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I'm no more qualified to help others than you are. I just try to use my personal experiences and situations to offer people viewpoints that they previously wouldn't have considered.

I'm from the southern United States and was raised in a very "southern style" household. I have lived here my entire life and can never see myself moving. I'm fully equipped in the ways of southern hospitality and cooking is one of the south's biggest culture ideas that I have fully embraced (and so has my waist line).

I enjoy photography, teaching, scrapbooking, riding four wheelers, riding horses, hanging out with friends, reading, and family times.

I'm currently pregnant and engaged. My fiance and I have been together for quite some time now and will most likely get married sometime in the near future. We both view marriage as a very serious step that we musn't rush into. Hopefully, we'll walk down the aisle eventually.

I hooked up with my ex and now I feel badly about it!

Q.   My ex and I broke up about two weeks ago after a two-year relationship. Today, we were talking online and he told me to come over but I kept refusing, but eventually, I gave in. We ended up hooking up and now, I feel like it's going to take me ...

A.   20 December 2008: Break all contact with him until you're over him. I know it's easier said than done but it will prove to be the best way to get over him. Go to the bookstore and buy "It's Called a Breakup Because It's Broken" - it's a great book to read to help you ... (read in full...)

First date what to wear??

Q.   first date curly or straight hair ? skirt or pants (date is at mall)...

A.   20 December 2008: Curly hair and Pants! I think it will be a fun flirty look! Good Luck and don't be nervous! ... (read in full...)

He's been waiting 2 years for sex-should I make him wait longer?

Q.   so...im 17 and my boyfriend id 19. i've been in a relationship with this guy since i was 15. he has been patiently waiting for me to give the signal to start our sexual conquest together. i'm ready but i still have doubts about the pain and ...

A.   20 December 2008: No one can really make this decision but you. It's also a decison that requires alot of thought!!! It's not something you need to rush into whatsoever. The two of you have been together for a while and it's very normal for couples that have las... (read in full...)

We broke up and now I'm confused about how he hugged me and acted

Q.   My boyfriend and I broke up about a month and a half ago. In the beginning of the week we met up so i can get my closure. We talk, cried, yelled and hugged a lot. The hugs lasted long and when i tried to pull away he wouldn't really let me. He also ...

A.   20 December 2008: Hey Girl - I've recently gone through the same type situation. My ex and I dated for 5/6 years and were engaged for two.We broke up because of the same type thing. Since we broke up he's acted the same way as your ex - always calls, tells me how ... (read in full...)

I'm really worried about how my sister is acting!

Q.   im really worried about my sister. i dont know what to say to her. her ex ex ex boyfriend has just been put into prison, shes heartbroken, shes never really gotten over him, they had a baby together but sadly she lost it, shes only 17, and im 16, we ...

A.   20 December 2008: Have you tried talking to her? If you haven't, let her know how worried you are! Let her know (and see) that you are there for her whenever she needs it and that you will always be a shoulder for her to cry on. Just knowing that you're there might ... (read in full...)

Has anyone out there been dumped by their first love?

Q.   This is just a general question for anyone who has been in a long relationship. Has anyone out there been dumped by their first love because that person needed to sort out their feelings, and then had that person realize their mistake later and come ...

A.   19 December 2008: These situations always work out differently. It depends on the situation and the people involved. My first love and I dated for four years and he broke up with me. I was completely devastated (couldn't eat, couldn't go out and have fun, I couldn't ... (read in full...)

Symbolism of ring: Could it be given as only a christmas present?

Q.   I'd like to get my 22 GF some jewellery for Christmas. We have been dating for 15 months and this is our 2nd christmas together. I have already given her a necklace and bracelet. Should I get her a ring? I feel like the symbolism of a rin...

A.   18 December 2008: hmm...I'm currently engaged but I recieved my first ring from my fiance long before he got down on one knee, and actually the first one I recieved was Christmas our first year together and we have shared 5 Christmases since then. If you decide to ... (read in full...)

I'm 22 still a virgin, should I go to a prostitute even though I'm afraid of the risks?

Q.   What I'm about to share with you may seem to be an absurd and juvenile concern that is unworthy of your attention and time, but nevertheless, it's important for me to discuss it with those who might be in a position to empathise with me and offer ...

A.   18 December 2008: Here's a real life situation that occured to me a couple of months ago when my boyfriend and I of 4 years were on a break: I meet this wonderful guy out a bar one friday night and we got to talking and continued talking for the next couple o... (read in full...)

Married just because I'm pregnant?

Q.   About three weeks ago I took a pregnancy test that came back positive. My ex and I broke up about 9 months ago after dating for 3 years. We still see each other at least once a month and generally spend a couple of days together. Now that I'm ...

