Boyfriend never makes the effort to see me!
Q. Hi :) Ok so here's my problem. I have been with my boyfriend for about 18 months and love him very much. He's in his final year of Med School and will be a qualified doctor in July. Obviously he is very busy at the moment with studying and I do my ...
A. 6 March 2011: The last few months of medschool are much more difficult that the actually first years in the hospital. I am in the same program and basically, you wont get to see him all that much from now until he gets settled in a hospital. You just have to ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend has started sharing her past with me and I wish she wouldn't!
Q. Basically I'm insanely jealous about my girlfriend's past sex life. She is my first, and she has had 4 before me. Now, at first I didn't care since I didn't know who those people were and I didn't know any details. I was happy with it staying like ...
A. 6 March 2011: Basically im in the same situation as you, almost exactly, except im a couple years younger and she only had it with 3 instead of 4. Heres how these things work: Because of her past sexual experences you will NEVER have a healthy marriage if your... (read in full...)
If a guy is using you, would he actually add you on facebook?
Q. Ok,if this helps,we're both 23 and he's a uni student.I'm not sure it will but hey...Anyway,my question is if a guy is using you would he actually add you on facebook-I mean,what if his other girls are on his facebok too and I contacted one of ...
A. 6 March 2011: Are you telling us that this guy is using you or asking us?... (read in full...)
Why do guys always go for girls who treat them like trash?
Q. Hi I have a question, why guys never respect the girls who are nice to them and always go after the girls who treat them like trash....
A. 6 March 2011: Right now im in a relationship with someone who treats me like trash for one reason. Sex. She doesnt treat me well but she loves having sex with me, and even though im a guy and the social norm says i should be fine with that, i really dont like it. ... (read in full...)
I'm very happy with my man, but his contribution to our sex life is insufficient...
Q. ive been in a relationship with my boyfriend for a year and a half. im a 24yr old man and he is 26. i work 9-5 and he works and studies. we love each other immensely. unlike a number of gay men i have met, ive never been someone who puts sex before ...
A. 6 March 2011: Im not that experienced when it comes to increasing the libido of a gay man, but im assuming it would probably be the same as with a straight man. Maybe try to plan an evening together doing something you both, (Or just him) love. If that doesnt ... (read in full...)
I want to lose my virginity. But she is adventurous and much more experienced. Is my disgust at this acceptable?
Q. Although I am semi-religious, I have never accepted the idea of saving yourself to marriage to have sex.. That may have worked back in the old days, but now, society has evolved in a way that sex is almost mandatory for a healthy relationship. ...
A. 6 March 2011: And its asshole guys like mdw that make me wonder if i should even be emotionally attached to any girl... Considering all the assholes who just use girls get more respect and seem to be happier in and out of a relationship..... (read in full...)
He betrayed me and I can't trust him anymore!
Q. im in desprate need of some sort of help! ive been with him for nearly 3years and i just feel so helpless right now. i love him but i know love only is not a valid reason to stay with him.. we're each others first gf/bf, first kiss, first h...
A. 3 March 2011: First of all, I would just like to make a point i've made to several other people on this site. Sex after marriage worked 50 years ago, however, unless you are totally isolated from all media outlets, (and since you have internet, that is not the ... (read in full...)
Is he shy or has he lost interest?
Q. has he lost intresed in me or is he shy ? the man i really like we still look at one another an he comes over an will hug me but its one of theses do not touch each other body . just a hug around my the middle of my back an i do him the same way...
A. 3 March 2011: At your age, if you have marriage in mind i would just ask him on a date. If not, and you still are looking for just a sexual fling, do something flirtatious towards him and check his response... (read in full...)
I can't help but worry about an up coming stag do..
Q. Hey, I'd love some advice, especially from guy readers, on what really happens on stag nights. I've been with my bf for 5 months. Everything's going great, he's told me he loves me and that he's really happy we're together. We've planned a weekend ...
A. 3 March 2011: Unless him and his friends are known cheaters, stag nights are just usually a couple of beers and watchin a few games. Sometimes they get a little more wild, like at a stripclub, but there is nothing you should be worrying about because, like i ... (read in full...)
Am I overthinking this?
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for a year and a half now. We live about an hour and a half apart and have been discussing moving closer together recently. I have been some what hesitant because she is allergic to cats and my parents have cats and I ...
A. 3 March 2011: That doesnt seem like a problem at all.. She doesnt have to actually go into your parents house, just invite them to supper with you once in a while ... (read in full...)
How do I resist the urge to look up filth on the internet?
