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I feel weird that my boyfriend wants a threesome!

Q.   My boyfriend of almost two years really, and I mean really wants to have a threesome with me and another female. He swears that he doesn't have anyone particular in mind but wants us to find a girl willing to do this. I have never done this bef...

A.   4 June 2008: First off, be careful, because this usually ends up with heart break and distrust. I know of a couple who did this and the guy left his gf for the other gf. There are some that have done it and could never trust their bf again, and had problems... (read in full...)

He says I cheated, but I never did!

Q.   He is convinced I've cheated on him. But let me be totally honest here: I HAVEN'T! I can understand why he doesn't trust me. I lied, I admit that. I lied about my past because it didn't make me proud and because I knew he'd react awfully to it. J...

A.   4 June 2008: So he's punishing you for having a past? Tell him that he's part of your past now and kick him to the curb ! You don't need this bull crap and it's none of his business what you did and whom you did it with, or two, before he came walking into your ... (read in full...)

I feel as I am running out of solutions and am considering prostitution...

Q.   i want to be a prostitute i am struggling with money at the moment and i need some to help me life and enjoy myself i live in england does anyone no of how i can do it or of any agencies to call ? ...

A.   4 June 2008: Yup prostitution is a way to solve your money problems alright, because most likely you'll end up dead, because it's a very dangerous and violent life to lead. Do anything and everything, before you resort to that ! I know someone who did it and c... (read in full...)

Was I flirting? How to I talk to him or his family?

Q.   i like a lad, i am 16, he is one or two years older. my brothers play for a football team, they are the blacks, that lad helps coach the reds. i know all of his family, i mean i have seen and talked to them a bit, but i mainly know his mum, i talkto ...

A.   4 June 2008: It's either flirting, or throwing yourself at him one...... (read in full...)

Am I being a bitch? Why do I keep feeling angry at my boyfriend?

Q.   Just wondered if I am horrible or not to my boyfriend of 10 months. Just lately I have been getting mood swings. We have talked about it and I have apologised for snapping at him. At the time my friend gave me some cannabis and it made me flat and...

A.   4 June 2008: Either you need something for your nerves, or you need to move on. His child doesn't need that in his life, or some adult woman trying to take time from him with his dad. His child comes first before you and anyone else. Not trying to be mean here, ... (read in full...)

I nearly had sex with my Mum's 37 year old friend

Q.   I'm 16, and I fancy my Mum's 37 year old friend. I have since I first met her, but I knew nothing would ever happen between us. But the other night, she was at my house with my Mum, and they had a few drinks. My Mum went to sleep on the couch, I ...

A.   4 June 2008: Don't forget the condoms !... (read in full...)

I'm worried that I might be pregnant. Can I take a normal pill to reduce the risk?

Q.   I've had intercourse with my boyfriend before yesterday and though he did not blow his load in me I am still worried about the chances of me being pregnant. Therefore, just in case and to be on the safe side he looked for the emergency pill which ...

A.   4 June 2008: As soon as a guy get excited and there is any kind of leakage, as is usually a tiny amount during the whole time, there are sperm present in all of it, so yes it could be possible. Why did you not use protection and why did you not know this befo... (read in full...)

How do I get enough money for the wedding?

Q.   hi,i have a girl that i have propose to.and we love each other very much.but my challeges are getting money to conclude our wedding plans.though a graduate but still looking for a job.want you to advice me on how to go about it....

A.   4 June 2008: What makes a wedding. It's not all the money and glamour, even though most want that and think it's about that. No, it's about commitment. Here are a few ideas, as I've helped plan a few cheap weddings, but made beautiful by the actual ceremony... (read in full...)

He cheated on me!!

Q.   hey, i am 13 years old and i have been having problems with getting over my ex who is 16 years old... he cheated on me with a girl his age. my bff thinks its because i wasnt giving him what he "needed" if you know what i mean. is there any way ...

A.   1 June 2008: My daughter went through something like this and she took it hard, but she listened to me and now? She's glad it's over with. Time will make it a lot easier and not talking to him at all will also help. Try not to think about it and if you do, tell... (read in full...)

Is it wrong if I throw away my boyfriends' divorce papers?

Q.   When cleaning house, I came upon my boyfriends divorce papers. Is it wrong if I throw the divorce papers away myself?...

A.   1 June 2008: In my state, to remarry, you need to show proof of divorce, so do NOT throw them out. To me it's silly to even be concerned about what he keeps. Everyone has a past and there's things they keep, etc. My spouse has pictures of his ex wife and I do... (read in full...)

Any suggestions on how to reach an orgasm?

Q.   I've tried masturbating but i cant orgasm. i think i might have orgasms when i let water run on my clit in the bath but im not sure. Any suggestions on how to reach and orgasm?...

A.   28 May 2008: Most women do not have orgasms, especially vaginally with penatration. There are some that do, because they explored on their own with different vibs, bullet's, etc and taught themselves what feels good and works. My suggestion is to buy a bullet t... (read in full...)

I met this guy on the internet...should I see him again and can I trust him?

Q.   I am 15 year old female. I recently met up with this guy i had been talking to on the internet. I know it sounds stupid and that I shouldn't trust someone off the internet, but I really like this guy and I was wondering whether I should see him ...

A.   28 May 2008: This is against the law for this guy to meet you ! You're under aged and he's legally an adult and could be put in prison for meeting you. I think it's best that you stick to guys your own age and stop trying to grow up too fast. ... (read in full...)

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