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I had an abortion and having a tough time dealing with it. Does anyone have experience with this?

Q.   hello all. I've been going through a hard time and i just need advice from people out there that have gone through the same thing i have. I don't want to hear how much of a bad person i am and how i'm worthless ect. thanks. but anyway, about three ...

A.   5 December 2011: I have always been prolife however when my 18 year old daughter came to me to say she was pregnant and decided to terminate. I was heartbroken - for her - for the baby - for the loss. My daughter was just starting college and on an antiseizure ... (read in full...)

If online dating fails to work, what other options are there?

Q.   I've tried every sensible dating site in the last 16 months. Paid and free. I have had two dates in that whole time. I've had profiles reviewed and everyone has come back saying my photos are good, my profile is interesting and they don't ...

A.   22 November 2011: What age of women are you looking for? Typically, woman between 25 and 45 are looking to have a family with children or already have children still living at home. You are limiting your pool of prospects and that is fine if you don't want to deal ... (read in full...)

Too strong a hymen???

Q.   I'm 26 and I've been married for 8 months now. I was a virgin when I got married and still am. No matter how hard we try, we just cant seem to be able to break through my hymen. I think probably I am having elastic hymen. Whenever my husband try to ...

A.   1 November 2011: See your gyno. I was a virgin and 20 when I got married and my husband could not penetrate me. I was so nervous I was squeezing my pelvic muscles so tight, he couldn't penetrate. Seeing your doctor will confirm there are no other physical problems ... (read in full...)

Lovers for 5 years. Both married, but not to each other. How can I deal with this much pain? He said he loved me but where is he now?

Q.   I starting having an affair with a man since 2006. We both are married and I lived a distance from him so I wasnt worried to get attached. Well I thought it would be just a short period this would last. We were together for almost 5 years. ...

A.   1 November 2011: I can't tell if you have tried to contact him. If you have left messages and he has not responded, it is likely he has decided to repair his marriage and doesn't want to be tempted away from that. It is a smart move on his part. When friends t... (read in full...)

Online dating - no-one replies to my messages! How do I make girls interested in me?

Q.   I have been using dating sites for quite some time now but no one seems to be interested replying me. I might not have look of Tom Cruise but I am not that bad either. So What I need to do to make girls interested in me and finally get a ...

A.   27 October 2011: Not seeing your profile makes it difficult to give you an answer. I guess I wonder what you are seeking in a woman. What age? Women your age are seeking security in a relationship. They are seeking men who have a secure income. Despite what men ... (read in full...)

He says he is falling in love with me but that he can't leave his family. How can I let go of him and end our work affair?

Q.   I need some advice. I am a teachers assistant at an elementary school. I have been working with the same man for the last three years. We are both married with 3 kids. We have formed a great friendship and seem like ideal mates for each other. W...

A.   30 September 2011: I have been in your place. Get out now. If you think you love him and you are considering he may possibly your soul mate, there is no way this will be a short term thing. I had the same exact experience. I was naïve enough to think it could just be ... (read in full...)

Am I in the wrong for not doing it more often or when he asks for oral sex?

Q.   hi, my boyfriend and i are both 26 and have been together for four years. We seem to have the same repetitive arguement all the time regarding performing oral sex on him. The thing is i really dont like doing it, so i dont do it often. maybe lik...

A.   26 September 2011: You are not wrong to admit you dislike something in the bedroom- ever. That being said - guys really enjoy oral. I think you need to explore for yourself why you dislike it so much. If it is just squeamishness, I think that could be gotten over when ... (read in full...)

Am I taking this too personally?

Q.   My boyfriend and I are pretty solitary. We go out and do things, but generally just the two of us. One of our mutual friends was talking about Halloween parties and he really wanted to go, but he did not seem to even think of taking me with him ...

A.   23 September 2011: Just say " I am really looking forward to going to the party with you" If he just assumes you are going - no problem. If not, you can open up this dialog as to why he does not want you with him. Is he ashamed of you? Does he act differently around ... (read in full...)

Married lover needs me but won't say he loves me

Q.   Hi,I am so confused with my married lover,we have been lovers for 5yrs he is 65 and i'm 60, he knows that i love him very much but i'm not sure if he cares about me as strongly,these last few mths though he has become more emotionally envolved with ...

A.   23 September 2011: It is not so much a matter if he loves you. The question is does he love you enough - enough for you. He has not divorced or left his wife. He wants his cake and eat it too. Is that good enough for you? Don't let people guilt you about your invo... (read in full...)

To tell? Or not to tell? I cheated twice on him

Q.   Hi everyone! I've asked two questions before about my relationship with my bf of 4 1/2 years. Well I have another question for everyone. I cheated on my boyfriend twice wit 2 different guys. SHould I tell him? I mean I know if I tell him everything ...

A.   14 September 2011: Your situation is no different than a spouse in the military or out of town on business that in a weak moment gives in to a one nighter. It doesn't mean you don't love the person you are with. You were at a point where you were worried about what ... (read in full...)

To tell? Or not to tell? I cheated twice on him

Q.   Hi everyone! I've asked two questions before about my relationship with my bf of 4 1/2 years. Well I have another question for everyone. I cheated on my boyfriend twice wit 2 different guys. SHould I tell him? I mean I know if I tell him everything ...

A.   9 September 2011: I think you need to decide if he is one the one you want to be with. If that is the case - if you want to keep him -if you will never cheat on him again- if you want him to trust you - if you want your daughter to live with her dad- then DON"T ... (read in full...)

What is it really like to be a mistress?

Q.   What is it really like to be a mistress? I have been propositioned by a married man I've known for 2 years. He is 24 years older than me and he really turns me on. Obviously I know this is wrong but it all just sounds amazing. Plus he's had a rocky ...

A.   18 August 2011: You are so young - do not become a mistress. I have been there - so here it is: You will always come last in his priorities, you feel lonely, forgotten, like garbage. You will spend your time with him hiding and sneaking. Your time with him, whe... (read in full...)

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