He gives me gifts. Should I feel guilty dating others?
Q. I should not be asking this question at my age..so but in any case this is the least of my worries.. I am divorced, awaiting unemployment, my son is grown, I am mostly college educated, totally at a crossroads of my life..so other than not having m...
A. 10 April 2009: Don't use him, either to prop up your ego or because you like the gifts. Be honest and straightforward.
And please, you're divorced, your son is grown, be a slut and don't feel guilty about it. You've earned it. Women got liberated don't ya know?... (read in full...)
How to tell my husband
Q. About 6 months ago me and my husband were having problems with money and we have a daughter 9 months old. He works long hours working, I was feeling lonley one night as my daughter woulnd't stop crying so I contacted my ex just for company he made ...
A. 10 April 2009: Woah, DO NOT TELL HIM.
Two things are going to happen if you do.
1. You'll both be miserable, lots of agony, fighting hurt feelings etc. and you'll get divorced.
2. You'll both be miserable, lots of agony, fighting hurt feelings etc. and y... (read in full...)
Her past FWB, it's killing me...
Q. Hello. I'll cut right to the chase. I am falling in love with this girl i've been dating for 5 months. She told me she is falling for me. She is everything I'm looking for in a woman...elegant, smart, driven, charming, sexy, successful. One nigh...
A. 10 April 2009: Can I pile on? 5 guys when she's 30 is nothing. You need to either forget about it or turn it into a sexual fantasy or something. You're not going to find many chicks only with a 5 count at her age.... (read in full...)
I'm 21 and want to be living life to the fullest
Q. Hi, just wondering if anyone has ever felt like this. I was with my boyfriend for five years from the age of 15, we broke up five months, I liked a guy friend of mine a lot, but nothing came of it and he let me down. I dated recently and the guy ...
A. 10 April 2009: Hey, I'm 30 and want to be living life to the fullest too. Just work hard, have fun, don't pass up opportunities.
I've had periods where I haven't liked anyone either, then I met someone awesome.
Don't be worried about being a lesbian. If you ... (read in full...)
There must be a way to get him to like me! Any suggestions?
Q. I need help. I'm in seventh grade, and I've liked this boy since 3rd grade! We've been best friends for ever, but thats all. Tons of people say that I should just try to ask him out, but the thing is, I know he'll either say no, or walk away. L...
A. 10 April 2009: Sounds like he's too young for a relationship even if you're not. By 9th grade he should notice you if he's ever going to. If it winds up he doesn't like you there is virtually no chance of ever winning him over. Girls can be won over, but guys ... (read in full...)
I am scared of getting hurt again but feel like he is the right person for me.
Q. I have been dating this guy but he lives in another town. I am very unsure of what he wants and I don't think he even knows. He tells me that he wants to move by me to work, but he wants to stay living where he is because that is where his family ...
A. 10 April 2009: Honestly if it were me I'd totally put myself out there and if I got her I got hurt and I'd enjoy every minute of it. I used to be timid and afraid of getting hurt, but now I'll even let people use me fully knowing they're doing it. I just put ... (read in full...)
I hate my life right now and all I want to do is cry...
Q. I currently hate my life. First my boyfriend of four years breaks up with me and I have to move back home, where my parents who are retired now and are always around. Then the transmission on my car breaks. I can't afford to fix it because my ...
A. 10 April 2009: Well, a psychologist would say you have clinical depression and most likely put you on drugs. I say your life actually sucks and you have a reason to feel bad.
Here is the thing though. You're young, a lot of stuff is going to happen to you in l... (read in full...)
My wife cheated with a 72 year old man. What do I do?
Q. I'm 28, my wife's 26. We have a 5-year-old son. Last night she said to me she had something to confess. I listened as she aadmitted to me she'd been having an affair with a 72-year-old man and that it was basically just sex for her, and that the...
A. 10 April 2009: Sounds like she has some psychological problems. There is way to little information to tell honestly. She could have a daddy issue, want out of the marriage but is too passive to say so, she was molested by a much older man when she was young etc.
... (read in full...)
Fiance kissed another woman! Is this my fault?
Q. I have been with my fiance 9 months and its not been easy. We have had a few rows but have always worked through them. However things have taken a turn for the worse. My fiance kissed another woman. It happened when he was on a nite out with friends ...
A. 10 April 2009: I'm not sure what to make of him calling and telling you. Maybe he felt guilty and needed to unburden himself? Personally if I screwed up I wouldn't want to cause any pain to my significant other unless there was a good reason.
You guys sound li... (read in full...)
Why won't he tell me the truth that he cheated?
Q. I found out that my boyfriend cheated. i confronted him about it, but he denies everything that was said. the sad part is we have kids. why wont he tell me the truth? what is he hidding?...
A. 10 April 2009: Hardcore cheaters never admit it ever. Even if they're caught red handed. And if they're forced they'll say, "It was only that one time." etc.
You need to take care of yourself. If you're just saying with him because you're not 100% sure he cheat... (read in full...)
Is it worth saving my marriage?
Q. My husband is cheating on me and wants a divorce. He actually hasn't admitted to the cheating, he just said he wanted a divorce because he doesn't love me. I found out he was spending a lot of time with a woman at work, going out with her, talking ...
A. 10 April 2009: I feel I know the answer to this but you probably won't like it.
He's found someone else that he thinks he's rather be with, that's why he's asking for the divorce. The ONLY chance you have is to give him what he wants and leave the door open to ... (read in full...)
Should I trust my g/f? She got drunk and stayed in a hotel with another guy
Q. My girlfriend won't come anywhere near me.She treats me like some sort of idiot. We have been together for some 8 months now and haven't slept together. She has had quite a few previous sexual partners, myself having had only 1. Recently she got ...
A. 10 April 2009: Sounds like she's not the least bit attracted to you. You probably spend a lot of money of her trying to buy her affection. If she's taking sexy underwear to a hotel room with a dude she's having sex. Either you are an idiot like she treats you and ... (read in full...)
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