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Why am I attracted to girls who are similar to my first love?

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Question - (10 April 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 10 April 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

It's interesting that ever since I broke off from my first love a year ago, every girl I was attracted to since shared some similar features to her -- slim, similar figure; tall height; brunette hair -- and a few times, even in shy personality.

Why? Is it just the type of girl I naturally like, or do I just miss my first love? I fell madly for her. I mean, I like the other girls for their differences and who they really are, and I don't consider them a "drop-in replacement" for my first love. None of them could be that. But it's curious that they share some features ... why would I choose similar girls?

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (10 April 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntBecause she is your type, we all have a "TYPE" of person we are attracted to.

Don't worry about it.

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A female reader, Niema.x Spain +, writes (10 April 2009):

Niema.x agony auntThis is because your familiar to your first love so any girl who shares her characteristics you immediantly think you have some closeness to her. This is normal, give it time and eventually youl start to broaden ur horizons x

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A male reader, link2067 United States +, writes (10 April 2009):

link2067 agony auntI do the same thing my friend and trust me its completely normal. I tend to be attracted to the same type of girls, shy and quiet.

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