How can I get over the loss of 2 close people without affecting my relationship?
Q. Hey all okay, heres the story. over the past month, 2 people who are really close to me have passed away, one (being my grandfather) died (but we are all happy for him, cuz he was suffering cuz he was forced to live on an oxygen tank for years)....
A. 5 November 2006: Hiya
Firstly may I say sincerely I am sorry for your loss. Without taking too much away from you right now I must say I know what you are going through as I had a similar experience which I am still dealing with.
Secondly as you are fully aw... (read in full...)
The romance has disappeared from our relationship, its only early days. What's going on?
Q. Here's the deal... I am dating a new guy... he showed interest in April 2006, I didnt get back to him until Sept. We started officially dating exclusively in OCtober but now it seems the dynamics have changed. He not as sweet, not as considera...
A. 5 November 2006: Hi
I know exactly what you mean this same thing happened to me so i know what your saying.
Men can be strange like this, but you know, what you need to ask him outright as MARVIN GAYE said "Whats going on" I did, not that I got a clear cut ... (read in full...)
I think this guy who likes me, may be an abusive cheater type! What do you think?
Q. Is the guy I'm kind of talking to abusive and a cheater? He started talking to me in the spring while he still had a girlfriend, (he soon broke up with her) and then I broke it off because I didn't feel ready for another relationship since I was on ...
A. 22 October 2006: Hi
If your gut instinct tells you that omething is not right then steer clear you say yourelf you have seen things he does and it is obvious you dont like it. What chance could you possibly have of a good relationship with this guy. Please k... (read in full...)
How do I break up?
Q. My boyfriend abuses me verbally and phisically. I'm not happ with him because our comunication is aweful. I cannot disscuss ANYTHING with him. We're just too different and we're never going to work out. I know that the best thing is to break up. I ...
A. 8 October 2006: Sweetheart stop OK!
No one has the right to abuse anyone and you should not allow this to happen to you you are a person not an object. Abusers are weak and cowards.
I dont know your circumstances but if you live with him you may want to ... (read in full...)
I refused to get back together as friends with benefits
Q. I split up with my guy six months ago because he cheated on me. We've been in contact recently and I think he wants us to get back together. I told him that we have got to be exclusive. He said he didn't want a 'girlfriend' so I refused to get back ...
A. 8 October 2006: Well your right never try and have a conversaton with someone when they are drunk as this never works.
Good that you want to deal with this straight away so yes talk to him today and tell him exactly what you want out of the relationship and ask ... (read in full...)
I dont know whats wrong with me and Im scared!!
Q. I am so lost right now i don't know how to begin i am making such a mess of my life i am unemplyed i am messing things up with my boyfriend,the only man who has ever been loving i cause arguements everyday now he says he is sick of me an he is not ...
A. 30 September 2006: Hiya
There is nothing wrong with you at the moment you may feel a little depressed cos things are not going the way you would like them too. But don't worry try and think positive and how things were before you was unhappy hold onto those th... (read in full...)
How can I get him to speak to me to tell my why he don't call or text me anymore?
Q. it prob sounds stupid, but i havent spoke 2 my ex 4 abpout 3 monthes, ive text him and called him but he doesnt answer me, ive called him before on private he answered and heard it was me and pretended he couldnt hear me which pissed me off, but how ...
A. 30 September 2006: Hiya
Firstly let me say no quesion is a stupid question when it comes to relationships. They are hard enough to deal with.
As you have not given to much info like was your relationship in trouble at any stage or was everything fine and he just... (read in full...)
He's ignoring me and he says he doesn't feel the same way, anymore. What can I do?
Q. hey, ive been seeing my boyfriend for 3 years, and hes been great until recently, over the past few months, he's been wanting to see me less and less, so he can spend time with his friends (girls and boys) this week i only really saw him 2 days. we ...
A. 30 September 2006: This must be an annoying time for you, I just wished that people would stop hiding from thr truth and stopleading people on. If he was any type of man then he would tell you the truth and stop being silly. Dont beat yourself up over this it is ... (read in full...)
Married for 30 years, I find out he has had an affair with a girl 20 years younger.. And everyone knows!
Q. My husband of 30 years has just had an affair! He moved out 6 months ago, saying the relationship was not working, and then I found out he was seeing a woman 20 years younger, is living with her, and has been on holiday with her. Everyone we know ...
A. 25 September 2006: 30 years is a long tme, I really feel for you any relationship is ought when it falls apart but more so when it is for a nuber o years, My heart is with you right now I know it is tough but you will pull through. ight now you must feel like you ... (read in full...)
My friend knows I am in love with him, he gives me mixed signals but just does not seem to care. I really don't know what to do anymore.
Q. Hi, Im in a proper mess, im desperatly in love with my friend and he knows this, and I dont expect him to be in love with me back. It just no matter how much I tell him (in a text) he never comments, never runs a mile and well its destroying me ...
A. 25 September 2006: I agree with Shania sorry babe, I had a similiar experience and it is not fun in your chair right now, but you need to break free of your feelings cos a one sided love affair is not good. Your hurting right now and it will take some time but you ... (read in full...)
We are stuck in different stages of a realationship and I feel bestrayed and let down.
Q. O.k., I know there are stages in a relationship, but I am stuck in one and cant seem to move on. I still am in the beginning stages and he seems to have gone into the familiarity stage. You know, where there is less love speeches and gestures. I ...
A. 25 September 2006: Hey come on OK your a bit insecure but just think hhe may have stopped the gestures but you can still cary that on. We all know some guys are lazy when it come to that sort of thing - you know, they start off with all good intentions but then they ... (read in full...)
I can't remember the name of this website..can you remember?
Q. just a general question this afternoon when I logged on you had other related sites but now there is only one listed can you help I need to contact one of the other sights I cant remember the name but it was similar to this where it was like a forum ...
A. 25 September 2006: Thanks guys but nether worked. it was my own fult I should have added it to my favorites. Basically it was a link page in this sight but nowit is not there strange huh!
Thanks again
Keeley :-) smile... (read in full...)
How can I get my lying, cheating slapper of a girlfriend out of my head?
Q. Ever since getting together with my girlfriend, there have been problems. All she basically has ever done is lied, flirted, broke promises, totally disrespected me and slept around. Me being me, I took her back over 60 times, yet she still continue...
A. 24 September 2006: Hiya
Well I guess you are in a bit of a predicament here!
Ok the facts as raw as they are are 1 she wants to see other guys and have sexual relationships with them. 2 she knows that the past expereience with you you have always taken her ba... (read in full...)
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