We let things move too fast and ended up in bed. Was it wrong?
Q. This has never happened before to me. I have been seeing this man for about three weeks. We talk every day on the phone for hours so I feel like we know a lot about each other. We have both been in past bad relationships and I lost my financee ...
A. 15 October 2005: Hi there!
Men need time too! most people get the impression that it is just women who need time to step things up a level, but it's not true. He probably just wants time to trust you more before he makes love to you. Most people are told that onl... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is going through so much! I just want to know how to help her talk about it.
Q. I have a big problem. My girlfriend won't ever tell me what is wrong and she has confronted me about this a few times. I do not know what to say and freeze when I know something is wrong. She is going through a lot right now and I want to be th...
A. 15 October 2005: Hi there! Yes it does sound like your girlfriend is going through a lot at the moment. She is obviously thinking about her grandfather a lot. She probably feels that when she is with you she can temporarily escape what is going on in her head. she ... (read in full...)
Ever since my partner cheated, I snipe at him without realising...
Q. I've been with my partner for 5 years now and since he cheated on me we just do not get on. We seem to clash. We have a 3 year old son together. I just don't know what to do anymore. He says it's always me biting his head off over silly things, ...
A. 15 October 2005: Hi there!
When someone has betrayed your trust it takes a lot of work from both partners to regain and restore the trust that was there before. If you have agreed to trust him and forgive him then he will expect you to let the past become the past... (read in full...)
I think I fancy the teacher. What's worse is she's female, like me!
Q. I'm only 13 and I feel really bad because I seem to fancy my teacher and she is a woman. I go to a girls' school and rumours fly fast so I don't dare say anything to my friends because I would feel extremely embarassed and I could be overheard. W...
A. 15 October 2005: Hi there! it's not uncommon to get confused about sexuality at your age. I'm not saying that you are or not homosexual. Sometimes when we very much admire their looks or attitude we can get our feelings confused. admiration is after all a part of ... (read in full...)
Hate my new school, because I just don't fit in. Can't I go back to my old one?
Q. I've recently moved schools, and I've been at my new one for a week over 1 term and I hate it! I now go to a selective school and they're all soo snooty and I don't really fit in. All I want is to go back to my old school but my father won't le...
A. 15 October 2005: Hi there, Whatever you do don't drop out of school!!! I had to leave school due to family difficulties and it is mighty hard to get any where in life without those piece's of paper that say you went to school, trust me. It is hard to fit in to a n... (read in full...)
Infatuated with a guy at work, but he just wants to play silly games!
Q. I am 20 years old and am completely infatuated with this guy I work with who is only 18. The problem is that I can't get his attention in a way other than him teasing me. He makes fun of the way I talk, the way I say certain words, he makes fun of ...
A. 14 October 2005: hi there! to me it sounds like this guy at work does fancy you. often teasing girls is a way to get close to them (in a man's eye's). getting involved with someone you work with can be a tricky business. if the relationship ends badly it can make ... (read in full...)
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