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I want to lose 50 pounds by the end of the summer
Q. please help me. I need to lose weight so bad. I need to know the best excercise routines I can do at home (not run around the neighborhood, that's embarrassing) and the best foods to eat and times. and just be really specific. This boy I'm in love ...
A. 18 May 2009: If you want to stay in the house to excerise you could invest in a Wii fit, I have lost so much by it because you see how far you have to go and end up fighting for it. A good idea about food is just don't buy tons of junk, eat what you want on 1day ... (read in full...)
I can't seem to compare to his ex. What should I do?
Q. I have been with my bf/finace for a year but we met a few years before that. When we met all those years ago, he had just come out of a relationship with a girl. From what I have been told (by him), she was the first girl that he was very serious...
A. 12 May 2009: Don't look too much into it, I know it's easy to just say that but it's true. You said yourself it was his first serious relationship, first loves are always the worst to get over. He might not have known how to move on, where as now he knows ... (read in full...)
Newly separated and I miss her. How to stay strong is difficult!
Q. I am three weeks separated from my wife, who I have dated, lived with and been married to for 7 years - married for 4.5 years. We have two beautiful children, 1.5 and 3.5 years old. We put every wrench into our relationship without spending...
A. 12 May 2009: Although I don't know much about marriage I do have some ideas that could work. You could ask her what it was that made her want a divorce; you said you acted differently. Find out how. Together you could sort out those problems, she could tell you ... (read in full...)
I feel rejected and am getting really depressed about it
Q. This probably sounds really stupid. But, I feel really rejected. I feel like nobody evr wants me around, and that everyone is always plotting against me, and giving me bad school marks on purpose, because they don't like me. I don't really get on w...
A. 27 April 2009: I went through this last year, and as far the cuddle part, I'm going through it now. Although I've never tried this, you could join a club. But that depends if you're sporty or not. I find that being nice helps a lot, even if people are cruel to ... (read in full...)
I don't want to get depressed again..pregnant and can't take certain medicines..help!
Q. Hey I sort of have a problem I think. I have been diagnosed with bipolar disorder and borderline personality disorder. Apparently you can't have a personality disorder without being bipolar, but you can be bipolar without a personality disorder. ...
A. 27 April 2009: I'm not quite sure on what you can and can't do when pregnant, but I do know that my aunt has something like you have. She gets very depressed during the colder months. She has invested in UV stands, and if she's feeling a bit upset she sits in ... (read in full...)
He's my best friend but he never talks to me about my depression
Q. Okay, so at the moment I'm just about to finish counselling for depression. Personally I don't think I'm ready to be through with it, but my counsellor knows best. I suppose. I've been having a hard time at the moment coping, naturally my close ...
A. 27 April 2009: Just in reply too what Klara said. I've missed out some stuff on the post. I have opened up too him before, when I told him I was starting counselling he actually laughed in my face and asked if it was because I was a crazy suicidal girl. And when ... (read in full...)
We want to spend our lives together but she isn't a Christian so we can't marry...what can I do??
Q. Hi, ive been going out with a girl for a while now and its obvious we are quite serious over each other. We have both hinted and spending our lives together in the future, but I have a problem... Thing is i'm a Christian and she isnt... and I ca...
A. 24 March 2008: im not familiar on what being a christian is about but why CANT you marry her?
is the bible stopping you or your actual family?... (read in full...)
I don't want to LIE for him, what do you think?
Q. my ex bf cheated on me with this girl. then we broke up and he started dating her. sometime while they were together we hooked up and he cheated on her with me. but then that stopped. the other day she added me under a fake friends account and i ...
A. 21 March 2008: if you lie for him it wont end. he'll start using you thinking he can walk all over you. you cannot let that hapen. you need to tell this girl the truth, imagine you being her and not knowing your boyfriend is cheating on you. if you dont like her ... (read in full...)
I am 14 and PREGNANT! What do I do?
Q. HELP! I had sex with my boyfriend about 2 weeks to a month ago and i have recently started feeling weird, so i took a pregnancy test prayed it wouldnt be positive and it was-i'm pregnant, you can probably tell from my age that i'm under aged, bu...
