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Lost my virginity and I just wanna cry...

Q.   im 16 and i lost my virginity few days ago, i knew the guy who i done it with wasnt my boyfriend, but since he hasnt spoke to me, i know i was just a bootycall or whatever but now i feel like crapp, i jus wanna cry, i just dunnooooooo :(...

A.   22 February 2010: hey hun, I know you feel bad about it now but one day you will look back and realise that you didn't really lose anything. so you had sex with one asshole guy, it happens to girls all the time! imagine how much worse it would be if he pretended to ... (read in full...)

When is the right time to tell my parents that I don't got my virginity anymore?

Q.   When is it to be the right time to tell my parents I don't have my virginity anymore? I am only 13 years old, and I just lost my virginity a few days ago with my girlfriends I have been dating for 13months (1year1month). I understand it is...

A.   18 November 2008: don't stress sweetie,if you really feel it's important you tell them then do. but otherwise, i wouldn't go to all that trouble and stress. maybe you and your gf should cool off from intercourse for a bit and go back to kissing and watching movies :) ... (read in full...)

Is asking my boyfriend for oral sex unfair?

Q.   I am a virgin, which my boyfriend knows, but we have had anal. There are a lot of reasons I don't want to have sex with him that I won't include here. But one thing is that he's small in that department (I can't imagine that I would honestly feel ...

A.   29 July 2008: I agree with miss wendlemoot that your boyfriend is being selfish - he should be making heaps of effort to make you orgasm. Though, i don't agree with miss wendlemoot that you're not a virgin - that's up to you to classify for yourself. ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is pregnant and I don't find her sexually attractive anymore... how do I deal?

Q.   My girlfriend is pregnant. She's about 4 months along, and her stomach is getting bigger. I think it's glorious that she's carrying our child but for the past month or so I haven't found her very sexually attractive. I have started flirting with a ...

A.   29 July 2008: Your girlfriend has sacrificed her body so the two of you can bring a child into this world. A child is the greatest gift for any father. You don't deserve your girlfriend, man. Get a real problem. Somethign like - 'i'm having our baby that my boyfr... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is telling me my vagina is too wide, what should I do?

Q.   my boyfriend told me that i have a wide vagina and theres no feeling for him when we have sex. what could be the problem?, and what can i do to fix it?...

A.   27 July 2008: it's a myth that vaginas can be too 'wide'. a vagina is not shaped like a throat, where there is a hollow hole. when not excited, the walls of the vagina touch each other, these muscles are how it holds in things such as tampons or a penis during ... (read in full...)

Should I give up on finding love and opt for casual sex?

Q.   I am 25 and still a virgin. It is not something I am proud of anymore, in fact I find it to be frustrating and a total drag. All my life I tried to find someone special but did not succeed. My body is aching for sex, and I feel like I am missing ...

A.   26 July 2008: i sympathise with your situation. virginity is not a medical construct, it's a social one. because of that, we feel all kinds of pressures to make sure that first time is the one we love, and women are especially made to feel bad if they give it ... (read in full...)

I have some concerns about the new vaccine, Gardasil.

Q.   so my dad is telling me and my sister that he's willing to pay the expensive price for us to get the vaccine, gardasil. I know its a new medicine so idk a whole lot about it or side effects and what not. I was reading some stuff online but not a...

A.   26 July 2008: it's very important that you get this vaccination, it's revolutionary in that it can prevent you getting the hpv, which is a strain of virus that can lead to herpes and cervical cancer. we women are so lucky to have such a vaccination available to ... (read in full...)

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