... How can I get im to notice me even more, and treat me like is girlfriend? And how do I know i e just likes me because im prett...
A. 27 December 2007: Tell him what you want from him. If he doesn't want to commit to the whole boyfriend/girlfriend thing, give him the boot. This situations spells out heartache to me...it's better to find out now if he's using you than a little while down the road ... (read in full...)
I just can't find a way out! Help!
Q. I was friends this older man and all i wanted a frienship, but somehow it lead to being more than just that. He wanted more but i did not because of the age difference. Later in the last year I ended the relationship and continue the friendship. In ...
A. 27 December 2007: I think you should apologize. How did he contact you? Through email, telephone? I had been in a similar situation with a married older man who also wanted to keep me on the side. I changed my phone number, my email address, and I refused to speak ... (read in full...)
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