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Should I call off my engagement? He is possesive but my family need his money....

Q.   Hello all, I would really be grateful if anyone can guide me through this problem I'm facing. Iv met my current fiance 1 year ago, we've started talking and we directly clicked, he's a really really well off business man who is much older than me,...

A.   23 March 2013: thanks cooper,youre 100% right,ive planned to leave him so many times before and whenever i break up with him and return to my mother's place,hell start sending me threats,if i didnt come back hed send some1 to teach me a lesson,i know that hes only ... (read in full...)

I told my boyfriend I don't have money for an Ipad, then he stopped talking to me.

Q.   Dear cupid My bf of 3 years is asking me to buy him new iPad for his birthday, I don't have that kind of money and I cannot afford it. He never bought me anything for my b'day and I never really made an issue out of it. I told him I cannot ...

A.   23 March 2013: hehe he sounds like a 10year old,very immature!!! i believe you need a man in your life and not some silly ass kid and the fact that he said you're annoying him is enough!just stop contacting him and focus on finding someone smart the least ! he's l... (read in full...)

Should I call off my engagement? He is possesive but my family need his money....

Q.   Hello all, I would really be grateful if anyone can guide me through this problem I'm facing. Iv met my current fiance 1 year ago, we've started talking and we directly clicked, he's a really really well off business man who is much older than me,...

A.   23 March 2013: i am here to help you,you're i can leave from now and take everything with me7no he cant sue me,iv studied all of my options,he didnt make me sigh anything,so he simply has no proofs,they're only presents...i have no job yet because he told me id ... (read in full...)

Should I call off my engagement? He is possesive but my family need his money....

Q.   Hello all, I would really be grateful if anyone can guide me through this problem I'm facing. Iv met my current fiance 1 year ago, we've started talking and we directly clicked, he's a really really well off business man who is much older than me,...

A.   23 March 2013: I am here to help you, thanks a lot, you gave me the best advice, I'm going to stick around for 1.5years more, and then just leave, just for the sake of my brother to become a dentist. Cmmp, while as for me, I'm not stupid enough to stay with a m... (read in full...)

Should I call off my engagement? He is possesive but my family need his money....

Q.   Hello all, I would really be grateful if anyone can guide me through this problem I'm facing. Iv met my current fiance 1 year ago, we've started talking and we directly clicked, he's a really really well off business man who is much older than me,...

A.   22 March 2013: so very confused,i literally have no one,my mom is a gold digger and she admitted to me that she married my father for his money,but after his death she was stuck with so many bank loans and is making me take all the responsibility! C grant,th... (read in full...)

Most of the relationship is great, but ...

Q.   Hi folks. I've been dating my girlfriend for a year and half. She's the best girlfriend I've ever had. She's above average in her looks, career, spirituality, fitness... you name it. But I've got a few concerns: 1) Sex. I've had sex with 3 ot...

A.   22 March 2013: Honestly,I don't think you really love her,maybe you're physically attracted to her or you like the fact that you have a pretty partner who can fit your so called standards,that's a bit self absorbed..because love is blind,its when you completely ... (read in full...)

He has become 'best friends' with a female co-worker, they text all the time and go to lunch together. If I get upset about it he calls me insecure, but don't I have a right to be in this situation?

Q.   My husband and I have been married for six years and he has always had the same job.. Well recently he has started talking about a coworker all the time telling me how great she is. He goes to lunches with her alone and they text back and forth ...

A.   22 March 2013: I'll tell you one thing for certain,he is definitely emotionally involved with her already,its so crystal clear that he's cheating because whenever you bring up the subject,he gets mad&put the blame on you,he's using the defense self mechanism,where ... (read in full...)

I believe my best friend's boyfriend fancies me...what should I do about it?

Q.   I think my best friend's boyfriend fancy's me and I think I like him a little too. He always talks every opportunity to grab some part of me whether it be playfully hit or tickle or flirt a little for example today at lunch I felt someone's leg rest ...

A.   21 March 2013: You're contradicting yourself. You say you don't want to hurt her and that you love her big time and you can't risk ruining your friendship with her and yet you're asking do you think he likes me?!!!! Why do you care in the first place if you're no... (read in full...)

Caught Him in the act. Now what?

Q.   About 2 years ago I came home early and found my husband making out with her in my car in the driveway (we have a long country drive) He seemed devastated and vowed to go to therapy and never ever do that again. Found out at counseling it had ...

A.   21 March 2013: Once a cheater, always a cheater! That's just unbelievable, from where does he get the nerve to bring her to your place?! He’s definitely abnormal! You have forgiven him and gave him a chance and yet he disrespected and cheated on you again and ag... (read in full...)

Boyfriend says four is too many guys to have been intimate with. He broke up with me

Q.   My boyfriend and I broke up yesterday. Few hours later we decided to make it a short break of 2 days or so just to take some time off. The reason why that happened? I told him that I have been intimate with four guys before we met(We are in a ...

A.   21 March 2013: He's judging you from your past and blaming you?! Well honey,you should definitely call if off because he's so insecure, close minded and immature! No1 has the right to judge you and call you names because you've slept with a certain number of men,w... (read in full...)

Are there guys that wait till marriage?

Q.   Are there virgin guys out there that want to wait till marriage with someone they really love? I feel very disappointed and alone when all I see is jerky guys and pregnant teens. People are so slutty and cold hearted these days. ...

A.   21 March 2013: Losing one's virginity doesn't mean you are slut or a bad person,that's a retarded way of thinking!!!I respect your beliefs but don't go judging out people,that's really unfair and it's a primitive way of thinking!... (read in full...)

I think my ex got married on a short term relationship, I want to contact her, but should I?

Q.   Ok, this will probably be a little complicated. Both my girlfriend and I are middle aged, so, a little older than many of the people who post here. But, I could use some advice on a tricky issue. We had been dating for 1.5 years. I was going th...

A.   20 March 2013: Frankly speaking,I'm only 22yeard old and I could clearly tell what's going on here,she's a gold digger,she was tired of waiting for your divorce&had moved to the other option,whom could support her financially&in every aspect..you can't blame ... (read in full...)

Three days or three months, as soon as we have sex, they dump me!

Q.   I'm always used for sex. I could be with a fella 3 days or a could be with a fella for 3 months but as soon as I have sex with them they say " its not working out ". This has happened me 5 times now!!! My last fella asked me out the day after we had ...

A.   19 March 2013: Actually working out a relationship doesn't depend on the interval of time you two had spent together,it depends on your attitude,the way you dress up&talk,because it's really in your hands,whether the guy you're seeing is a player or a good guy,it ... (read in full...)

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