A. 21 March 2008: id say you should ring a helpline or something. they have ones set up for teenage mothers. talk anonymous (sp?) and they can help you. i dont know any numbers off the top of my head. but just google for a number or site.
im not going to say your... (read in full...)
Is my "internet guy" just after sex? Help!
Q. hiya i need help ppl... i met this boy through the internet and he seems reali nice and i know this might sound crazy but i think i might have feelings for him... but the only problem is that my mates are telling me that he is only after sex..but i...
A. 21 March 2008: i think your friends are trying to protect you. these days you never know for sure if people are really who they say they are. dont get mad at your friends if they say stuff like hes just after sex. they could be true. he could be just sweet talking ... (read in full...)
Can you love someone but be unable to understand WHY??
Q. hiii this is quite a strange question, but is it normal to have NO IDEA why you love someone? the thing is, i've really really liked the same guy for like 2 and a half years. he's in my year at school (year 10) and (luckily haha) no other girl...
A. 17 March 2008: i have it even now. infact all the things are pretty much the same. the guy i like is selfish, full of himself, treats me like shit infront of his friends. yet i still love him. yes, love! its been about 3 years to be fair. hes a popular type who... (read in full...)
Want to have sex, but worried about how I'll look with no clothes on!
Q. hiya, well i'm 14 and i have this most amazing boyfriend, i love him to bits. The thing is we muck about talking about sex and stuff and i no he actually does want to have sex with me as he has told me and he keeps hinting it. I also think i want t...
A. 17 March 2008: the fact that you said ''i think im ready'' is proof enough that you're not. how long have you been with this guy anyway? besides you're fourteen - same as me - and saying you love him to bits is quite a strong statement at this age. i'm not s... (read in full...)
We are totally in love but only 14...is it ok to have sex??
Q. Is it ok to have sex when you are 14 and totally in love with your girlfriend and she is totally in love with you? I will definatley use a condom becasue we really do not want her to get pregnant. I know this probably sounds stupid and an obvious ...
A. 5 March 2008: its almost always the same in these cases. the guy is ready and doesnt think its a big deal losing your virginity. but to a girl it means a lot. well it should. so unless youve talked about everything.. like how long have you been together? a... (read in full...)
If he doesn't want a baby why is he refusing to wear a condom?
Q. im 14 in 2 weeks. me and my boyfriend have had sex nprotecte so many times . im beginning to think he wants me to have a baby as he wont use a condom. i want a baby but when i mension the thought of having one he turns around and ingores me. ...
A. 5 March 2008: i'm around the same age as you and it's just pure stupidity to want a baby this young. how are you going to finance everything? where is the baby going to live? you haven't even done your GCSE's and having a baby before that will definitely lower... (read in full...)
How should my friend handle her teacher's remarks, perhaps improper?
Q. my bestmate has been feeling really uncomfortable in one of her lessons lately. the teacher said she was really pretty and if he were the same age he would have probably asked her out. just yesterday he said that he had a girlfriend when ...
A. 29 February 2008: 1. at our school not many people get after school detentions. and when they do have after school detentions its about 3 maybe 2 people. not many. 2. no she hasnt just broke up with a boyfriend. and he said it to her when they were doing their wo... (read in full...)
Will he tell?
Q. hi every one, I'm only 14 and i have fallen in love with this guy, but he only likes me for what I did in the past... I have shown him my breasts and I wish I didn't.. I really do. Now he wants me to show it to him again, but I keep on saying no. I ...
A. 29 February 2008: right im the same age as you and my friends have done the same, maybe more. You should never trust guys with showing them things; specially over the computer because half the time they spread them to their friends and they are everywhere. trust me. ... (read in full...)
I want to have sex with my 15 year old girlfriend, how can I speed things up?
Q. i'm 14 and i want to have sex with my 15 year old girlfriend. ive been with her for 3 months now, and i really like her alot for such a short space of time. you guys probably think im too young to know what love is but i do, i was with this other ...
A. 29 January 2008: you say you love her. but if you truly loved her youd wait for her. ... (read in full...)
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