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Are we wrong for seeing each other? Or is it just a complex situation?

Q.   My dad had been going out with this girl, I met her friend's son, and instantly developed a crush on him which carried on through the years. My dad ended up dumping the girl he was with and getting with her friend, which was the mother of the boy I ...

A.   20 February 2018: It's going to be ugly if you break up. Then you will see each other at family occasions. Otherwise, like you said, you are both adults and frankly, there is nothing immoral about it. ... (read in full...)

I hate sex with my husband!

Q.   OMG. I hate sex with my husband. It was always not great but I thought it would improve over time. I love him very much and I didn’t think that was a reason to break up before we got married. I’ve never discussed this with anyone.A...

A.   20 February 2018: I'm in the same age range as you and have been in a marriage for 30 years with a horrible sex life. At the age of 33, I was told that it was okay to go thirty, sixty, or ninety days without sex. At that point, leaving was considered and I... (read in full...)

What is considered cheating in an open relationship?

Q.   My wife and I agreed to be in an open relationship. We were both very into the idea for years. During sex, she haexpressed interest in a mutual male friend. Several months later I was suspecting that they were fooling around but she never mentione...

A.   12 February 2018: Rules are important. If you don't have any, find some which you both can agree, and set them. If you don't want her sleeping with Tom, Dick and Harry, tell her. Perhaps you want to make anyone from your work off limits or your high school b... (read in full...)

Would you date a man you weren't physically attracted to?

Q.   Would you date a guy who you aren’t physically attracted to? I met a guy online about 2 wks ago from Tinder. It was like a blind date as he’d only the one picture. We shared a mutual friend so I decided to meet him for a drink. He was nice in pe...

A.   10 February 2018: I'm very late to this party but want to respond anyway. If you ever come back to look at people suggestions, some type of update would be appreciated. It may turn out that you can never get it together with someone you don't find attractive.... (read in full...)

I'm happy talking to this guy even though I'm married

Q.   Hello all, I am 32 years old and been married since I was 23, I have 3 daughters now, my husband is a really good person and i loved him so much but he has cheated on me three years ago. i forgave him and this year while i was pregnant he was in a...

A.   10 February 2018: While you may have not had a physical relationship with the new guy, you have still put your relationship at risk in the same ways your husband did. You have three children with your husband and it is probably best if the family stays together. ... (read in full...)

I'm pregnant with my first cousin's baby

Q.   I'm pregnant with my first cousin's baby and i'm going to birth the baby but i'm worried. Doctor says my baby is fine but i'm still worried. My cousin is scared and we both can't tell our families because they're really strict but now they know tha...

A.   10 February 2018: If there's a chance that all of the relatives knowing will put you or your cousin in danger, be out of the house before informing your family. There is no reason to put either you, the baby or your cousin in danger if there is the possibility of ... (read in full...)

I cheated and I stay because I think I owe him

Q.   (Mod note: based on your follow ups you are in an abusive relationship and require assistance beyond the scope of this site. Please contact the organization provided by the last post. This question is being closed now.) This is going to be a long one...

A.   10 February 2018: It's time to go and end this and it's time to seek an attorney. The hypocritical jealous rage he shows is not going to end. You're not safe and neither are your children. Since you put money into his house with a round $3000 you are entitled to ... (read in full...)

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