Q. Hi. It's me again. I have a psychological problem or maybe just a bad habit. I keep looking up pornography on the internet (sometimes vision of drunk women being taken advantage of) and I feel guilty about it later on. I once spoke to an expert ...
A. 3 March 2011: Sometimes I also watch stuff about girls being drunk and taken advantage of, etc. There is nothing wrong with it, its just something in a males mind in which they enjoy being dominant, but as long as your not going out and using the date rape drug, ... (read in full...)
Do men actually like this?
Q. Do guys like giving oral to girls??? I mean do they like fingering, and going down and you know? The taste, the look, when it's clean and partially shaven. I am so trying to explain this well, but just really wanted to know if they like kissin...
A. 3 March 2011: If they have good hygiene and I really like them then yes, its great... (read in full...)
I told him I loved him and he said he loves spending time with me!!!
Q. Please take the time to read I would really appreciate ANY advice... I am in a relationship with a wonderful man who does a lot for me and I've fallen in love with him. We've been together 5 months, get on great and have a good physical connect...
A. 3 March 2011: I Love You can be very powerful... I remember when I was dating a girl, whom i lost my virginity to (she had lost it at 16, but we were both 18 when i gave her mine), right after our first time, she said "I love you" and out of impulse i responded ... (read in full...)
I want to lose my virginity. But she is adventurous and much more experienced. Is my disgust at this acceptable?
Q. Although I am semi-religious, I have never accepted the idea of saving yourself to marriage to have sex.. That may have worked back in the old days, but now, society has evolved in a way that sex is almost mandatory for a healthy relationship. ...
A. 3 March 2011: I just dont know why I am so disturbed by everything that she's done... Im not into the whole Chirstian-purity thing but Im afraid ill just feel disgusting after i give her my virginity and i dont know if she will even appreciate it or will just ... (read in full...)
I find hard to imagine only having sex with my boyfriend for the rest of my life.
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for over two years now, he was my first boyfriend and I lost my virginity to him. I love him and can see myself spending my life with him. For some time now I have been finding it hard to imagine only having sex with ...
A. 3 March 2011: To be honest, its almost impossible to stay with the person you loose your virginity to. The girl i lost mine to was kind've slutty and had lost hers 2 years before I met her at age 16. I was still a virgin at 18 and there was nothing more i w... (read in full...)
Bumps from shaving..how can I tell him its not an std?
Q. I'm really ready for sex with my boyfriend for 6 months but,I am uncomfortable with these little bumps on my vagina from shaving what should I do.? I can't tell him he will think I have a STD ...
A. 3 March 2011: Guys have it too.. Dont worry, we all have the same issue and trust me, once your lying together naked little marks wont matter and wont stop you... (read in full...)
All my friends are losing their virginity will I be left out
Q. Dear Cupid I'm 16 years old and I'm still a virgin, all of my friends are loosing their virginity and soon I feel like I'm going to be the only one left, I think that I'm ready for sex but I'm scared at the same time and very self conscious about my...
A. 3 March 2011: First find a guy and date him for ATLEAST 4-5 months before you have sex.. Make sure you're truly confortable with him. And just FYI, the longer you wait, the more appreciative a guy you will get (My gf lost her virginity at 15, and I met her at 18. ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my boyfriend I'm ready for sex?
Q. So, here's the problem- my boyfriend and i have been dating for nearly a year. I am ready and willing to have sex with him, However i don't know how to tell him i'm ready. Should i just suduce him? Should i start touching him while kissing? i have ...
A. 3 March 2011: Have you even started doing anything sexual yet? Because if not, the best way to do it is to start at the little stuff, such as touching, and work your way up to things like oral and eventually sex (probably all not in one night though). If you have ... (read in full...)
Is kissing one's friends and fooling around a little ok, even if you have a partner?
Q. Not exactly a problem, but simply out of curiosity: is kissing one's friends (as in french kissing) and fooling a little around ok, even when you have a partner? In my circle of friends it's pretty common that we kiss each other, a gesture that w...
A. 3 March 2011: If both partners are okay with it, that is fine for the short term. But that will not work in a long term relationship as eventually someone will want the other people out, or want more of the other people. Either way, if the 'mingling' continues it ... (read in full...)
I cheated on him when drunk but I suspect he cheated too!
Q. Okay, I'll probably get judged for this post but what the hell my head is FRIED!! I could seriously do with some non-judgmental advice, oh and by the way, don't tell me to break up with my bf cos it ain't gonna happen. Okay... Me and my bf have bee...
A. 3 March 2011: You shouldnt be worried about that other girl because cheating is unforgivable and he will leave you as soon as he finds out. Your older than me but your still at that point in your life, like many are, where they are unable to distinguish the ... (read in full...)
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