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Krystelle

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fourteen and im quite mature for it. i dont get pissed - like alot of my mates - on a friday night. cos i prefer to remember what ive done. dont care if people think im boring. i guess being by myself alot has made me who i am. i havent seen my dad for about 4 years now and my mom works full time. so its really me most of the time. because of it im quite a loner and dont like going out that much.

my family is so disfunctional and they always make me think love isnt possible. maybe it is. but from what ive seen i dont think it is. and even if it is, then im not sure i really want to be involved in it because it hurts you so much. i thought i was strong after being through what ive been through, but im very emotional.

i always offer advice to people. my friends say im practically their second mother. but i never seem to give myself that good advice, and thats where i go wrong. im always to busy dealing with everyone elses problems that i never sort out my own.

We want to spend our lives together but she isn't a Christian so we can't marry...what can I do??

Q.   Hi, ive been going out with a girl for a while now and its obvious we are quite serious over each other. We have both hinted and spending our lives together in the future, but I have a problem... Thing is i'm a Christian and she isnt... and I ca...

A.   24 March 2008: im not familiar on what being a christian is about but why CANT you marry her? is the bible stopping you or your actual family?... (read in full...)

I don't want to LIE for him, what do you think?

Q.   my ex bf cheated on me with this girl. then we broke up and he started dating her. sometime while they were together we hooked up and he cheated on her with me. but then that stopped. the other day she added me under a fake friends account and i ...

A.   21 March 2008: if you lie for him it wont end. he'll start using you thinking he can walk all over you. you cannot let that hapen. you need to tell this girl the truth, imagine you being her and not knowing your boyfriend is cheating on you. if you dont like her ... (read in full...)

I am 14 and PREGNANT! What do I do?

Q.   HELP! I had sex with my boyfriend about 2 weeks to a month ago and i have recently started feeling weird, so i took a pregnancy test prayed it wouldnt be positive and it was-i'm pregnant, you can probably tell from my age that i'm under aged, bu...

A.   21 March 2008: id say you should ring a helpline or something. they have ones set up for teenage mothers. talk anonymous (sp?) and they can help you. i dont know any numbers off the top of my head. but just google for a number or site. im not going to say your... (read in full...)

Is my "internet guy" just after sex? Help!

Q.   hiya i need help ppl... i met this boy through the internet and he seems reali nice and i know this might sound crazy but i think i might have feelings for him... but the only problem is that my mates are telling me that he is only after sex..but i...

A.   21 March 2008: i think your friends are trying to protect you. these days you never know for sure if people are really who they say they are. dont get mad at your friends if they say stuff like hes just after sex. they could be true. he could be just sweet talking ... (read in full...)

Can you love someone but be unable to understand WHY??

Q.   hiii this is quite a strange question, but is it normal to have NO IDEA why you love someone? the thing is, i've really really liked the same guy for like 2 and a half years. he's in my year at school (year 10) and (luckily haha) no other girl...

A.   17 March 2008: i have it even now. infact all the things are pretty much the same. the guy i like is selfish, full of himself, treats me like shit infront of his friends. yet i still love him. yes, love! its been about 3 years to be fair. hes a popular type who... (read in full...)

Want to have sex, but worried about how I'll look with no clothes on!

Q.   hiya, well i'm 14 and i have this most amazing boyfriend, i love him to bits. The thing is we muck about talking about sex and stuff and i no he actually does want to have sex with me as he has told me and he keeps hinting it. I also think i want t...

A.   17 March 2008: the fact that you said ''i think im ready'' is proof enough that you're not. how long have you been with this guy anyway? besides you're fourteen - same as me - and saying you love him to bits is quite a strong statement at this age. i'm not s... (read in full...)

We are totally in love but only 14...is it ok to have sex??

Q.   Is it ok to have sex when you are 14 and totally in love with your girlfriend and she is totally in love with you? I will definatley use a condom becasue we really do not want her to get pregnant. I know this probably sounds stupid and an obvious ...

A.   5 March 2008: its almost always the same in these cases. the guy is ready and doesnt think its a big deal losing your virginity. but to a girl it means a lot. well it should. so unless youve talked about everything.. like how long have you been together? a... (read in full...)

If he doesn't want a baby why is he refusing to wear a condom?

Q.   im 14 in 2 weeks. me and my boyfriend have had sex nprotecte so many times . im beginning to think he wants me to have a baby as he wont use a condom. i want a baby but when i mension the thought of having one he turns around and ingores me. ...

A.   5 March 2008: i'm around the same age as you and it's just pure stupidity to want a baby this young. how are you going to finance everything? where is the baby going to live? you haven't even done your GCSE's and having a baby before that will definitely lower... (read in full...)

How should my friend handle her teacher's remarks, perhaps improper?

Q.   my bestmate has been feeling really uncomfortable in one of her lessons lately. the teacher said she was really pretty and if he were the same age he would have probably asked her out. just yesterday he said that he had a girlfriend when ...

A.   29 February 2008: 1. at our school not many people get after school detentions. and when they do have after school detentions its about 3 maybe 2 people. not many. 2. no she hasnt just broke up with a boyfriend. and he said it to her when they were doing their wo... (read in full...)

Will he tell?

Q.   hi every one, I'm only 14 and i have fallen in love with this guy, but he only likes me for what I did in the past... I have shown him my breasts and I wish I didn't.. I really do. Now he wants me to show it to him again, but I keep on saying no. I ...

A.   29 February 2008: right im the same age as you and my friends have done the same, maybe more. You should never trust guys with showing them things; specially over the computer because half the time they spread them to their friends and they are everywhere. trust me. ... (read in full...)

I want to have sex with my 15 year old girlfriend, how can I speed things up?

Q.   i'm 14 and i want to have sex with my 15 year old girlfriend. ive been with her for 3 months now, and i really like her alot for such a short space of time. you guys probably think im too young to know what love is but i do, i was with this other ...

A.   29 January 2008: you say you love her. but if you truly loved her youd wait for her. ... (read in full...)

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