Is this boy a waste of time and space?
Q. i need some help... i like this boy but one minute he is talking to me and then the next he is blocking me and ignoring me. i really fancy him and cant stop the feelings. ive had these strong feeligns for 9 months. the thing is when he talks to me ...
A. 22 March 2011: hmm.. why did he block you? is it because you didn't want to jump into bed with him straight away? Blocking and ignoring someone is a bit harsh if that is the reason. If this is all he talks about then I would say he's definately after one thing and ... (read in full...)
So basically this messed up, crazy sweet guy told me he wants to be my fwb, but it's my choice now. What do I do?
Q. awhile ago i met this guy; he was sweet enough, but a self confessed man whore so i brushed off his advances. our convos usually started with him asking if we could bang, but generally got into deeper more meaningful things once he got that out of ...
A. 22 March 2011: Well I would say you need to be careful in this situation because of his reputation but also because he has mentioned He wants to mess about for a bit. I know he said that if he met the right one that he would stay but its a tough one to call. I ... (read in full...)
Do I have to change? How can I be more positive?
Q. hi ive been with my partner for over 3yrs we have been through alot together i was kicked out of home and moved straight in with him. together we have faced one abortion, 3 miss carriages we were living together for 2yrs then moved back to his ...
A. 22 March 2011: I'm sorry to hear that you both have gone through so much misfortune with carrying children. Theres definately been a bit of back and forth but have you asked him why he has stop caring for you because thats the key question.
I wouldn't say you ... (read in full...)
B/f thought I was going to dump him so he broke up with me!
Q. My bf now ex and i broke up a few days ago.....I am still madly in love with him! he says he is still in love with me and I am the best thing that ever happened to him. I am asked why he broke up with me in the first place and he said it was b/c ...
A. 22 March 2011: hello there,
Sounds to me that he wants to get back with you. Theres only one way to find out and that is to ask him how he feels about the relationship and see what he wants. Dumping you before you dump him seems a bit childish but I think ev... (read in full...)
I feel like I shouldn't trust him, is this normal?
Q. Hey there,heres my situation I got a boyfriend and him and I live far from each other and hes a party person,so am I but everytime he goes out it becomes an issue for me,I stress about what hes doing,whom is he with at that party,I get jealous...
A. 21 March 2011: I can fully understand where your coming from and what your saying, however if you can't trust him how can this relationship work. I think a majority of people would agree with the way your feeling right now.
I was in the same situation with an ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend doesn't tell his family about me and now I'm pregnant!
Q. hi, ive dated my boyfriend for 7 months and i ended it then because he didnt want it to turn into a relationship, he spent the next 6 months begging me to give him another chance and that he loves me and then i did, weve been n a relatiionship for 6 ...
A. 21 March 2011: I can only imagine how stressful this is going to be but you have to be stong and stick to your guns if he can't be a man and do this how can he be the perect father figure for this child. I agree with the other comment thats been made your not be... (read in full...)
Should I believe my boyfriend that nothing is going on?
Q. Should I believe my boyfriend that nothing is going on or not? He has received calls and text messages from his exes and one asked if I was pregnant yet. When she found out I am on pills she stated smart move. I feel like I am losing him to them ...
A. 21 March 2011: Sorry to hear you've lost a baby. I lost one to 2 years ago. I know its a very painful time in your life.
You need to talk to him about the way you feel and vice versa he maybe doesn't know how to talk about it with you and doesn't want to upset... (read in full...)
Spicing things up?
Q. sex is gettin kinda boring so what are some tips to "spice" things up abit?...
A. 17 March 2011: Have you tried role play? Maybe dressing up in sexy lingerie, using toys whips and chains. Maybe telling each other your utter most fantasies and fulfilling them. Trying to fit in quickies in each others lunch breaks. Doing it in strange and ... (read in full...)
The more I've got to know my husband, the less I like him!
Q. Dear Cupid, I have been married to my husband for over a 1.5 yr ago i..e we signed the marriage certificate almost 2 yrs ago and i moved with him 6 months after signing him. Few months after signing him we had fights regarding issues with his frie...
A. 17 March 2011: This is absolutely awful I really do feel for you right now and the timing of this couldn't be more worse. This is a tough situation but I would definately have this out with him he may be hurt that you went through his messages but what he's ... (read in full...)
How do I make a good impression on his father?
Q. I've been dating a great guy for 4 months, I'm 19 and he is 20. He's met my family and they really like him, he can be a little shy but he feels much more comfortable now. In fact he invited me to a concert (out of town) with him and his parents ...
