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Twice Rejected and Insecure

Q.   I had a relationship that ended badly as he said he didn't want anything serious then the day after started going out with another girl. Ive just picked myself up about this and seeing another guy when he told me he wasn't that into me and prefered ...

A.   7 December 2011: OMG girl, STOP! Stop what you are thinking. You know how many girls I have met that are like you? And seriously, I would bang the shit out of all of them. Sorry for the strong word here, but you need to realize you are pretty. You might not be ... (read in full...)

Why do people have an affair?

Q.   I would just like to know why people have an affair and what exactly do you gain out of it (because to me you just make matters a whole lot worse) so why do it....

A.   15 June 2011: You are so right! It doesn't make sense from a logical point of view... However, from an instinct point of view, it make no sense to only stick with one female when you can spread "it" around and your gene survival chance increases too. So that ... (read in full...)

I've had enough of her childish behavior!

Q.   My girlfriend and I have been together for 20 months (1 year, 8 months) and our relationship has really been going down the crapper lately. When something doesn't go her way, like say she was wrong in a discussion/argument, she crosses her arms...

A.   7 February 2011: Ok, I pretty skim what you have said. But it sounds to me like you are one of those pussy guys. MAN UP!!! Don't let her get away with that behavior. Trust me, once a girl in a relationship, she will only love one man. So if you still love her, ... (read in full...)

How do I fend off personal questions from others?

Q.   I'm back. I have relatives, acquaintances, and friends who ask me inappropriate questions. They ask things like "Do you want a girlfriend?" Then if I say "not at the moment", they start to fire more questions at me. They ask if I'm gay, or w...

A.   7 February 2011: LOL, well... I guess it's kinda odd for a 30 yearsold guy to be so... independent. A guy that don't need gf to take care of him. Cuz, most people would try to find a girl and start a family at that age before it's too late... So yeah, I guess you ... (read in full...)

How can I trust my bf and quit having negative thoughts?

Q.   hey everyone i really need some edvice, i always think negative and im a huge worry wart. my bf and i have been dating for ten months and in the first two months he texted this girl naughty mess. and i found out and contronted him and he told me ...

A.   7 February 2011: Sounds to me like he's a good guy (a bit of a wimp though :P) Anyway, to stop having negative thought... Just think positive thought. I think that's really simple, but I found a lot of people have a hard time on it. Just remember all the good time ... (read in full...)

Young & Virgin, are they really that weak?

Q.   Of course, I have never had any relationship experience, but a lot of my friends were virgin and their first bf that had sex with them always a dodgebag asshole. Although, they tend to stick with those guys for a year or two before they realize it. ...

A.   26 October 2010: Yes They are Douchebag. Not because they are sexual predators. One of them, he actually abusive, and my friend never tell me about it until the break up. Another going after her best friends and stole money from her account (cuz they share ... (read in full...)

I regret what I did, but regret doesn't fix things

Q.   Today I'm bogged down with regret, it never really leaves, but I usually manage it a little better, today though, I'm to weak to fight it, and so I feel its full debilitating force. I've always been a romantic, ever since I was a toddler, but aft...

A.   26 October 2010:  wow, you know... I feel you. but I don't think beating yourself up about it will help. Sometimes feeling sad is like a drug in itself. You will get into this loop and it will hurt. You want to get out, but you still can't help getting back in. ... (read in full...)

I love my girlfriend, and want to propose to her, but now I'm having doubts

Q.   Hi all, I am madly in love with my girlfriend, I'll call Tracy, of nearly two years. I've been wanting to propose to her (she knows this), but lately, her actions have been giving me doubts. In a nutshell, I think she's is obsessed with th...

A.   26 October 2010: Dude, this is the time where you have to be a Man. I don't have any relationship exp (and I may have no right to say this) but... Dude! just tell her "Why rush? We gonna have our whole life together... This is not some kid games, it's a one in a ... (read in full...)

I broke up with my boyfriend yesterday but I want him back, how long should I wait to call him?

Q.   I just broke up with my bf yesterday. he's 32. im 20. We've known each other for 8 months. I broke up with him because I couldn't trust him anymore. after breaking up he called me but I didn't answer so he sent this to me: "I am very sorry that ...

