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How do you have sex with a virgin without hurting her?

Q.   My girlfriend is a virgin and I am not. She wants to have sex but I have never had sex with a virgin. How should I have sex with her with ought hurting her. ...

A.   20 November 2006: hi its good that you are thinking about your girlfriends feelings and not just rushing into things, now first of all you need to get her in the mood, then when shes ready start to play a little to loosen her up when you think its time you can... (read in full...)

I need tips on how to please a guy!

Q.   Guys, which do you prefer: head or hand job? and any tips? x...

A.   20 November 2006: hi im not a guy but between me and you my bf usually prefers head but that doesnt mean 2 say he doesnt like to be played with most guys do ! lol ... (read in full...)

My bf wants us to sleep together, but I am afraid, what do I do?

Q.   my bf wants us to sleep together, and you'll think this is stupid b/c we're both mid-20s, but we've never done it before (with anyone - not just each other), and he's ready, but i'm nervous. i grew up in a real religious family, so i started out ...

A.   14 November 2006: hi hun well first of all you need to know are you definatley ready for this (and is he ) ? just because of your age you dont have to rush into things its about respecting your body. once you know your ready have an alone night in with him (rem... (read in full...)

My BF cheated on me - can I forgive and forget eventually?

Q.   My boyfriend of 2 1/2 years just told me last night that he cheated on me. The act took place last night as well so I guess I should be grateful that he came to me right away. I don't know how I should feel about this. He didn't have sex with her. ...

A.   5 September 2006: hi hunni from what you have just said this guy seems pretty genuine, ok people make mistakes an im not saying its alrite to cheat because its absolutley unexeptable but you clearly love this man and i think he deserves another chance for being so... (read in full...)

I'm on the pill and we want to try sex with a condom - is it a wise decision?

Q.   Should I have sex without two forms of contraception? I'm sixteen and have been in a relationship for 5 months with my boyfriend. We so far have used a condom and I am on the pill but he recently found out that I was on it (I never told him) and ...

A.   5 September 2006: hi hunni as far as stds are concerned yes use a condom ! but if you have both been checked out then you should be ok. as for pregnancy i am aswell on the pill i used to use condoms but now find that you get more pleasure without a condom... (read in full...)

I can't find where to put my penis when I try to have sex!

Q.   Hi, i'm an 18 year old male and twice I have gone to have sex with a girl. The first time I was very drunk and couldn't find where to put my penis but I put it down to me being drunk. But a few days ago I had a girl over and the scene was perfect ...

A.   5 September 2006: hi hunni sorry to hear about your troubles but belive me your not the only one sometimes my bf finds it a little hard 2 find at first but why dont you have a little play first explore the vagina it may find it easier to find. or if all else fai... (read in full...)

I have a low pain tolerance so I'm worried about sex!

Q.   I haven't been going out with my boyfriend very long but we were friends for almost a year before we started dating. I'm 19 and he's 27, he's had one partner before me. I know he's ready for sex and I think I am too. I want to have sex with him but ...

A.   30 August 2006: hi hun have you talked to your boyfriend about this ? if not i think you should so he can understand your worries and then he may go gentle on you also i agree with mush girl you should try fingering yourself as it will boost your confidence. ... (read in full...)

Go to the party that my ex will be at and annoy my current GF?

Q.   OKay, so I got invited to this party by a good friend of mine, which i know some okay friends will be going to. But the problem is is that my ex-girlfriend is going to be there, and i have no desire to see her until i am forced to by school (seeing ...

A.   24 August 2006: hi hun sorry to hear about your troubles, this is a tricky one but first of all you need to speak yo your current gilfriend tell her how you feel and how your ex tried to publicly embarrass you she will (hopefully) sense how upset you are by a... (read in full...)

Why is my old work colleague treating me like this?!

Q.   In February of this year I bumped into an old work collegue in New York. I live in London, he lives in Hong Kong. Since then we have kept in constant touch and became really close. This man is 17 years my senior. Last weekend we eventually got t...

A.   24 August 2006: hi hun well first of all i would say it was very wrong of him to treat you like that !, allthough he is going through a hard time at the moment there was no excuse for him to treat you like that if ever in touch with him again you need to tell ... (read in full...)

I'm a virgin at 38 years old...do I tell this to my new guy?

Q.   I have just met the man of my dreams, but i dont know whether i should tell him i am a virgin at 38 as he might think i am some sort of weirdo or something or will he work it out for himself, also as he is thin i am over weight he has not mentioned ...

