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My friend cant decide which guy she wants. Any advice would be appreciated..

Q.   Here on behalf of a very very very close friend. She has a boyfriend who all in all, is a lovely bloke. theyve been together for about 9 months... problem is his family and friends really don't like my friend. lets call him Joe. She fell for...

A.   19 November 2007: Reading between the lines, really the question is not which one, Rob or Joe, but how does she split up with Joe so she can go out with Rob? She (and you) know that Rob is the one and although Joe is a nice guy, it would seem that your friend and ... (read in full...)

How do I stop myself thinking about my guy and I having sex? Its affecting my work and my mum is wondering why I'm so figety!

Q.   Hey there, this is a mix of two questions really, um... where to begin... im 17 ive been with my guy ( whose 18) almost 6 months and we've had sex only twice but last night was fantastic and i cant stop thinking about it but my mum has noticed that ...

A.   19 November 2007: Wow - passionate! To be honest, I don't think there is much you will be able to do. There are a few times in life when you will get distracted for a period of time. This is definitely one of them. It sounds like (please excuse me if i am wrong) that ... (read in full...)

Him keeping in touch with his ex makes me aggrivated! What should I do?

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for a little over 7 months now. We dated in high school for like 3 months and have been friends ever since. All together its been about 7 years. Everything is going good except for the fact that he still calls his ex ...

A.   19 November 2007: A very odd one this. You certainly are not stupid for being suspicious/unhappy about the contact with his ex. Does he say that they are long term friends? If she is, then she should be a friend of yours also. You should be able to pick up the p... (read in full...)

I prefer this new guy. How do I get out the relationship I am in?

Q.   I aleady have a boyfreind, we have been going out for a week now, but i have met this new boy and we both like eachother, he is 5 years older than me, we both want 2 get with eacother but cant bcasue of my boyfreind please help me! I want this othe...

A.   19 November 2007: Bless - a whole one week. You really don't have to worry about breaking up with people after just one week. It was more of a missunderstanding. In terms of this new guy - 5 years is a big difference at your age! Make sure that you don't rush i... (read in full...)

What can I do to feel more attracted to my guy?

Q.   Hi ALL I posted a question earlier today - and i'm not sure if i asked in the correct way. But i would really appreciate more answers. The question was posted as: I fell out of love with my bf - what can I do to restore the passion? Please p...

A.   19 November 2007: Firstly, if you need to find something about him to be attracted to but can't, you are probably in the wrong relationship. Having said that there are different types of attraction. Is it physical attaction that you are looking for or do you want to ... (read in full...)

My new guy still works with his recent ex. What do I do?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for nearly five months now, we have known each other for 18 months. When I met him he was still with his wife and I with my boyfriend. Now he is legally seperated from her and planning on getting a divorce when he can ...

A.   19 November 2007: First up - you need to stop worrying and start trusting. I feel I can say this because like you I have a very jealous streak running through me and sometimes you have to put things in perspective. Do you actually trust him? Has he done anything in ... (read in full...)

Is it his morals that prevent him having sex with me?

Q.   I’ve been seeing this guy on and off for three years (I’m 26, he’s 27). The reason it’s been “on and off” for so long is pretty much due to horrible timing. I was just starting a new relationship when we first met, then he was in one…I travel often ...

A.   19 November 2007: I agree with Tom - definitely something else this guy wants to tell you. Unfortunately I don't think the answer is anything to do with morals. Although in the beginning its a romantic gesture to not want sex, I think in your situation, you have been ... (read in full...)

He texted his ex, but I had sex with mine. How do I get the ex out of my head?

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for nearly a year. a few months back i found out that he's been dirty texting his best mates ex. who he always used to slag off to me. anyway i told him that i knew bout the texts and he owned up, was very sorry, changed ...

A.   19 November 2007: I know its a bit of a traditional angle but really, if you did love your boyfriend, you wouldn't have slept with your ex. It sounds like you really, really care about your current boyfriend or you wouldn't have bothered writing your question. It ... (read in full...)

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