A.   25 October 2010: ok, I'm thai. And if your ex-bf is thai... well, don't believe every word he said. Don't imagine anything from those text. Try looking at what he has done. Men speak better with action than words. And I know a lot of us, guys, use words without even ... (read in full...)

He only texted me 4 times...Did I do something wrong?

Q.   So I MIGHT like this guy that goes to my schoool. He said he doesn't like hoes and I know I am not one of those. But today he only texted me like four times and im not gonna lie. it bothered me a little, But made me wanna have him that much more, ...

A.   25 October 2010: Right On, TennisStar I'm a guy and I couldn't have said it better myself :D... (read in full...)

Does he really like me or what?

Q.   Dear readers I'm now having a problem with my mind. My classmate is acting weird to me. Let me explain, in the eyes of friends I more like a younger sister so less chance to attract to someone. My emotion wasn't so steady and again not many people ...

A.   25 October 2010: He's in to you. But if you are really unsure, try asking his friends about it. So either you Ask him out if you really like him or play hard to get if you want to tease him a bit :P Either way, I hope you good luck... (read in full...)

He did something that disgusted me! Should I call this all off?

Q.   I've been seeing this guy for about seven months. He doesn't want to call it a 'relationship', saying he likes 'the way we are'. So I'm already a little put off... The other night though, we'd been having a lot of fun in bed (we have GREAT sex), af...

A.   25 October 2010: Well, sometime a guy has his pussy moment. I really don't think he find it funny, but it might be sort of sexy to him to see your slutty side. The reason he said it was funny cuz he was panic at a time to see how strongly you rejected it. That's ... (read in full...)

Why do guys want a virgin?

Q.   Ok, so im a girl and a virgin. Want to have sex but scared i might get pregnant. But Anyways i read somewere that guys like it when girls a virgins for sex or something. Why is that? Explain please....

A.   22 October 2010: Well... There was a rumor I heard. If a guy take a girl's virginity, the girl will devote herself to him completely (I guess it's becuz he teaches her what felt good for the first time) I am still a virgin, so I don't know how true that is. B... (read in full...)

Does she only see me as a friend?

Q.   Okay, I really need help. I have a female roomate who has lived with me now for the past 2 mos. I had met her earlier this summer, and recently she needed somewhere to live, and I stepped in to help her. Anyhow, her and I get along extremely well, ...

A.   22 October 2010: LOL Cool it man. A wise man once said, "Be comfortable in the fuzzy state". We, guys, love to take one way or the other (ie either I am Gay or I am straight) Woman, however, would love this "fuzzy state", esp "does he likes me?". So my suggestion, ... (read in full...)

What's the point of a woman being confident if there's always going to be another woman that's better-looking than you?

Q.   hey iv just had this question in my head a few days and i just wondered what mabye you guys thought ? whats the point in woman being confident if theres always going to be another girl thats always better looking then you ? theres perfect girls ev...

A.   22 October 2010:  LOL So True, All guys will drul over those girls. But you know, perfect is really not what a guy will choose ultimately. Biologically, a guy will choose a female that will best suit him. A wimpy guy would like a girl who take charge once in a ... (read in full...)

I'm completely in love with my friend but don't want my boyfriend to get hurt!

Q.   There's this guy I used to have a massive crush on and now we are going out. The problem is we've got nothing in common and he bores me to death. Another problem is that I've started to have feelings for my friend. He's a really cool guy and is ...

A.   22 October 2010: LOL!!! (nod nod) I see I see... I love a nice girl like that :D... There is a 3-way-steps to this problem. 1). dump him There is a way to let him down easy though, find out if he really interested in you... Ask him what part of you he finds in... (read in full...)

How can I convince my sister in law to have sex with me?

Q.   Q. I am married for the last thirteen years but I am in love with my younger sister-in-law for the last eleven years. I always fantisize about her during sex with my wife. I have an obssessive compulsive disorder about her. I told her that I wanted ...

A.   21 October 2010:  Try watching those anime porn. You sound a lot like what I have seen :P Sad to say, most of it end up pretty gruesome... But ^^ I do Fantazise about it too. Although I have never been in love, I would like to get it on with many woman at a time ... (read in full...)

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