A.   24 August 2006: hi hun ok if you are looking for this to lead into a serious relationship then yes you should tell him be honest and hopefully he will accept you for who you are woouldnt you rather him love you for the way you are and if hes a decent man he will ... (read in full...)

I'm 16 and I think I'm pregnant. Can my 18 yr old bf get into trouble for getting me pregnant?

Q.   ok i have a boyfriend that is 18 years of age. well i have a feeling i maybe might be pregnant and im 16 (gonna turn 17 soon tho) we are a year and 3 months apart. so can he get in trouble for being 18 aand im pregnant? jus wonderin thanks...

A.   23 August 2006: hi huni as long as you were 16 at the time and in the uk (im not sure about the usa) there is no problem as you are at the age of consent for sex and i hope you the best in the future xxx... (read in full...)

Worried because my best friend has left and the others may resent me!

Q.   I have a best friend at school, well not anymore because she just left our school because her parents wanted her to work harder. But now shes left she was very popular and im scared people will resent me because shes the one who left and not me. im ...

A.   23 August 2006: hi huni well first of all would you really want friends that actually liked your best friend and not you ? and who cares if people judge you hold your head up high and tell them how it is they will respect you more for that hope this helps xxx... (read in full...)

Hard to deal with my dad passing when I was 5, I resent mum because of it...

Q.   when i was young (5, im now nearly 15) my dad died, and i cant say ive had an easy life since. But sometimes i resent my Mum and even hate her, because she was left behind and not him. I know thats a horrible thing but im so mad i never knew him and ...

A.   23 August 2006: hi huni a lot of teenagers go through the same stage of resentment for their parents or guardians. first of all do you have any family you can speak to ? or maybe even close friends they may be able to speak to your mum or may be even take you in ... (read in full...)

Handy Work!!

Q.   hi all i was just windering if anyone could tell me how to toss a lad off i don't ave a clue what to do.... plz help xxx...

A.   23 August 2006: hi huni ok first of all you should only be doing this if you feel comfortable in doing it and the partner your doing it too speak to him tell him its your first time doing this he should resoect you for telling him and maybe he will help you out or ... (read in full...)

The person who gave my boyfriend an STD 10 years ago turns out to be someone I know!

Q.   My boyfriend has recently informed me that someone I know is the person who gave him an STD 10 years ago. I have to see this girl all the time and it kills me. He doesn't know whether or not she knew she had it at the time but he ended up with it ...

A.   23 August 2006: hi huni to be honest with you i would probably be bugged by this too you need to discuss this with your boyfriend your relationship has nothing unless you have trust but if you love him then you need to understand his situation and not be jelous ... (read in full...)

I orgasm when I got the loo!! Seriously how can I can stop this ?

Q.   Ok I need some serious help. About two years ago I started doing kegel exercises every day. Needless to say it really helped. I experience way, way better orgasms, and I can grab a hold of things a alot better. If you know what I mean. Now sometimes ...

A.   23 August 2006: hi huni this sounds gr8 to be able to orgasm most of the time and most women wpuld be very envious of you but as i can see this is embarassing you i would like to help when your on the loo dont try to think in a different way like think of something ... (read in full...)

Girls Gone Wild!!

Q.   Ok back in 2004 I was on the show girls gone wild in Miami, Florida. I loved it. Being with girls, having sex with girls. But now that I don't see them that often as I used to, How do I find a girl to get with? There it was so simlpe because every ...

A.   23 August 2006: hi huni have you tryed online dating ? if that isnt working for you why not save up for a good night out try gay clubs and bars and dont be ashamed of your sexuality flaunt it go out and enjoy yourself hope this helps xxx... (read in full...)

My brother gets away with everything and its really not fair! What should I do ?

Q.   hi am 14 years old and i am fed up with my brother who is 16 he always swears and my mum hardly does anything about it a part from shouting at him but he still does it again. But recently i hid my brothers game and my mum told me to give it back but ...

A.   23 August 2006: hi huni i have a brother 3 yrs older than myself an have had to deal with similar experiences i think the reason why your mother was more upset with you for swearing at her is that she doesnt expect it from her daughter as mother and daughter ... (read in full...)

What a boy wants

Q.   hi im 13 and i am just learning about boys and how basically all they think and care about is sex and women. i am now really upset cos thts all boys want :( so they have no respect for girls tht means :( i hate it! i hate tht that is all they care ...

A.   23 August 2006: hey huni dont worry not all males your age think that way and even if they do (hopefully) they will grow out of it. at your age this is nothing you want to be worrying about you have plenty of time to get yourself into a decent relationship with a ... (read in full...)

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