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I am single 19 student.

My gf doesn't want me to please her because she thinks I expect the same back

Q.   Hi there. I have a girlfriend and I love. I sometimes do nice and cute stuff to make her happy. And I usually expect to be rewarded for doing so by her as well. As it appears, she doesn't share my point of view. I offered her to make a romantic...

A.   11 September 2014: Hey guys, just an update. We broke up. We really didn't seem to be incompatible. Thanks for the answers from those who took time to read the question properly.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend said "I love you" so quickly! How long does it take for them to know they're in love?

Q.   I'm 18 years old. My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months. He told me he loved me for the first time very early in our relationship (2 weeks) and it kinda freaked me out how early he said that. For a while I just wouldn't say it back ...

A.   30 October 2013: Well, he is just a good guy, yep. And he loves you as well. I actually only started the relationship, when I felt I was in love with my female friend. But very early after that I could say "I love you" and it makes sense.... (read in full...)

Would you give him another chance?

Q.   At work this man use to look after me, he was older and use to flirt etc. At first I liked him. But i told him i didn't fancy him because people were talking and i get shy. At that point, this kind helpful man became two-faced and nasty. He trie...

A.   15 September 2013: Well, he is so revengeful, I don't like that. What if it doesn't work out so well for you two, he will start to harass you again. You'd better be careful... (read in full...)

What should I prepare for when visting an escort for the first time?

Q.   I'm 27 years old and a virgin, and I always thought about waiting for the right girl that I liked or was into me, however I just grew impatient. I'm shy, I don't feel comfortable in myself so I feel that I'm not any girls type and not attractive to ...

A.   6 September 2013: Condoms and money, I suppose. That's all... (read in full...)

Why is my height so unattractive?

Q.   I have been rejected by hundreds of girls offline and thousands of girls online and have lost heart and all sense of my 'physical' self-esteem. It is very difficult to remain confident after that. My track record keeps me from trying now as I have ...

A.   4 September 2013: Be cool and someone will love you for your personality, otherwise you'll die alone. :( ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is convinced he is not "BIG" enough.

Q.   Hello dear internet, I have nowhere else to turn and thus I find myself here requesting your genial and honest advice. This is mostly an appeal to men, personally as a woman I don't understand it but anyone who can offer advice I will be very ...

A.   31 August 2013: My god that's silly. If he isn't convinced directly by you saying "it is OK", than he is braindead and there's no way out. :(... (read in full...)

I've already pitched in money for a holiday and now my girlfriend is treating me like crap. I don't think I want to be with her.

Q.   About two months ago my girlfriend and her friends (her friends,not mine)decided to go on a vacation and they invited me. We calculated that it would be 500 dollars a person. Everyone pitched in money 2 months ago in order to ensure commitment and ...

A.   24 July 2013: Go on vacation and find someone there to date temporarely. She will be pissed and will try to return you. Women are jealous - easy.... (read in full...)

Sex has got rough since we have got closer. Why is this?

Q.   Dear all. Your views would be much appreciated. My bf and I have had a pretty turbulent relationship over the last two years. I was ready to leave a few months back,and since then, his behaviour had changed towards me in a good way. He now treats ...

A.   23 July 2013: Well, he might dream about this kind of sex (which he saw in porn for example). I think he is just making his dream come true, when he is sure that you won't leave him because of that. Just talk to him if you are curious or don't like it.... (read in full...)

I am too scared by previous relationships to say "I love you"

Q.   I suffered too much being too much emotionally involved in my previous relationship . In simple words, I was too romantic and my ex girl friends and then wife walked over me. Now I have met this this American girl in Dubai and whom I liked but I ...

A.   23 July 2013: Well, if you love her, say it and be together. What's the problem? Confessing love makes you more vulnerable? Or she will more likely use and leave you? What's the point?... (read in full...)

Do I go on a date with the brother?

Q.   So i have a bit of a sticky situation and have no idea how to deal with it. I've just started to hang out with a few guys from my college recently, who i've know for a very long time now. I had a sort of 'thing' with one of the guys in the group a ...

A.   3 July 2013: I think the one "you had a thing with" now saw that 'the toy' he wanted just to use was taken by someone else and wants it immediately back. Try dating with his brother. If he is nice, you win. If not, you can still try the first one.... (read in full...)

My gf doesn't want me to please her because she thinks I expect the same back

Q.   Hi there. I have a girlfriend and I love. I sometimes do nice and cute stuff to make her happy. And I usually expect to be rewarded for doing so by her as well. As it appears, she doesn't share my point of view. I offered her to make a romantic...

A.   5 June 2013: I am very glad to receive so much feedback. However, I've already stated that I had realized that I had been wrong. Now I am just doing what I always do and though I can't make myself not to expect anything, I don't ever demand anything from her.... (read in full...)

Is it normal to not feel pleasure during sex?

Q.   Hello there! I suppose this is quite to the point, but I literally feel nothing during sex. At first, sleeping with my boyfriend was painful. But that's normal and we've gotten through that, but never once has it been pleasurable. I'm gett...

A.   10 August 2012: As I know, there is a type of women that don't get pleasure during sex. Not much you could then, but maybe you can do a research to see what internet can suggest on this cases (maybe some kamasutra exotics). Anyway, as long as you satisfy your ... (read in full...)

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