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... Send *ulietteElise a private message | | | *ulietteElise's profile:I am the person who everyone has always come to for advice, or just someone to be there and listen. Even for adults much older then me. I do not say this to brag, but to explain my general nature. I try my best to see all sides of a situation, and love learning. I am an INFP personality. One of the main features of this is that I put other's problems above my own. I have been through some tramatic situations in my life, and helped several friends who have also had bad life experences. I am, overal, complete opposites in one. I am introverted, but act more extroverted; i am allmost nievely opptomistic and yet cynical and a bit jaded; I act like a silly sugar high five-year-old but am also mature beyond my years... even when i was a young child; i have a very loveing personality but also keep people at a distence and am a bit of a misanthrope. please excuss my horrible spelling. :0) My longest relationship was 4 years, and i have dated 5 people, my current relationship is already allmost 2 years. I am an artist. I am going to college for Illustration and Biologicgal anthroplogy, though I plan on being a sex therapist once i'm done haveing fun learning, though i will probably be paying off loans forever. I am currently 21. I am pansexual. |
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Why does my boyfriend keep talking to this girl when she's so bitchy to me?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for eight months, and its been very happy! Except for catching him once before doing things online that he shouldn't have been doing, I have no reason to suspect him of cheating or intending to cheat on me. However, ...
A. 7 February 2007: This girl has gone ouuuuttttt of her way to upset you, so it's not just that your're insequre. However, i don't think your bf will want to be with her either or he wouldn't have told you how she had acted over x-mas. If he dousn't know already, ... (read in full...)
How Can I Not Orgasm When I'm With My Girlfriend???
Q. My girlfriend is becoming increasingly worried about our sex lives, we have been together for a bit now and when we do have sex i cant seem to orgasm, this is not just effecting her its effecting me, She sees it as i dont love her or find her ...
A. 6 February 2007: How tightly do you hold yourself when you masturbate? I ask this because many males who have had the problem who are having hold themselves very tightly, and obviously when in a girl it isn't this tight. If this is what you do, then you have to ... (read in full...)
I think its a foot Fetish, But why do I feel so embarrased by it?
Q. I pretty much have a foot fetish, I think. But I feel guilty and I don't know why. I love giving guys foot rubs...My boyfriend, his older friends, pretty much anyone I know. I suck on my boyfriends toes, too! He says it's hot, but why do I feel so ...
A. 6 February 2007: no worries hun, a foot fetish is actually a very common fetish. You don't need to let anyone else know besides your guy, so no reason to be embarresed. I know this may seem strange to you, and like you're the only one, but your're really not! just ... (read in full...)
I'm only 25 and I've got an erection problem, any advice ?
Q. Erection problems at 25... I have never had this problem before and it is quite embarrassing. I get really hard right before I am about to put it in but as I start intercourse it almost instantly goes slightly soft and shortly after goes all the ...
A. 6 February 2007: I agree with everyone else that it is due to stress, and deffitly being worried that it will be limp causes stress and makes it happen. i know this is very embarresing, but there really shouldn't be any problems with going on a pill.
HOWEV... (read in full...)
Have you ever had mixed feelings for the one you're with? Any input?
Q. Have you ever had mixed feelings for the one you're with? I think it's because i am not used to being treated this good because it happened to the other 2 nice guys i was with. It's like i try to find the littlest things about them that i don't ...
A. 6 February 2007: it seems like you may have commitment issues. In small amounts this can be natural as well, but it sounds more like you are scared of commitment and are thus looking for a "way out," any reason so you don't have to be "trapped." Weither its from ... (read in full...)
Is virginity important and how old were you all, when you lost it?
Q. when is the average age to lose your virginity becuase most people these days are losing it younger and put you in a position where you think of how far you went with a boy. How old was you when you lost your virginity? Is virginity important? i am ...
A. 6 February 2007: i dated my first b/f all four years of high school, and he waited untill after we had graduated to have sex because that is what i wanted (thus, around 18 or 19). We still did oral (and thus both got verrrrry good at it) and kissed, hugged, ... (read in full...)
My bf loves me, but he feels I don't appreciate him enough! What can I do?
Q. I feel that i do not show my appreciation for my boyfriend enough, my boyfriend has mentioned that he doesn't feel that i respect/appreciate him although i know he loves me so much. I love him so much, we have been togethor for 1 year and a half and ...