A. 17 March 2011: I would say apart from manners and being polite be yourself. Don't feel like you have to be anything else but yourself. From being yourself they will see all your qualitys and why their son fell for you. Try and strike up some conversations when you ... (read in full...)
We used to talk about anything but now we act like we don't even know each other!
Q. I was good friends with a classmate of mine since 16. When we were 17, we went to different classes but we still kept in contact. However, towards the end of the year, she suddenly stopped contacting me. I thought it was rather abrupt but I thought ...
A. 17 March 2011: It's a shame this has happened. I would suggest to see if you can pull her aside and talk to her calmly and tell her you feel like you've drifted apart and ask if you have done anything to offend her? and tell her how this is affecting you.If you ... (read in full...)
Advice on how to explain to him that I wont have sex with him before marriage?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have a bf and we're now 5 months together. So far, everything is going well with us. We encounter problems and yet we manage to fix things up and that's good. I have just one concern in regards with one of his requests from me...
A. 17 March 2011: You really need to sit down and talk to him about this i know its going to be hard, but there is no other way then to just be straight with him. Stick to your values and definately don't feel pressured into doing it if you don't want to. I know you ... (read in full...)
When we fight boyfriend says really mean things. Does he mean them?
Q. I feel so silly writing this but here goes...I've been seeing this guy for just over a year now. To be honest I've never been completely sure about him as he seems to have some issues, but I do care A LOT about him and he does make me happy, most of ...
A. 15 March 2011: I want to start by saying that everyone says things in arguments but that doesn't give him the excuse to put you down on the way you look. That would make anyone self conscious. You really need to sit down and talk to him about the way he makes you ... (read in full...)
I'm dating a lovely new man, but am terrified of getting hurt again, and want to walk now while I still can!!
Q. Hi all. I would appreciate any advice on the following. I came out of an abusive relatinship not to long ago. It has been on and off for months, and I suffered with really bad depression with it at the end of last year and was off work in bed for ...
A. 15 March 2011: First I would like to say well done for getting out of such an abusive relationship it couldn't of been easy and also that your on the right track by going to a councillor. It's understdable that your scared of being in another relationship but if ... (read in full...)
Was my friend just being catty because of her own dating problems?
Q. Okay, there's this boy that I've known for a few months now. We get along really well, and we've been flirting quite a bit. I didn't really want to admit to anyone that I liked him because I wasn't quite ready to admit it myself, but after I did ...
A. 15 March 2011: I would say don't throw away a great friendship over something so silly. Equally it doesn't mean you should throw away a potential relationship with Mark. I think maybe she was being catty because she hasn't been having a great time with ... (read in full...)
My husband is a compulsive liar and its driving me crazy!
Q. hi, i need some constructive advice and abit of psychological insight. what do you do when your partner is a compulsive liar? I am married with a young child, me and my hubby have been together for 3years. Ever since i met him he has lied to me, ...
A. 15 March 2011: I would like to start by saying this has got to be heartbreaking for you. I think you really need to have this out with him because this can't go on. You have caught him out on countless occasions but after you confronted him you just accepted more ... (read in full...)
My wife feels more like a sister to me than a wife, and it doesn't feel right to make love to her!!
Q. Hi I have a big problem. Over the years my wife and I have had many issues. I left her 9 months ago because I lost my feelings for her. I now find myself wanting to be with her and my children. I realise I do have feelings for her, but they are up ...
A. 15 March 2011: First I would like to say im sorry to hear that has happened it can't be easy for you both. I want you to think whether you moving back in was for the right reasons, i know you miss your kids and you want to be closer to them but you say you love ... (read in full...)
My wife's friends husband flirts openly with her...and she sees no harm in it. Am I the only one who thinks this is weird?
Q. My wife's best friend's husband will openly flirt with my wife at social gatherings at there home. She says it is just his way and I have excepted that, even though I find it dis-respectful. My wife says it means nothing. Recently I have learned ...
A. 15 March 2011: I think you have every right to be upset. This kind of behaviour is not on. By her replying to these messages or flirting back with him is definatly giving out mixed messages and could leave people getting hurt. I would advise you have a serious ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't enjoy having sex with me on my period
Q. My boyfriend and I have had sex twice on my period meaning during one month of it and during another month of it cause he said he had never done it before and he never said whether he liked it or not most guys I have been with did not care if I was ...
A. 15 March 2011: First of all not all guys are the same. Just because previous partners didn't mind doesn't mean he will be the same.I think that maybe the reason he hadn't said anything before is because he was trying it out and wasn't sure himself if he was indeed ... (read in full...)
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