A.   17 December 2008: this question is posted for a friend of mine, I have my own situation that's somewhat similar to this, but hers is more complicated. Any advice would be helpful!... (read in full...)

Too young to buy a dildo- Now what?

Q.   i masturbate and watch porn, but i want a vibrator or dildo. the thing is, im only fourteen, and i dont think anywhere will sell them to me, or will they? ive looked at some online, but i cant buy them because it will be sent home which will be ...

A.   17 December 2008: I have a crazy idea that a friend of mine does - electric toothbrushes are apparently great at stimulating the outside areas :) Just a thought. They are kinda like vibrators but who in the world would know what you were using it for!!!... (read in full...)

Should I worry about him cheating, when he goes back home?

Q.   So I have been dating this guy for a while. I have such strong feelings for him. He was with me during my pregnancy, labor and delivery, and is great with my baby as well. (the biological father left the picture while i was pregnant). I can't seem ...

A.   17 December 2008: Trust is one of the foundation blocks of a relationship. Without it how can a relationship function properly? If you can't even trust this man to go home for the holidays how are you going to trust him in your relationship? How can you trust him to ... (read in full...)

Any tips for making sex beautiful?

Q.   Ladies please reply. What makes sex enjoyable for you? What about sex is satisfying for you? How do you define good sex and good loving? Ladies, in your opinion what makes sex beautiful? Any tips for making sex beautiful? ...

A.   17 December 2008: Love. I know that's a corny answer. But it's the most honest one for me (other women are different) But for me if I can feel the love between me and the guy it makes sex a million times better. Sex is satisfying to me because it shows how you feel ... (read in full...)

Who's right? Me or Him?

Q.   ok well about a month or two ago, my boyfriend (almost a year) went to the dentist, but when he came back to school a few days later, i was holding his phone for him, and i got a message from his homeboy, who was right infront of me, then it comes ...

A.   17 December 2008: Ditch the boy honey! I don't mean to be abrupt but no guy who wants to talk to other girls and hides it isn't worth your time. It's fine for a guy to have friends that are girls but it is not okay for him to hide the "friendship" from his ... (read in full...)

I'm pregnant we want to get married but we're scared!

Q.   About three weeks ago I took a pregnancy test that came back positive. After going to the doctor I discovered that I was six weeks pregnant. I'm currently in college and my boyfriend has just graduated from college as an RN (registered nurse). He ...

A.   17 December 2008: Thank ya'll for such great, informative answers. They have really made me think and I appreciate you both taking the time out of your own lives to help someone with hers. :) ... (read in full...)

Whats wrong with me? Is it depression?

Q.   Hi, I'm new to this site. Basically I'm 17 (nearly 18) and have had a bit of a tough year. To cut a long story short this time last year I got broke up with my boyfriend, found out I was pregnant with his baby and had an abortion in February. My ...

A.   17 December 2008: honey, you and me are two peas in a pod. I went through a similar experience about two years ago. My boyfriend and I got pregnant and I had an abortion (I told him I miscarried)...we dated another year and a half and then broke up. Guess what? I'm ... (read in full...)

Whenever I see my ex I want to sleep with him!

Q.   How do I get over my ex boyfriend when every time I see him I have this huge desire to sleep with him because I am still in love with him?...

A.   16 December 2008: I have the same problem - only a little worse. My ex and I just got pregnant. We dated for 5 years and then I moved off to school and it just didn't work over the distance. However we saw each other occasionally and slept together. Now, with a baby ... (read in full...)

Are ladies turned off by heavy guys?

Q.   Im over weight, How much does that turn ladies off?...

A.   16 December 2008: I wouldn't say that it's a turn off. However, most (good) women would just be worried about your health. No one wants to be with someone who has health problems or insecurities about their body. If you're happy with yourself that's great. Make sure ... (read in full...)

Pregnant without sex?

Q.   Okay this may sound stupid, but I really need to know. Okay... my boyfriend and I have made an agreement to abstain from sex until marriage. We do how ever fool around. I am a virgin so it is very important to me that we don't have intercourse ...

A.   16 December 2008: Yes - you can get pregnant if the hymen is still intact, to answer that question. However, it seems impossible to me for you to be pregnant if none of his semen/sperm has come near your vagina. Are your periods often irregular? or is this a bizarre ... (read in full...)

Do you think it is right for me to choose him rather than my baby?

Q.   I am 1 month pregnant and my bf told me to take out my baby because he has more plans and dreams for our relationship. Do you think it is right for me to choose him rather than my baby? Anyway, my bf is married to another woman but he told me that ...

A.   16 December 2008: I don't think you should trust him...he's already gone behind the back of another women, what would posses him to not do the same to you. Right now, you need to focus on the needs of your baby. What are you going to do? Can you afford it? All those ... (read in full...)

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