A. 5 February 2007: tell him nice things often, compliments work like a charm! perhaps even writting everything down in a list/letter that you give him of all the reasons why you love him. hug him often, and kiss, even just quick pecks on the cheack often as well. ... (read in full...)
Just had a baby one month ago and our sex life is the pits! What should I do?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and we have a baby together...My problem is that I am a very sexual person and likes to have sex quite often. I know that he likes to too or at least I think so but we pretty much have a none existent sex ...
A. 5 February 2007: You need to tell him, hun. You said that when you both talk about things it often ends up in a fight, so perhaps you need to approach it diffrently? If you find yourself saying things like "you never..." "you don't..." "why can't you..." and so ... (read in full...)
What does it mean when your bf only has sex with you, doggy-style?
Q. What does it mean when your bf only has sex with you doggy-style? I love my bf so much, and we have been discussing future plans that might lead to marriage! He is the best sex that I have ever had...EVER! And he sure pleases me in everything ...
A. 5 February 2007: You should ask him, only he can answer this. Obviously he likes it a lot this way (and so do you), and doggy-style is a very easy way to penertrate as deeply as possable. I suppose some of it could be he loves being in the dominateing role, but if ... (read in full...)
Should I break up with him if he doesnt get me anything for Valentines??
Q. My bf havent gave me a gift on holiday but i did give him a belt as my present for him, are guys like that? My bf just dont want to give me anything.i knew he had money to buy one,but does it shows the he dont love me or dont want me to be happy? ...
A. 5 February 2007: Are you sure he has the money? And did he do nothing at all, like perhaps take you out to eat or the movies, etc, paying for it all? And does his family give gifts to eachother? Is he just really bad at remembering dates/time? ...also.... how ... (read in full...)
His pic of the the ex hurt me...should I ask him to carry one of us??
Q. I have this bf for almost 6months, we both had a relationship prior to ours now and got out with it for us to have a relationship together. Everything seems ok coz we both are striving hard for our relationship to work out, we've done both our...
A. 5 February 2007: hmmm... did you have to surch for these pictures? meaning, where they in a file/folder somewhere, or perhaps just in his pictures files? If so, don't worry! after all, don't you have pics of exs somewhere? maybe even an old prom pic? unless his ... (read in full...)
Is this kind of conversation appropiate?
Q. I went out for a drink with my partner and his mate the other evening (we were expecting his other half down the pub later). I assume that the mate feels so relaxed with me he can talk about anything. We were talking about chocolate (because...
A. 5 February 2007: hmmm. How about asking your partner what he thinks? I know you might be embarreshed to do this, but they will probably be able to give you the best advice on the issue since they were there to witness it all. However, it seems you and this man ... (read in full...)
Are women more sentimental than men?
Q. Are women more sentimantal than men? I feel as though in a relationship there's a big difference between things that women hold dear to them compared to men (eg keeping love letters, presents etc.). Do they just handle it differently? ...
A. 5 February 2007: I have known very sentimental males, so don't get too down thinking its impossable to find. These men are ussualy the more shy, quite ones... esspically those who are great people, but seen as "too nice" by other girls and thus have never had a ... (read in full...)
He says he still cares about me, but he doesnt act like it. Should I walk away?
Q. So... im 17 years old going on 18 and me and my boyfriend who is 17 have been together for about 2months and a week. I feel as if he does not feel the same way as he used to about me. I got text messaging taken away on my fone, which is how we used ...
A. 4 February 2007: I think is he worried that a long distance relationship wouldn't work (you being at college), and is thus trying to distance himself a bit. However, i know first hand that long distince relationships can work, but both people need to truly love ... (read in full...)
About thave sex with my bf...so should I shave it all off or keep it?
Q. Pubic Hair Horror, i am about to have sex with my boyfriend and i would like to know whether i should get rid of my pubic hair or keep it plz help x x x...
A. 4 February 2007: though i feel you are far too young to have sex (and please use protection!), as for female pubic hair, it shouldn't matter for if he really loves you it won't be a big deal. I, however, like to keep mine nice and short, so don't rule out the idea ... (read in full...)
He proposed... but with no ring (he was saving)... now it turns out he hadn't really meant it!?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and I am at the stage where I really don't know what to do for the best. He is a couple of years older than me and when we first got together things were great. After 6 months he asked me to marry...
