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I like this guy from work..we get along very well. But..is he sincere or dodgy?

Q.   i really need some advice. i dont understand why i feel like this-its silly. a guy i work with who only started a month ago im sure im developing feelings for-why ? well when we work together we get on really really well-it feels like we're...

A.   13 December 2009: I would not encourage him. Think it through and you do work with him which could mean a lot of problems at your work place if it doesn't go well. He also has 4 kids and his wife dumped him. He is going to be a very poor man for the next 18 years... (read in full...)

Your average sized guy...

Q.   How are us average sized guys meant to reconcile the fact that the average sized girl can take more than 50% volume of dick that we have? Our goal is to give maximum sexual pleasure, and in almost all cases, bigger is better (up to a point) (don...

A.   13 December 2009: Your very worried over nothing. Most guys are not big and big hurts. Porn really perpetuates that myth. The best sex I ever had was with a guy with a normal one. It was because of the love. Women are in love with being in love. ... (read in full...)

What should I get him for Christmas if he got me a teddy bear?

Q.   what should i get my boyfriend for christmas if he got me a teddy bear that cost 20 dollars???please help me...

A.   13 December 2009: I like the picture idea. I hope he is just joking about the Teddy Bear. He may have something really nice for you besides that. Have a nice Christmas!... (read in full...)

He is making my drinking an issue, and says he cant trust me!

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over nine months, and just recently my drinking has begun to cause problems. One I start, I cannot stop and I have said and done hurtful things to him in the past when I was under the influence. Jut ...

A.   13 December 2009: Hi, Why not just stop drinking? he obviously doesn't like the way you get under the influence. Try to go a year without a drink. If it is easy and no problem then you probably don't have an issue. If you can't then try an AA meeting. People t... (read in full...)

My emotions are taking over my life...

Q.   My emotions are runing my life at the moment. im extremely conscious of myself, its ALWAYS on my mind and when lots of people are around itend to cover my mouth and nose up so no one can see my face. my counciler says i worrie too much. i dont li...

A.   13 December 2009: Hi Lauren, You sound a lot like my son. He is just like you in that he is quiet and doesn't like to bring me down. He is also self conscious and had a bout of extreme shyness in HS. It wasn't around his friends or me but in crowds and at school. ... (read in full...)

How do I get over an abusive ex-boyfriend?

Q.   Hello...here's the story- I went out with a guy for 4 years who I loved with all my heart and when we were together the first two, things were okay but he always had a really bad temper and things started getting bad in our relationship- he would ...

A.   13 December 2009: The reason it is hard to get over an abusive man is because we are addicted to that type of man. My track record shows me that it isn't any coincidence I have been in mostly abusive relationships. Some part of me is drawn to it. I just got o... (read in full...)

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