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We met once in person, became long distance friends, we flirt, and kid, he has never inquired about my marital status or anything, why not, what do you think he is looking for and is it worth my time?

Q.   I've being friends with this guy since a year and 1/2. We met in person b/c of business but we never talked about marital status. He had to split due other businesses far away, but I manage to contacted him short after that.He replied and we started ...

A.   3 August 2008: Sorry to say this but i dont think he wants a relationship from you with you living far apart and you only taking once or twice a month. i aggree with you i think he will probably will be with somone.you should just remain friends and you should ... (read in full...)

A complicated 8 years...when is it time to throw in the towel?

Q.   I'm writing in search of advice for my present situation. I am 26 years old and have been living with my boyfriend for the past 8 years. Both of our families consider this more like a marriage, which I agree with because things have gotten so ...

A.   3 August 2008: You should not stay with him when you are this unhappy dont just stay with him for the house and the money,being with somone for the last 8 years you are bound to be scared of breaking it off and being alone but you will make it on your own because ... (read in full...)

I need to forget my ex and everything he did but I can't stop thinking about it!

Q.   I feel like something is seriously wrong with me. I broke up with my ex last december because he treated me like dirt and now I am with this great guy who I love so much and our relationship could possibly lead to getting married in the distant ...

A.   3 August 2008: It can be really hard to let go of the past,have you talked about what you went through with somone cause it helps to get things out.you just have to remember that not all men are the same,focus on your current boyfriend and how much he loves ... (read in full...)

We're about to get married but he does not kiss me or hold me, he says it's became habbit and he's been getting his kicks from porn! Help!

Q.   i have been with my bf for 4years now sex was never really a big part of our relationship but things are now so bad he dosnt even kiss me or hold me he says its became habbit and he's been getting his kicks from porn i'm a very good looking gal ...

A.   3 August 2008: You should not get married when you are this unhappy you should be with someone who you no wants you in every way.Sex is pretty important it shows that the person desires us, but couples have problems talk to him make it very clear how you feel ... (read in full...)

I broke up with my bf as I fell for my best friend...but he likes someone else...

Q.   i broke up with my boyfriend because i fell for my bestfriend. but my bestfriend likes someone else. should i tell my bestfriend how i feel about him?...

A.   3 August 2008: you should tell him how you feel you never no he could feel the same way if don't tell him you will always wonder what if.go for it girl!good luck.let me no how it goe's... (read in full...)

My ex girlfriend got raped by her current boyfriend. She maybe pregnant. WHat can I do to help her?

Q.   This is basically an update from my previous questions but I just need help. So my ex and I broke up and were going through a very rough time and during that time..she was....uhm...kinda weird to say..but yeah she was raped..by her current boyfrien...

A.   3 August 2008: you should go to the police you cannot let him get away with it.what the hell is she doing with him after that so what if she's pregnant he does not deserve to be a father.All you can do is be there for her like you are now but dont let him get away ... (read in full...)

I've recnetly got together with the girl of my dreams, but I'm worried about my inexperience in bed.

Q.   I've (very) recently got together with the absolute girl of my dreams. I thought this would make me happy, but the fact is that sex is a problem. She's very experienced, while the last time I was with a girl was well over two years ago. In fact, ...

A.   3 August 2008: Hi you should talk to her about this because if your feeling all this stress when it doe's happen then its probably is not going to go well.Just tell her she should understand and if she does'nt then she is not worth it, just take things slow.... (read in full...)

Should I get back with him? I'm confused.

Q.   My ex-boyfriend and i were together for a year and a half, he was the first guy i ever loved etc... he cheated on me and so i left him like 14 months ago. We talk on occasion if we run into each other but i dont call him and vice versa. We've been ...

A.   1 August 2008: It all depends how you feel about him if you still have feelings for him and you feel you can trust him this time then give him another chance.somtimes people make mistakes but if you don't feel you can trust him don't bother trying it want make ... (read in full...)

Is she too good for me? How should I go about this situation?

Q.   What do I do. I am seeing a girl casually but I have noticed another girl through work who is absoutly stunning. I really think that looks wise she is the perfect girl. I finally spoke to her last week and she seems, classy, well dressed and is ...

A.   1 August 2008: First of all you have to end it with the other girl before you try anything with the one from work because its not fair to her and the girl from work might not give you a chance whilst your seeing someone. Be confident ou bearly no this woman for ... (read in full...)

I'm dreaming of my Ex and heartbroken, what can I do?

Q.   i keep having this dream of my ex-girlfriend with her boyfriend. its getitng more real everytime and i dont know what it is. i was going out with my first love. i had a bestfriend and than we sorta stopped hangingout but still friends. one day...

A.   1 August 2008: The dream will stop eventually, but i dont think anyone gets over their first love i no i have not either the harder you try to get rid of the feeling the stronger they seem to get. If you cut her out of your life for awhile an focus on your new ... (read in full...)

I want a relationship, not meaningless sex! I'm confused.

Q.   hi im confused. theres a lad i like but all he seems to want is sexual stuff... he says he wouldnt do anything with me drunk because id wud be taking advantage and he said he wouldnt wanna do that. But he says he doesn't fancy me and he said ...

A.   26 July 2008: Im was goin through the samething awhile ago and you no what he's not worthit move on and find somone that wont play games with you.... (read in full...)

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