A. 3 February 2007: if he is alternitively manipulitive or mentally or physicaly abusive and then so sweet, kind, apologetic, and good for a while and then bad again, then good.... he is deffitly a classic abusive boyfriend. As time goes on... things will get worse ... (read in full...)
Is he flirting with me?
Q. I like this guy, who is so cute, since last year and still do.we were friends last year,but now he doesn't talk to me.He always blushes when he sees me,looks at me but looks away when I see him,and some times pokes me! Is he flirting with me?...
A. 3 February 2007: yes, blushing and looking away quick when u notice him cheacking you out, and pokeing you (thus acting like a silly little kid, but still makeing body contact) are all signs he's flirting with you. so ask him to hang out sometime! he sounds like hes ... (read in full...)
Anal sex hurt like hell for me--is it supposed to hurt the first time?
Q. Is anal supposed to hurt the first time? First few times? I tried it with my bf and it was the most painful thing I'd ever experienced!!! Is this normal? We used a condom that was heavily lubed, but it still killed! Is this normal?...
A. 2 February 2007: it most likely hurt because you both were too rushed. Did you take your time getting ready, by useing lots of lube and toys that start small and gradualy get bigger untill it is comfertable for him to go in... and slowly barely inch his way in ... (read in full...)
Confused about my sexuality...can you help me?
Q. hi I'm so confused about things at the moment. i could really do with some advice. okay my problem is about my sexuality. I'm confused because i am only attracted to guys and am not interested in doing anything sexually physical with a girl, yet. i ...
A. 2 February 2007: i don't think you are bisexual at all, because if you hate giveing a blow job, of course u'll hate looking at a penis and vice-versa. many girls don't like givieng a blowjob, weither because they are repullshed because of what it is also used for ... (read in full...)
We lost a baby and I want another one desperately.My bf says no! What can I do?
Q. My boyfriend and i, got pregnant last year, but we lost it, my boyfriend now says he is not ready to try again but i am desperate to have a baby and jus feel lost and empty without being pregnant or having a baby! Please help me i dont no what to do ...
A. 2 February 2007: i hate saying this because i know it will upset you, but i feel i must warn you before you go through anymore greif and tramma from haveing a lost child. You are young, and since you are young your body is not yet fully devloped (even if it looks ... (read in full...)
Newly marrried and everytime I have sex with my husband, I laugh uncontrollably. What can I do?
Q. Hi, I`m newly marrried and everytime I have sex with my husband, tend to laugh uncontrollably. we`re just not able to have sex because of ths. pls pls help!!...
A. 2 February 2007: oh.. one more thing i forgot... .... if he has a funny "sex face"... and thats what is makeing you laugh, just keep your eyes closed! :0D... (read in full...)
Newly marrried and everytime I have sex with my husband, I laugh uncontrollably. What can I do?
Q. Hi, I`m newly marrried and everytime I have sex with my husband, tend to laugh uncontrollably. we`re just not able to have sex because of ths. pls pls help!!...
A. 2 February 2007: some people just naturaly laugh during sex or orgasims, i've had orgasims that have felt great, but seemed to tickle my whole body as well, so i would laugh and giggle uncontrolably for a while after! i've even had a b/f who found this to be a huge ... (read in full...)
I find it hard to move on as I have still got hope we will get back together.Anyone been through this?
Q. Hi, this is probably going to be a bit long but i feel that it will do me good to write my feelings down and maybe get some advice from other people! Me and my ex girlfriend had been going out for over 3years. We were both young when we met (i w...
A. 1 February 2007: yes... i've been through that.... and it was much worse because it eventually lead to deep depression and suicidal attempts.... so please dont let that happen to you!
me and my first b/f met in homeroom freshman year of highschool, and dated al... (read in full...)
What do I get him for Valentines' Day..that shows I really care?
Q. hi all i am meetin this lad on valentines day hes kinda like my boy friend, and we r gettin each other cards and pressies for valentines day. but i dint have a clue wat to get him. im dreadin turning up on valnetines wiv wiv sumthin small and stupid ...
A. 1 February 2007: bake him some cookies!!! thats what i did for my first b/f on our first heart day, and i put them in a paper bag i had decorated, and had cut a heart out of which i then coverd by tapeing some pink plastic wrap to the back (inside) of so when you ... (read in full...)
I'm gay and I don't enjoy sex! What can I do to begin enjoying it?
Q. Hi i am Gay male of 21, i av had sex many times but the one thing i cant seem to do is enjoy it, never have enjoyed sex at all, and im lost on what i can do to enjoy it, me and my partner have had sex yet, not just because of my problem but because ...
