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He has lost interest in sex, and blames me!

Q.   I have been in an almost 7 year relationship. We have been through a lot this last year from September 2005 to now having moved twice. We met in NYC where neither of us had any real friends since we were both new to that city. Then we moved to a ...

A.   7 September 2006: I think he loves you it's obvious, but I think Davie is right in what he said, he's felt unworthy and rejected for a whole year but has still loved you through it, I think he is very hurt and wounded, now you're complaining that he's turned you down ... (read in full...)

My obsessive bf, dumped me, but he says he just wants me to take a step back!? What should I do ?

Q.   My bf who used to obssess about me dumped me after 10 months, how do I get over him? He was the perfect bf, never cheated, always loyal. And he is so hot, he had to turn down a lot of girls. But when we went to college he suddenly changed, he aske...

A.   6 September 2006: oh my god! lose him he is messing you about, he's trying to have his cake and eat it. he is just making excuses, i know its hard but move on, your at college now there should be plenty of new people to meet - and i'm sure thats what hes thinking ... (read in full...)

My bf doesnt like feeling excluded, but I really want this weekend with the girls, its going to cause a huge rift.. how do I approach this ?

Q.   I am in a long term relationship (8+years) with my fiance. We have a sore spot in our relationship - my girlfriends. We don't meet often because of distance and careers (maybe 3-4 times a year for dinner) but he gets very upset he is not included. ...

A.   6 September 2006: i think your fiance has some insecurities and trust issues! when you ask your partner if you can see your friends it shouldn't really be a question! and if he answers no then TELL him you're going. i know you said you don't want to cause a rift ... (read in full...)

I have a bit of a problem with my penis, Im worried it will cause probs in my relationship...

Q.   This is quite embarrassing for me. But i'm getting increasingly worried and anxious about it. I'm 16, I have been going out with my girlfriend for 11months nearly. Our relationship is great, and things are great as they are, but we have yet to ...

A.   6 September 2006: if your girlfriend has never had sex before then i doubt she will even notice, i doubt she will even know what a penis is supposed to look like! would you know if a little bit of skin was a little bit out of place on her?? don't worry about it so ... (read in full...)

I got together with the guy I had the affair with, it seems hes not as comitted.. does he love me ?

Q.   5 years ago I fell in love with someone and we had an affair for over 2 years and then left our partners, our partners never found out that we had an an affair. We then dated for about a year and then moved in together. Now he says he doesn't know ...

A.   6 September 2006: hun i know its hard but u need to leave him, your relationship was built on deceit to start with, by simply postponing the idea of children at 50 he is obviously not happy with the idea. if you want something that u honestly doubt hes going to give ... (read in full...)

He has lost interest in sex, and blames me!

Q.   I have been in an almost 7 year relationship. We have been through a lot this last year from September 2005 to now having moved twice. We met in NYC where neither of us had any real friends since we were both new to that city. Then we moved to a ...

A.   6 September 2006: Hey, maybe your partner resents you for some things in the past and he is just saying nasty things that he doesn't mean. my boyfriend and i have been together for almost a year now and i know that he loves me more than anything on earth, but ... (read in full...)

Amazing boyfriend, with only one problem... his ex-girlfriend

Q.   I am 24 and have an amazing boyfriend. We have been together 10 months and we have everything I have ever wanted in a relationship-- an amazing connection on every level. We (I) only have one problem: his ex-girlfriend. They were together for 2 ...

A.   6 September 2006: Hey Hun, I feel so sorry for you but as an outsider without all the emotions involved I can see things a bit more clearly. I don't think u have anything to worry about, it is totally natural to feel so distressed about something like this espe... (read in full...)

On a break with my current GF and I still love my ex!

Q.   Hey guys, well i posted 1 before this and i just wanted some other opinions on what ppl in this situation have done. I'm on a break with my g/f of 2 1/2 years, but my ex who i have loved for 4 years wants me. What do i do?...

A.   6 September 2006: Don't ruin what u hav with ur girlfriend because of temptation u might be really disappointed. the grass isn't always greener on the other side. do u love ur current girlfriend? is it worth ending it for someone u obviously had problems with ... (read in full...)

He hurt me and now what we have is a shadow of what we had before!!

Q.   I was hurt by my boyfriend, I understand how it happened, he understand why I was hurt. It was unfortunate. He's sorry about it. Problem is I don't feel as much for him as I did. Don't get me wrong I still love him, need him and care about him. It's ...

A.   6 September 2006: Hun I kind of know how u feel iv just posted a question but think it will be wayyy too long to post. Iv been with my boyfriend for almost a year but because he is so insecure and jealous hes said some awful things to me throughout the relationship. ... (read in full...)

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