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"Never look down on someone unless you're helping them up" - Jesse Jackson

How can I overcome this jealousy?

Q.   Hello can anyone offer some advice to me My boyfriend and I have been together for about 6 months and he has this girl friend that he has known about a year. When we first got together he would always be out with her and she was constantly calling ...

A.   26 April 2012: Hmmm this is indeed a very sticky situation. I as a woman have guy friends as well as being in a relationship and i can maintain and be friends with these guys without crossing the line. What appears to be odd to me is that he has spent the night ... (read in full...)

Can you make somebody love you?

Q.   Hi, I am confused. I know this girl who I have feelings for. But she has no emotional connection to me. She is not interested in dating me. A friend of mine and I saw the movie Cinema Paradisio, where the main character sits under the window of a ...

A.   26 April 2012: I'm going to be very honest with you, it is very sweet that you are willing to do almost anything to win over this girls heart. But you might be living in movie-ville where a lot of things happen in movies, that don't actually happen in real life. ... (read in full...)

Why havent I found love? I am 23 and still a virgin, I've never even had a real relationship!

Q.   I have reached a point in life where things should happen. as I write this massage, I am 23 years of age, still a virgin and never had any real relationship, yes I have accepted the fact that this is my situation, I might not find love, but most of ...

A.   26 April 2012: You need to try to be less absorbed in finding love, it will come when you least expect it. I would suggest getting involved in school and finding a career that suits you. You are still very young, and have plenty of time to find love. If you are ... (read in full...)

Together a year and worried our relationship is not going anywhere, what should I do?

Q.   I don't know what to do with my relationship with my boyfriend. I asked him if he sees us living together and having a family,and he says he wants kids one day. Lately I just feel he just wants things to stay the way they are. We have not done ...

A.   25 April 2012: you ask what i would do so i will answer honestly, I would sit him down and confront him on the things that were bothering me. I would ask him if he is happy in the relationship, and also ask where he would see you guys down the road a couple of y... (read in full...)

Am I getting into the wrong relationship?

Q.   I am 10 months into a relationship after a painful divorce. My previous marriage consisted of 1 son and a step daughter. My girlfriend has 1 son and we get on. my main concern is my (ex) step daughter. My girlfriend is constantly telling me stop ...

A.   25 April 2012: It appears to me that you are questioning the position you are in for a reason. I'm not sure to that i can tell you factually that you are in the wrong relationship, but here is what i can tell you~ I believe there is nothing wrong with seeing your ... (read in full...)

After years of little contact my father is giving gifts. I'm unsure how to react/feel about this

Q.   My father and i havent spoken properly for years we occasionally pase in the street if he is in the area and say hello and only keep in touch by letter. This is because he was an alcoholic and was physically abusive towards me and my mum throughout ...

A.   18 April 2012: If u feel bad about taking gifts from him, why don't u do something like sell it and donate money to the needy. Or you could explore why he is trying so hard to win your approval with gifts. Some people have a hard time expressing their feelings, so ... (read in full...)

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