A. 1 February 2007: Does it hurt because it is too tight, or because it's a bit rushed? Do you always take your time getting ready, by useing lots of lube and toys that start small and gradualy get bigger untill it is comfertable for him to go in/you to go in? ... (read in full...)
Why do people lie about there sexuality?
Q. Why do people lie about there sexuality? i understnad if they dont want to shout it from the roof tops but why lie? why are they ashamed of the person they like?...
A. 1 February 2007: i take it from this letter that you are in this situation, where your g/f is scared of being intaminte in public with you, or of introducing you to her family as her g/f, though perhaps someone close to you is in the situation.
i really don't kn... (read in full...)
I have gone off sex with my husband...how do I get back on track. Any suggestions?
Q. OK, so here's my problem. I have been married to my husband for nearly a year now, we get on great and he is a total gent to me (most of the time), except when it comes down to sex. I have totally gone off it, I'm just not interested in it at all. ...
A. 29 January 2007: nothing is wrong with you... what is wrong is that, from your letter at least, it seems as if your man dosun't take his time in trying to please you at all and wants to have sex without the proper forplay to get you aroused and ready. Women do take ... (read in full...)
I'm asking her out for Valentine's Day! How do I go in for the kiss? Any tips?
Q. i want to ask this girl out on a few dates before valentine's day. than on valentines day i would like to ask her out. i'm plannin to watch movie with her and hopefully kiss her durin the movie. i really dunno how to! help! how do i go in for the ...
A. 29 January 2007: first off, i have to say "awwwwwwwwwwwww"
ahem... yes... sorry :0)
one thing you could do, is jsut to ask her if you can kiss her. this may seem silly, but i bet it will create a ton of butterflies in her tummy and then u will know it's a... (read in full...)
he ended it saying he doesn't feel the same. Will he come back?
Q. Hi. I have been with my bf for two years (well, it would have been two years next week). It all started off wonderful, and to the end to me, it was still wonderful. I loved him, and he loved me. We were living together for six months. However, ...
A. 28 January 2007: I think it is best to try to move on. Though you loved him very much, and obviosuly still do, he has told you he no longer feels that desire, and you both actually tried again, nd once again he told you the same thing. You were very lucky for both ... (read in full...)
I can't go be with him in London and he can't come to me. Will we make this work or not?
Q. me and my boyfriend have been in a long distance relationship for 1yr and nearly 6months. weve been very happy and have always spoke about our future. we was planning to move in together within the next year or two and also start a family but ...
A. 28 January 2007: He obviously cares about you very much to beable to risk loseing you so you can get the most out of your life, which he must feel hes in the way of. It is said that to truley love someone, is to let them go.... This has happend to me in my first ... (read in full...)
Can I learn to deepthroat?
Q. my boyfriend says that the only time a girl is good at giving head is when she can deep throat. how do you do that? he's fairly large in the trouser department. 8 inches. so i'm guessing it wont be easy but i want him to enjoy it so i gotta learn ...
A. 27 January 2007: though i dissagree very much with your man's statement that its the "only" way for him to be pleasured orally, i can give you a few tips.
if YOU realllly want to try to deepthroat you will have to overcome your gag reflex. you will have to relax... (read in full...)
I want to have more sex and eventually have a baby - but my husband has a VERY low labido! I'm worried and depressed.
Q. please some one give me some advice. I am very recently married - we have known eachother for years and our sexual dinamics are definately different - i have always enjoyed sex but although I love my husband in other ways I wouldnt say we have ...
A. 27 January 2007: Has he always had a very low sex drive, or is this something a bit more recent? There can be mannnny reasons for a man to not want to have sex, and it is true that some men are born with a very low, allmost non-existant sex drive. I do belive ... (read in full...)
I'm so in love with my boyfriend. The only thing I want is a baby with him...Why?
Q. I love babies...Oh my Gosh, do I LOVE babies! I want one so bad, but I know I'm way too young to have one. I don't have a job, but my boyfriend does. It's not a very well-paying job, though. For this reason, I know having a baby wouldn't be the ...
A. 27 January 2007: Ah yes... babies, drooling poop machines that cry all night long so you can try to take care of them on hardly any sleep. I am glad you understand that haveing a child now is not a good idea for the money involved is very great, not to mention long ... (read in full...)
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