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I prefer this new guy. How do I get out the relationship I am in?

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Question - (19 November 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 19 November 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I aleady have a boyfreind, we have been going out for a week now, but i have met this new boy and we both like eachother, he is 5 years older than me, we both want 2 get with eacother but cant bcasue of my boyfreind please help me!

I want this other boy more than ever, but i dont want to hurt my other boyfreind!

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A male reader, Lordtone United Kingdom +, writes (19 November 2007):

Lordtone agony auntBless - a whole one week. You really don't have to worry about breaking up with people after just one week. It was more of a missunderstanding.

In terms of this new guy - 5 years is a big difference at your age! Make sure that you don't rush into a relationship with a guy much older than you. He will be expecting a different type of relationship to what you are used to. Be VERY careful that you don't try to grow up too fast.

You can expect to have many relationships over the next few years and everyone of them will be more important to you than the last. Always be happy in your relationships and just try to have fun and don't let anything get too serious too soon.

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A female reader, iagirl United States +, writes (19 November 2007):

iagirl agony auntYour profile says that you are between the ages of 13 and 15...that means that the new guy is 18-20! That's way too old for you, and if you two get involved physically, he could be charged with statutory rape. This is something you seriously need to think about.

As for your question, your boyfriend has only been with you for one week, so he shouldn't be too hurt if you break up. Tell him that you aren't ready for a relationship or that you don't think you two are right for each other.

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